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In the last post we mentioned we launched a new podcast for you. We are pretty excited about it, especially because sometimes it's just so hard to explain complex topics on men, women and relationships via a blog post. It's also a rad way to learn from a guy vs girls perspective, so I hope it helps you tons. Tune in here on how men and women's brains work differently. Specifically the different types of focus men and women have. What us (women) are often thinking about and how men are able to literally zone out everything around them. It's amazing whichever brain your operating on. So Jairek will explain how a women's diffused awareness feels to a man, while I'll explain what it's like to be a woman who walks into a messy room, or who is making love with the lights on, or who is doing 5 things at once. If you're a guy, your mind will be blown. This is super important stuff because our brains operate so completely differently because they are VERY different. It affects so many areas of dating and relationships. For example, when I'm cooking, cleaning, and watching out pup, my husband might be trying to share something with me, yet feels like I'm completely ignoring them. I'm sure you can relate to this situation. Likewise, it's important to know because for men they are single focused, so they are only focused or literally able to do one thing at a time. Men are "single focused". It's really incredible how a man is able to be so laser focused on something will the world around them may be absolutely bonkers. On the flip side, because women's brains have much more connected tissue it allows them to essentially be far more connected to EVERYTHING going on around them be it a pillow out of place while in the middle of making love or cooking dinner while having a conversation and watching tv. Anyways, tune in and check out the goodness as we both dissect what and how it means when a women's environment speaks to her and how this affects your relationship and how to make the most of it! Enjoy!Amanda + Jairek As always, if you like this post please share it, or let us know your thoughts below!Subscribe above for more fun dating and relationship advice and tips by dropping your email in the box at the top of this page!   

Original post: http://www.helpmefindlove.net/what-is-attractive-in-men-and-women/In today's podcast we talk about the two different lists that men and women sort each other by. Well, that is the TWO lists that men have and ONE list women have. Why do men sort women? Because some are marriage material and others... are not. Why do women only have one list? Though it is not a rule across the board, many women are looking for long term relationships that are  "going some where", not just short term flings who may be "wasting" their prime years. Tune in and let us know what your take is, do you have 1 list, 2 lists, or more? Which list do you fall into? Which do the people you date typically fall into? If you're married, how did you know which list they matched up with?