Ep. #255: How Being Vulnerable Helps You Manifest
She thought vulnerability was a weakness…
Then it saved her marriage.
Kimberly was a strong, independent woman who had her stuff together.
Vulnerability didn't seem necessary, nor did she get it. It seemed weak, and that wasn't her.
The longer she was in The Enchanted Circle, the more she opened up without even really realizing it.
One day this "vulnerability thing" caught her attention, so she paid attention. She took it in, and when the moment came to save her marriage, she laid everything on the counter.
She was vulnerable. She told her husband how she felt and what she needed with-out filter, concern for looking weak, or what would happen next.
Join your host Cassie Parks as Kimberly Hite again joins her (for her fifth interview in this 7 part series) to discuss her recent journey of discovering vulnerability, using it to save her marriage, and taking her manifesting to the next level!
00:42: Cassie asks Kimberly what is awesome. Kimberly discusses how what she is scripting is showing up in her life, how she has recently gotten a couple of texts that are right out of her script, and how it is even better than what she is scripting.
01:28: Cassie talks about recording this interview in September 2020 and how Kimberly hearing another Enchanted Circle member talk about vulnerability brought new awareness into Kimberly's life.
01:53: Cassie asks Kimberly how she would have described being vulnerable in the past.
02:00: Kimberly talks about how she used to view being vulnerable as a weakness and wasn't even open to it. She admits that she would attempt to be vulnerable, but she always felt like she is a strong independent woman who doesn't need help to get what she wants, and the thought of opening up and being vulnerable scared her. She didn't see it on her radar and had no interest in going there. Kimberly admits that it was something that she didn't even realize that she was avoiding.
03:11: Kimberly talks about Mia getting on an Enchanted Circle call and being super vulnerable. Kimberly admits that she didn't know Mia well because she was usually quiet on calls and that that call was one of the first times Kimberly had heard Mia really talk. Kimberly admits that she was shocked that Mia put it all out there and was vulnerable because Kimberly always saw her as such a strong woman.
03:41: Kimberly talks about how Mia inspired her and how everything is always in alignment.
04:02: Kimberly talks about listening to Mia's interviews where she talked about being vulnerable, how it was scary, and how she asked for help that she wasn't used to asking for. 04:50:Kimberly goes on to talk about how listening to those interviews made her realize she wasn't being vulnerable and didn't know how to be.
05:10: Kimberly talks about how hearing those interviews came at the right time and how she didn't want to be vulnerable but hearing those interviews inspired her and made her realize that being vulnerable was the next step in her journey.
06:00: Kimberly talks about how her marriage was in trouble and that she was defaulting to trying to fix it, and it wasn't working
06:20: Kimberly talks about how hearing Mia's interviews brought awareness to vulnerability and that she then got a random message about marriage and being vulnerable. She discusses how she was inspired to speak her truth, be vulnerable and honest with her husband, and own that she wanted to be with him.
07:15: Kimberly talks about how it felt to speak to her husband and how it wasn't as bad or scary as she thought it might be.
07:30: Kimberly talks about how being vulnerable with her husband opened a door that allowed her and her husband to communicate in a way they never had before, and how it allowed her husband to speak his truth and admit that he felt like she didn't need him.
07:56: Kimberly talks about how being vulnerable opened up so many new things and how it was all because she followed inspiration.
08:13: Kimberly talks about how her husband moved back home and that everything started to change and shift because she was vulnerable.
08:28: Kimberly admits that she never thought being vulnerable was the answer to saving her marriage. She thought being vulnerable was being weak.
08:45: Kimberly discusses that she has realized that she is showing up more vulnerable every day and in all areas of her life, and gives an example of being vulnerable when doing a live video.
09:12: Kimberly talks about how being vulnerable has opened up so many opportunities.
09:20: Kimberly discusses how being vulnerable is still new and how she is in shock that it is opening up so many new things.
09:27: Kimberly talks about how it is scary to be vulnerable but that it is worth it and how the Enchanted Circle was essential in supporting her while she stepped into this new space.
09:38: Cassie talks about how it may seem new for Kimberly to be vulnerable, but she has been practicing being vulnerable in the Enchanted Circle for a while.
10:02: Cassie talks about how it is scary to be vulnerable, that that is why people avoid it, and how the Enchanted Circle is a safe place to practice and start being vulnerable.
10:16: Kimberly admits that she didn't even realize that she had been practicing vulnerability, and how she has to sit with the fact that she has been practicing being vulnerable for some time.
10:41: Kimberly talks about how Cassie always catches what she doesn't see in herself.
10:55: Cassie talks about how Kimberly has been stepping into being more and more vulnerable and that everything lines up even if you don't see it.
11:14: Cassie brings up how Kimberly found out something about her husband right before an Enchanted Circle call and, at first, felt that it was inconvenient timing. Once she was on the call, she realized that it was perfect timing, and it allowed her to fully feel everything that needed to be felt to then open up the space to save her marriage.
11:49: Kimberly talks about how she is just now putting together the dots of how she has gotten where she currently is.
12:06: Kimberly talks about how before that Enchanted Circle call, she was devastated; she remembers crying and talks about feeling her feelings and being in alignment.
12:39: Cassie discusses connecting the dots, how these interviews help her clients put things together, and how it is fun to watch that process.
13:00: Cassie discusses how after that interview with Mia, she didn't know if it should be the final in a year long series or the start of the next one, and how she went back and forth on whether or not to put that interview out at that time.
13:47: Cassie talks about how she decided it needed to come out when it did and how it was perfect.
13:54: Cassie talks about the Universe always working for us once we are clear about what we want and where we are going, and how things work behind the scenes.
14:05: Kimberly talks about how thankful she is that Cassie was inspired to release that interview when she did, how it was that interview that opened up so much for her, how it pushed her in a new way, and how the timing was perfect.
14:42: Kimberly talks about being forever grateful for Cassie and how it feels good to own being vulnerable.
15:08: Kimberly discusses how being vulnerable has increased her trust level and how that is straight out of her script.
15:20: Cassie talks about how if you aren't vulnerable, you are not trusting.
15:24: Kimberly talks about how scripting what she wants is bringing what she wants into her life, how priceless it is to work with Cassie, and how being in the Enchanted Circle has changed everything.
15:58: Kimberly discusses how excited she is to see what other opportunities the Universe has in store for her.
16:07: Cassie asks what advice Kimberly would give listeners about being vulnerable.
16:17: Kimberly talks about how being vulnerable is not a weakness and how it is actually a strength. She also discusses how joining the Enchanted Circle will give you the support system you need to become more vulnerable and change your life.
16:53: Cassie asks Kimberly if there is anything else she would like to share.
17:00: Kimberly closes out the interview by discussing how thankful she is for Cassie and that the Universe brought her into her life.
Be sure to join us next week for Kimberly's sixth interview in this 7 part series!!!!
Kimberly Hite is a magical artist who finds happiness in creating. She joined the Enchanted Circle because she had experienced moderate success on her own, but wanted more. By sharing her experience, she intends to inspire others on their journey to the happiness everyone deserves. When she's not following inspiration to create magic in her studio, you can find her laughing with her boys, scripting her Future Life and cheer leading others to live lives they love. If you would like to connect with Kimberly, the best place to find her is her personal Facebook page, Kimberly Hite.