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Manifesting Success Stories A Law of Attraction Show
35 minutes | Jun 9, 2021
What Does It Mean When You Go Back to Old Patterns?
In mid February of 2020, Jeanne had started to force things a bit. It wasn’t her fault. She had grown, she knew what inspiration was (you’ve heard that in previous interviews). She hugely stepped into her Future Self and was owning her title as the Menopause Guru on deeper and deeper levels. She was “becoming” in a big way. And then, her old stuff kicked back up. This is common as you’re growing. I see it in many of my clients. They grow and expand and all of a sudden they’re going back to old ways. This is a process of learning and creating new ways. All that is normal and you just have to learn to look out for it, or have a coach that does that for you. For Jeanne, I saw it. I saw the pushing starting up again. I saw the fear of money creeping in. And so, I gave her the assignment to ONLY do inspired things for 90 days. If it wasn’t 100% inspired, she couldn’t do it. What Jeanne really needed was space because her business was ready to evolve in a way she probably wasn’t ready to see yet. (You’ll hear about the big shift in a few episodes). When nothing is inspired, you need to put everything down. And she did. She took the coaching and at times, as you will hear in this interview, she felt stuck. Eventually, inspiration started to shine through and she started following it. Much of it had nothing to do with business, although it had everything to do with business. This space of not pushing allowed Jeanne to receive in new ways. It allowed her to really show up differently for her assignments, which allowed her to grow in new ways. She started her money manifested log again, and in three months she manifested $24,608.28. Growing is an evolution, which often requires returning to the basics. Listen to hear this moment in Jeanne's Journey!
43 minutes | Jun 2, 2021
MSS 272 The Steps to Manifest
There are many formulas for manifesting out there. If you’ve ever heard ask, believe, receive, I’m curious if that felt good to you. If you’re like almost everyone I’ve met, those steps don’t feel good because you get lost in trying to convince yourself to “believe”. If you’ve never been able to “believe” right away, you’re not alone. In fact, I’d say you are the norm. People struggle with this part. Here’s a formula that might work better for you. I’m going to include examples from Jeanne’s story, which you can hear here, so that you can get a little clearer picture. Plus I like real life examples. Set the intention-the money will show up to replace the fence Let go-no “hows” allowed Say no to what doesn’t feel good-she got some bids to replace the fence and said no when they didn’t feel good Say yes to what does feel good-inspired to do it herself, with her husband Follow inspiration-applied for 0% card at Home Depot (and got it) Trust-Bought supplies, not knowing where the money would come from to pay Receive-the money showed up Believe-use your successful experience to believe more is possible Apply this formula as it feels good
38 minutes | May 26, 2021
SMART Goals and The Law of Attraction
In this interview Jeanne talks about SMART goals as she learned them in her corporate days. Her experience is a little different than mine and really shaped how she tried to manifest. Jeanne talks about how this system works for tech goals (her former job), but doesn’t work for life goals, especially if you’re using the law of attraction to create your dreams. If you get confused about whether you should set goals while manifesting, listen to this interview.
25 minutes | May 19, 2021
Learning To Let Go Using The Law of Attraction
Learning to let go when using the Law of Attraction isn’t always easy. In fact, in this interview with Jeanne, she shares that in her 35(+) years of using LOA, that she doesn’t think she ever heard the “let go” part. This is a woman who would listen to Abraham for 2 hours at a time while she ran 8 miles. I’m sure they said it, she just didn’t HEAR it. Do you know how to set an intention and let go? It’s one of the things when using The Law of Attraction to create your dreams, that has a big impact on your success. It’s also something that takes practice and is learned by doing it over and over again. It gets easier every time you do it. Listen to hear Jeanne talk about how she started to hear you have to “let go” and how she’s practicing it to increase her success
42 minutes | May 12, 2021
Why The Law of Attraction Might Not Be Working
Jeanne used to think she broke the Law of Attraction and she was the only person it didn’t work for. What she realized is that she was doing it wrong, eventhough she was trying really hard to do it right. In this interview she describes the two things that were happening that were keeping her from manifesting success. She was listening to Law of Attraction guidance but none of it was specifically for her, so she could never figure out how to apply right. In her business she was looking for a magic bullet/system instead of to become The Menopause Guru.
51 minutes | May 5, 2021
MSS #268 Are Too Many Details Keeping You From Manifesting
It’s a puzzle in which you create some of the pieces and that makes more of the pieces appread. Most people want to start with the big stuff. Let’s say a new convertable. So they want to find all the pieces of that convertable and put them together. Only those pieces don’t exist yet. You have to put together the pieces with the wind blowing and music playing BEFORE the pieces to the convertable appear. You have to put together the road, which in the case of manifesting looks more like creating space. All those pieces have to be put togehter before the car pieces appear. Often that’s true of the money pieces as well, espeically when that money represents something big like a life-changing business. And once 95% of the puzzle is complete, you know the other 5% has to show up. In this episode Jeanne Andrus joins Cassie Parks again and they deep dive into the manifesting puzzle and how Jeanne figured out how to put it together.
36 minutes | Apr 28, 2021
MSS #267 What does inspired action look like?
Inspired action is crucial for using the law of attraction, especially if you are leveraging the Law of Attraction for business. For me inspired action feels like just doing it. I don’t think about it. I simply find myself doing it or checking something out randomly that leads to clarity or why later. For Jeanne she describes “inspired action” as “a good idea that she doesn’t have to do. She now identifies ideas that are not inspired as “feeling like they will change everything.” Join us today as we talk about what inspired action looks and feels like as well as much more manifesting magic. Welcometo this episode. I am your host, Cassie parks, and I am back with the menopause guru, John Andrus for her 19th interview in her years of growth series. Jeanne Andrus 00:34 - 00:38 Welcome John. Hi Cassie. How are you Fabulous. Cassie Parks 00:38 - 00:41 tell us, how has your future self been showing up Jeanne 00:40 - 00:55 My future self has been showing up confident, happy, excited, and she's been having a super time this past weekend, which has been the most gorgeous fall weekend you would ever imagine. Cassie Parks 00:54 - 01:01 I love it. And so what's awesome because of how confident she's showing up in all the other ways she's showing up. Jeanne 01:01 - 01:29 What's awesome is the ability to relax into and really enjoy myself when I do take a break. So this weekend was a weekend off week. My husband and I just had a blast doing stuff like playing golf and going out to cocktail parties and going to the Renaissance fair and just that's awesome. Cassie 01:29 - 01:36 And so when you say relax into it, what does that mean and how is that different than the way he used to do life Jeanne 01:36 - 01:51 one of the things that I used to do is, sort of second guess myself, when I'd take a weekend off, should I be home and working, should, what should I be doing I shouldn't be an and shitting all over myself. Jeanne 01:54 - 02:24 I should be home working in the yard or I should be doing this or that, or the other thing. And the truth is that we work so hard when we work and it's really to give us the life we want. So it's stupid not to take advantage of that life. Right. And yet for so long, it's probably what happened, right Yeah. Yeah. Totally more your future self. I love it. Cassie 02:24 - 03:10 so last time we talked about showing up and this realization, that is so important and so powerful that your job is to show up is not, it's not about the results, like the results, aren't your job, your job is to show up. And so how has it been going, showing up I'm getting a little bit, so I've continued to show up both on my, my regular, my business, Facebook page and on my regular Facebook page and in real life and being willing to own who I am and what do, and this oddball thing that I do, because it's, sometimes it certainly turns a lot of guys faces red when I say what I do. Speaker 2 03:11 - 04:06 but it's then being able to put them at ease and say, it's okay, this is part of life. And I think from, for a long time that got in the way of me being able to really just show up and say, this is what I do. And so even though I'm not pushing as much and I, I did, I did this massive thing in September and in October, there was a step back from that a little bit. And I, it kind of normal so that it's not normal to show up. And sometimes it's normal not to show up, not to be there for a day or two. And that's okay. But it feels, it just doesn't feel as stressful to do the showing up. That's awesome. And I think that's what happens when we push ourselves to show up in a really big way, then the sort of the normal becomes easy. Speaker 2 04:06 - 04:53 Yes. And it becomes very like, yeah. First is if we would have, you know, and I think we have said before, like, let's aim for, what's your normal now, you know, your normal amount of showing up and posting aiming for that in the past has felt hard. But once you go all in, you know, then that's easy, right. Because that was really hard and the commitment to that and to showing up and showing up and showing up over the top, I'm a big fan of like going over the top in the beginning because that coming back to normal then feels easy. Yes. Yeah. Really does. That's awesome. And, and I will admit, there were times in October where I didn't do as much as I had hoped to, but it just feel everything that I'm doing is feeling much more easy and much more normal. Cassie 04:54 - 05:58 It's awesome. Yeah. Even the toughest of your topics, I saw show up on October in October, which was awesome. Yeah. I love it. And as a result, which is not based on, but the results are fun, right. When we, when we B, which is the showing up, instead of try and get to the results, right. When you do the being the results happen and for you, that means you have more people registered for your hot flashes webinar, how to be a hot flash, short timer then anytime before. Right Right. So new people. And it's been, it's been easy to say. I put out a series of three posts yesterday and today one yesterday and two today with four little pictures put together and, you know, sort of like which one of these causes your hot flashes and then not answering the question. And so now I've got engagement over that stuff that it just feels way more normal and way more easy Jeanne 05:58 - 06:26 To do. And now I've got engagement on that. So when people said, which one is right, I've said, come back to the webinar, come to the seminar and find out, and I know two or three of those people have actually registered for the seminar. So that's really awesome. That is awesome. And I will leave say that posts sounds super inspired. Like super, just, this would be a great idea. Not thinking, how can I do this But like, Oh, this would be a cool post. No, Speaker 2 06:28 - 06:44 Yesterday morning. And I realized, Oh, I should put a picture of Coke and a picture of coffee and a picture of beer and a picture of orange juice and say, which one of these calls doesn't cause hot flashes. And then I said, Oh, I could do that with food. And I could do that with, Speaker 3 06:45 - 07:02 So I did three of these posts and boosted them a little bit. But most of the, most of the engagement I've gotten has been from people who are already people that are friends and have seen it on my personal page. Amazing. Right. Cause Speaker 2 07:02 - 07:04 That is a, that's been a big thing in the past Speaker 3 07:04 - 07:10 Is how do we, like, how do we let those people know And the answer was, let them know what you Speaker 2 07:10 - 07:14 Good. Great. Tell them, tell them, I know Speaker 3 07:14 - 07:23 It seems so silly, but it's a big deal. And it's not just a big deal for you. Somebody listening to this, it's, it's a big deal for a lot of people, right. Speaker 2 07:23 - 07:30 If I can do it about menopause, you guys could do it about life coaching, whatever the topic is. Right. Speaker 3 07:31 - 08:22 Always a fear and it feels easy. And this, you brought up a good thing. Like somebody, like for me, I'm like, Oh yeah, you just post this, this and this or this about menopause. Right. And somebody else probably thinks the same thing, but because it's not about the topic, we just make ourselves think it's about the topic because we're justifying in our brain and try and explain what it's hard instead of just being like, I'm scared of showing and owning this new person. Right. It becomes about, well, my topic is too hard. People don't want to hear about it. There's too many of this people already talk about it. It's taboo. Like the list goes on. Cause that's what our brains do. Yeah. Yeah. So I think that's awesome. There's something else you said, Oh, I want to know how does it feel Cause cause now you've entered this new level and I, it started happening a couple of weeks ago. Speaker 3 08:22 - 08:56 I saw it happen, with the Facebook background, you know, that was perfect for hot flashes. Like they made it, they made the perfect background, which is alignment. Right. You didn't even have to go into canvas or something else and create it. You just got to create it. And it easy. Right. It's easier. so you've kind of went from this place where it was like, I have no idea what to say or I'm always saying sort of, I don't know how to make the things fit. And I know it's talked to my people right. And learn how to talk to your people and then show up. And then the showing up phase and you've Speaker 2 08:56 - 09:51 Hit inspiration, which is so how does it feel to wake up and be like, that would be a good post. And then that would be a good post in to get the thing that you, the results from that. well I think the hard part of that is that I tend to wake up at four 30 or five o'clock with those inspirations and that's awfully early. Well, it is, let's keep the inspiration coming, but that's it's, it really is. It's like I get up I'm there was a point when I started this, when I was excited about what I was doing and then sort of got stuck in all of the stuff and all of the it's not working and I don't know how to do this and I don't know how to do so. There was a place where it wasn't nearly as much fun, super fun. Speaker 2 09:51 - 10:26 Yay. You know, it was fun this morning to go out, looking for four quick photos. And I, yeah. I mean this particular batch I did, like, I found the quickest photos that explain the concept super fast. So it wasn't like I was spending all the time, but it was fun to be able to go out, how do I raise this little, a little different than the last one And, and what do I want to get out of people And what do I want to say to people And it's just really fun again. How does that feel Speaker 4 10:28 - 10:30 It feels fun. Yeah. Speaker 2 10:31 - 11:33 But it makes you happy. It makes it easier. Right It makes it easy. It makes it happy. It makes it know that you must be hitting the stride because I don't know. It's, it's like, there's been a sense of, you have to do this. You have to, you just have to keep pounding away at it. And I come from a background, my dad was a business, small business owner and it always felt like work and this doesn't feel as much like work. Yay. That's awesome. And part of it is that I, I think in the last couple of years there's been this little edge underneath. It says maybe I really don't want to make this work. Maybe this is too much time out of my life. And so you and I talked last week about reorganizing my calendar and talk about synchronicity. Those were my assignments in the program. Speaker 2 11:34 - 12:32 And I went through and I realized, so this is really what I want it to look like. I want to work with about this many people. And if that makes enough money to live on and not dig deeply into social security, not social security, but their retirement savings. That's great. I could do that forever. Yeah. As opposed to, yeah. The million dollar business would be wonderful, but I don't know if that's where I want to be anymore. I know that there's a piece of me that wants the message to get out, but maybe there's a different way. Yeah. And it allows me to just, the button allows me to open up to different options and different roads and different paths to getting to what I want, which number one is to get through retirement without winding up out of money. And what do you want to do Speaker 2 12:32 - 14:01 What do you want to, I want to be abundant through retirement, but yeah. I, I mean, yeah, I want to be abundant. I want to be able to travel. I want to be able to see my grandkids when I want it, when I want to see them. I want to have the things I want in my house and have the space that I want, but that doesn't, and there's the other piece of it, which is changing the way women all over the world experienced menopause. So abundant in retirement and changing the way women want to have experienced menopause. That doesn't mean that I have to be working 80 hours a week. Right. Yeah. And I, I mean, there's so much tied up in that, right. Because it wasn't, it's not just like you can say to someone, Oh, just like, let it be okay. And you don't have to work that much. Right. Like this is a, a combination of lots of different shifts, right. This is 19 months of yours. Yeah. That makes it so simple, like 80 hours, which is awesome. It's awesome. Whenever it happens. Yeah. And there's been a lot of time when I've said I need to work 80 hours and I can't work 80 hours. And so I'm going to rebel and not work 80 hours. Speaker 2 14:03 - 14:50 And then I'm going to feel guilty about not working 80 hours. And then the hours that I do work when I do work the 25 or 30 hours that I really want to work, I don't get anything done and I don't get anything accomplished. And the energy I put out there isn't, isn't attractive. And so many entrepreneurs do that. Yeah. But I'm going to tell you, it, it takes doing, I don't think it takes 19 months, what I'm stubborn to get here and it will take, whoever's listening. It will take you as long as it takes you. But if you can learn something from me, don't take 19 months. Speaker 5 14:52 - 15:02 And so what do you think the key is Like, if you were going to tell yourself a couple of years ago, like three pieces of advice, what would they be Listen, listen and listen. Awesome. Speaker 6 15:03 - 15:06 Or maybe listen, listen. And do yes. Speaker 5 15:09 - 16:10 I love that. And I think it's so true, right Yeah. I think, and I think a lot of it is that we, we come in think in that we know everything about our business and everything about what we want to teach out in the world. And we do that because a lot of, a lot of coaches tell you, you do, you know, they tell you, you know, everything that you, because you're going to be teaching everything that you had to learn. But what I found was that it's really hard to talk to people in the voice that knows it and also is geared to the person who doesn't know it. So they listened to it. And it's been kind of interesting. Cause I've, I'm reading a book for myself right now about, about some diets, dietary stuff. And I want to just yell at her, Speaker 6 16:13 - 16:14 Just stop, Speaker 5 16:14 - 16:25 Take a step back. Let me find the, let me find what I need to do. And then if we want to talk about all the science and I'm a science right Speaker 6 16:26 - 16:28 For me. Oh my goodness. Speaker 5 16:28 - 17:50 This is awesome. So now you're getting to experience what a lot of your pain clients were feeling, reading some of your books and the books are not, not that bad. The books are actually pretty good, definitely compared to this one that I'm reading. and I'm learning, I'm learning lots. I really, yeah. And I just want to tell her, stop, step back. Tell me how to fix this first because I am really, there's, there's one health issue I'm struggling with right now. And I'm out there looking for answers. And so I want her to just tell me it's okay. Here's how we fix it. And then if you want to know all of this science stuff we can talk about. Yes. But I want that it's okay. Let's start, let's start feeling better. Yeah. Which is exactly what you're paying clients want. Right. Yeah. Thanks for saying, they want to know is it's okay. You're normal. Normal and let's start fixing it. Yeah. Awesome. How does it feel to, to sort of see that and have that experience and know you've shifted how you're showing up, so your people aren't Speaker 2 17:50 - 17:56 Having that experience. Yeah. It's kind of fun. Speaker 5 17:58 - 18:58 It's like, Oh, this woman got a bigger book. Feel telling people this. Wow. I could actually help people wonder what wonder what they would pay me for. I wonder what kind of book deal they'd give me for that. Yeah. That's awesome. And it's really, it's really special to know, to start to understand what it was that I needed the first time. And the truth of the matter is when I think about it, what fixed me, I went to my doctor and I said, so I've been reading about, and back then it was Atkins. Now it's keto. It's really the same until you do. But I went to her and I said, so I've been reading about this Atkins stuff. A lot of people are really down on it, but it looks like something I could stay on. What do you think And she basically, she said, try it. You'll like it. Speaker 2 19:01 - 19:01 She Speaker 5 19:01 - 19:58 Didn't, she didn't bother telling me all of the stuff that I've learned. And I have learned, I mean, I can tell you how the molecules work, bother telling me that she, she told me what I needed to know, which was here. This is something that will help you fix shit. I was, I was dealing with weight issues, but I was also dealing with depression. I was also dealing with perimenopause that I didn't know, basically she just let me get better first. Right. It was awesome. That is awesome. And it's awesome now to know that that's really what my clients want. Yes. And now that you, cause we've, we had talked about this before and I would explain it and Speaker 2 19:59 - 20:01 Why tell me is why do your Speaker 5 20:01 - 20:10 Paying clients want to fix it first Why do they want to feel better first Isn't that obvious feel better Speaker 2 20:10 - 20:12 Right Cause that's what they actually want. Speaker 5 20:20 - 21:16 Know, I'm laughing about this and I'm saying, but it took forever. And honestly, I do, I do have a following among people who really like science, but they don't want to pay me. They just want me to tell them about science. They're just getting information. Right. That's who they are. They're going to go do their own thing. They're going to do their own thing. And they want the science that I found out and that's fine. Yeah, that's fine. it's not going to help the person who really needs, who really needs to just have her handheld through changing a few things in her life that will make her feel better. Right. It's amazing. Yeah. And it's taken quite a bit of growth. Right. And so we were talking before the interview and I love the way, you know, you feel like right now you're sort of taking a breath. Speaker 5 21:16 - 22:40 You've grown, grown, grown, grown. And now it's a pause in living in that pause, which I love, because I think this is really how growth happens. So talk a little bit about that. So if you've listened to the last two or three and I, I, my understanding is now you're putting together a whole series of one person talking for several weeks. Yeah. Listen to the last few, there was a huge amount of excitement that there was also a huge amount of growth that was showing up in each of those interviews and growth. And then slowly coming back to earth and then growing some more and then trying to get through that fear and growing some more. And it was big and it was exhausting in a way because I was just changing so much. So, so fast. It's like when a little kid grows and they grow through their growth spurts and their body starts to ache because growing so much. And I think that that's where, where things are right now is sort of like, now I need to just sort of breathe into this. I don't have to, I don't have to drop back into the fear. Right. I don't have to drop back into the fear. I just have become the person for him. This is normal. Speaker 5 22:43 - 23:46 So I can't grow. I don't want to say I can't grow, but the growth is more subtle now it's making it all normal, making it all a piece of who I am. And I think if you, I don't know, two months ago, I asked you, if you ever felt like you just were your future self. And I know we keep growing and we keep becoming and we keep being more and maybe more abundant at all. But sometimes, you know, it feels more like I am the person that I script about and places where that script was in authentic or becoming authentically. Yes. The places where it was authentic is what I'm doing. And the places where I was inauthentic are dropping out and more and more of my decisions come from her point of view. And my Speaker 2 23:47 - 24:56 Reactions come from her point of view and my actions. Yeah. There's another, there's another five-year future self. Who's grown more. But when I look at it, it's, there's less of a distance between her and me now. Absolutely. And that, that shorter distance is really about the beingness, right Like it's about who you're being. It's not, like when I think about the script that's popping into my mind is you're, you know, you had a, a wellness, you had a retreat center one, right And they, the authentic parts in that you had to, I'm curious what you say, I would say are the person like, you didn't know how to speak to her. Right You could help. You could show up, you could, you genuinely cared. Those were all authentic. But, but what was maybe what you're using is an authentic, is like, you didn't actually know how to get those people there. Like you didn't know how to speak to them. Right. I didn't know how to recruit them. And to be honest, I really didn't want the data. Speaker 2 24:59 - 26:05 I wanted somebody else to run this place. Now I just want, I just want somebody else to run the place that I could write and yeah. Which is awesome. And that's all part of the growth process. Even learning that and letting go of that. If you've listened to John's interview, we talk about that in one interview and giving you that experience of is, is really one of the keys is letting us experience everything we want. We think we want. And then we figure out what we actually want. And it's actually even funding because, I adopted a second dog a couple of months ago. And what I realized is that I want the ability to travel when I do, when I, when I travel, and travel, when I want change houses, when I want. And basically it became a realization that the animals that I have right now, that's free that I have right now are the last animals I will ever own. Speaker 2 26:05 - 26:42 they won't be the last animals in my life, but there's also a part of me that, that every time a dog comes up for foster, I just want to go and take it and bring it home and make it better. And so what I realized is that foster gives me that opening to have a dog here when I need it and want it, and to slowly give up and giving up, giving them up is not an, it's not a here. Take my dog. It's a, one of my dogs is 13 and she's a big old girl. And she's, Speaker 5 26:44 - 26:57 She's got a few years, but not 30 years. And yeah. So I it's, it's just these realizations that this is the way a lifelike work. Speaker 3 26:58 - 26:59 Yes. And you get everything Speaker 5 27:00 - 27:15 And everything. And I get everything because I'm starting black running dogs. Non-profits which fosters, which lusters two black dogs a year and teaches them how to run and then gives them away. Speaker 3 27:16 - 27:37 Oh, I love it. That's awesome. Yeah. It's so cool. Right. Because you, and you could have never figured that out, thinking that you have to just become this person and get closer and closer and closer to that life. And then the answer. Oh yeah. I follow all the best of all worlds, right Speaker 5 27:39 - 28:19 Yeah. It is because it actually works for another, for another rescue. I don't even have to pay the vet bills. That's awesome. But yeah, because I, with my love of running, I can just bring the dog into the house and work with my existing dog to teach her how to teach the new dog, how to be a great companion on runs. And then I have done two things. I kept, I've got a woman who's not comfortable running outside by herself. She's got now has a dog. That's already trained to do this. Yeah. And I've saved the dog's life. Speaker 3 28:20 - 28:27 Amazing. And you get to live this free life that you want. Right. That's amazing. Speaker 5 28:27 - 28:32 And when I change houses in the year, I just delivered the dog. Speaker 3 28:33 - 29:07 Yeah. That's awesome. I love it. And it's so much closer and this is what happens. Everybody thinks we get the stuff first, but that it's, we have to become first. And you're like this such the shining example of this right now, it's becoming that whole person that lives inside that script. Now the stuff is going to start showing up super quickly. Yeah. Yeah. How does it feel to be her be so much of her Speaker 5 29:09 - 29:55 It just feels right. And I know right. Is not promotion, but it feels, it feels like the decisions that are in alignment just, they're so different than the ones that are out of the line. And, you know, it's like no walking, walking out and running with, with shadow and knowing that my older dog is, you know, coming to the, and I don't want to say she's sick or she, cause she's not, but she's not. It's obvious that she is an older dog. And then realizing that if I replaced her, but then just feeling this running dogs. Speaker 3 29:56 - 30:00 Yeah. There's your animal like That's awesome. Speaker 5 30:01 - 30:37 There's my animals. There's my love of running. There's my need to have the animals in my life. Yeah. And then there's my doing something for someone else. Because like I said, there are women who don't run because they, they don't feel comfortable going out in their area and running by themselves. So I know that when I take my dog out, I never worry about anybody hassling me, but he will. Cause they're not sure what she'll go. Right. That's awesome. Speaker 3 30:38 - 30:49 I love it. So good. And what a great way to live into the pause. Right. Of just getting even more comfortable and yes, this is coming and this is happening. Speaker 5 30:51 - 32:03 Yeah. It's all unfolding perfectly. Yeah. So I, I don't feel, I mean, I feel like I'm, I'm doing a seminar tomorrow night that felt like inspired action. Yeah. This sort of menopause survival seminars and to have one about once a month and that felt really good, but it didn't feel like I needed to try and get a thousand people there. Yeah. And there's another, that's another difference is this realization that very often my people come from dot come from this sales funnel that every coach tells you, you have the app. Right. They come from somebody seeing something that I posted and saying to their friend, go talk to her. Or they come from other, other clients where they come from this, talking about this, someone and someone reacting to it. And so the people who need to be there will come. Yeah. Speaker 3 32:03 - 32:22 Yeah. That's awesome. I want to ask you, this, so what have you identified How does your inspired action Because I think you truly truly know what that feels like now. How does that feel in feel different than when you used to think it was inspired Speaker 5 32:25 - 32:30 This is going to sound off. Okay. And it may not be this for everybody. I think it's Speaker 3 32:30 - 32:32 The same for everyone. That's why I'm asking. Yeah. Speaker 5 32:33 - 32:41 So I think for me, inspired action feels like it's a good idea, but I don't have to do yes. Speaker 2 32:42 - 33:21 Whereas uninspired action feels like I've got to do this right now because this will make all the difference in the world. So it's the desperation. And I don't even always see that sometimes, you know, I'll come to a call and you'll say, sit back in that one for a little bit and see whether that really is what it, what it's feeling like. But the uninspired action in the moment feels inspired. And like the thing that will make all the difference, whereas the truly inspired action feels like a good idea. Yeah. Speaker 3 33:21 - 33:34 Yes, yes. I love it. And that I'm sure is going to resonate with someone else because that's amazing. And it does feel different for everyone, you know, for everyone. Right. Speaker 2 33:34 - 33:53 I think someone else, it might be almost exactly the opposite and inspired action. Like I feel like the action you can't not do. Yeah. But I'm, I'm beginning to realize that when I am so convinced that this is the thing that will change everything, that's the one I have to let go. Speaker 3 33:53 - 34:20 Yeah. What pops up into my mind is this, you wanted to do some coupon, invite a friend, something before the menopause. Right. And, and what you let go of was that, and then what had, and then what happened was showing up for all of menopause awareness month. Yes. Yeah. Amazing. Well, tell everyone how they can connect with you gets rid of some symptoms along their menopause journey. Speaker 2 34:21 - 35:08 I show up in Facebook almost every day on the weekends, less so on the weekends, but, that is menopause guru. and it, if you do a Facebook search on menopause guru, I am go to my site, which is menopause.guru and see what's happening. There, there should be something going on and more and more I'm showing up. They're letting you know what's happening there. And there is an opportunity for you to sign up for my weekly emails. I try not to lead people with emails, but there's lots and lots of good information about what's happening in your body as you go through you, posture Speaker 3 35:09 - 35:15 Amazing. and any final thoughts or things that you want to share as we close today, Speaker 2 35:15 - 35:38 I don't think you should walk your menopause journey. And I don't think you should walk your business journey. Now I can't help you with the second, but I do know somebody who can, and that's why I keep showing up here month after month after month. And if you are a woman from the age of 40, 40, two 43, all the way Speaker 3 35:38 - 36:07 Through your sixties and you don't understand your body, let's talk about it. I'd love to talk. Thank you. You're welcome. That's awesome. and you can talk to John, as she said, find our menopause guru on Facebook or go to menopause.guru. this has been fabulous. Thank you all for tuning in. Thank you, John, for sharing this moment in your journey. Thank you for having me, absolutely. And make sure to come back and check out John's next interview in her years of growth series. Speaker 1 36:09 - 36:19 Thank you for joining us on the law of attraction, manifesting success stories, show to learn how to identify your current money story. Go to identify your money story. Don't call.
49 minutes | Apr 21, 2021
Ep: #266: How Segmenting Your Life Slows Down Manifesting
Jeanne Andrus is The Menopause Guru; only she used to keep that fact mostly secret in her "private" life. She would share anything and everything women need to know about Menopause on her Menopause Guru page, but not on her personal page. She kept her life segmented because she was afraid of the judgment of people who didn't get it. She was afraid that if she posted on her personal page that people would comment nasty things. Join your host Cassie Parks as she is joined by the Menopause Guru and they discuss being over that fear and how different her life and business are because she is owning who she is! 00:45: Cassie asks Jeanne how her Future Self has been shining through. Jeanne discusses that she has been in the flow and sharing a lot of information on Menopause over the last month. 01:12: Cassie talks about recording this episode just after Menopause Awareness Month finished and asks Jeanne how she did it differently than in the past. 01:35: Jeanne talks about that she showed up, was unapologetically herself when delivering the information she wants to share with the world, and how this shift has made her more confident. 02:57: Jeanne talks about owning who she is and how she is starting to integrate being Jeanne and the Menopause Guru. 03:35: Cassie asks Jeanne if her definition of showing up has changed. Jeanne discusses that she knew what showing up meant but was fighting owning being the Menopause Guru in her personal life. 04:33: Cassie asks Jeanne how it feels to be living one life. Jeanne discusses that it feels more authentic and more connected, and discusses how she has been separating her business and personal life for a long time. 05:46: Cassie talks about Jeanne's Future Self living one life, and Jeanne talks about how her life flows between business and personal, and how she is still working on this. 06:53: Cassie talks about how that isn't going to happen again and asks Jeanne what her biggest fear was that kept her life separated. 07:05: Jeanne discusses that she was afraid of judgment because of what she talks about and was worried about how people would react if she brought her business into her personal interactions. 08:08: Cassie asks Jeanne what her biggest fear was if she showed up as the Menopause Guru in her private life, and Jeanne discusses that she was afraid people would post negative things on her page. 08:26: Cassie talks about how we have the control and the power to get what we want, but we let fear of a specific outcome stop us from doing it. 08:55: Cassie asks what the best part of showing up in all areas of her life as the Menopause Guru is, and Jeanne discusses that it is being proud owning all she has learned about Menopause and how she can help people like no one else can. 10:21: Cassie asks Jeanne why sharing that knowledge now brings so much more pride, and Jeanne discusses having people to share her message with and how she now sees that it is silly to wait for people to realize what she does when she can just tell them. 11:24: Cassie talks about how silly it is not to tell people what she does when 80% of the people who hear her message need to be told that they need her. 12:15: Jeanne gives an example of meeting someone who needed the information that she has. 13:29: Cassie points out how important it is to show up because that is how Jeanne helps clients realize that they need her, and Jeanne talks about how the people who need this information don't have it. 14:11: Cassie asks Jeanne what the Menopause Guru is changing about how Menopause is perceived, and Jeanne talks about knowing that she is going to start working with a younger clientele, so they get the information they need when they need it most. 15:32: Cassie asks Jeanne how she is going to show up to become the persons she wants to be, and Jeanne owns that she will do it brilliantly. 15:50: Jeanne talks about how the Menopause Guru is about guiding people through a major transition and how to stay true to themselves. 16:35: Cassie loves that Jeanne used brilliant and asks Jeanne about the difference between showing up brilliant instead of perfect. 17:16: Jeanne agrees and owns that she is smart, but that now she can share what she knows with others in a way that helps them. 17:53: Cassie talks about Jeanne stepping into her Future Self and becoming the brilliant person she is and asks how committing to showing up for Menopause Awareness Month has changed things. 18:53: Jeanne talks about how it started with the focus on the numbers, why she had to let that go, and how she realized that the goal, and the power, comes from just showing up and the numbers don't matter. 20:13: Cassie talks about how Jeanne was focused on the outcome, and Jeanne talks about how it was easier not to show up than to feel like a failure. 20:42: Jeanne talks about her making her goal to show up and how if she chooses not to show up, then it is on her that she failed. 21:05: Cassie talks about how Jeanne made a massive shift, and Jeanne talks about sticking to the goal of showing up. 21:57: Cassie talks about Jeanne choosing to show up no matter what, and Jeanne talks about how she gets to go skydiving because she showed up. 22:27: Cassie talks about the importance of showing up, how it took practice for Jeanne to get to this point, and that it couldn't happen until she was ready to step into being that person. 23:34: Cassie asks Jeanne how long it took to write an email when they first started working on writing them, and Jeanne owns that she wrote one a week and needed a lot of help from Cassie. 24:26: Cassie asks Jeanne about how it was different to talk to her clients last month versus in the past, and Jeanne talks about wanting to use August to get ahead, went on vacation, and ended up using what she has learned from her Future Self to write throughout September. 27:09: Cassie asks Jeanne why this was the month to commit, and Jeanne talks about being ready and wanting her business to start booming. 28:22: Cassie talks about Jeanne wanting it but not wanting to commit fully, and Jeanne discusses putting in 60 hours of work and getting 10 hours of results. 29:09: Cassie asks Jeanne how she started to see that she was putting in so much work and not getting anything done, and Jeanne discusses her husband working 12 hours a day and feeling that she should be working that whole time. 30:10: Jeanne owns that she had the right to complain if it wasn't working because she was working so hard. 30:56: Cassie asks Jeanne about working less, and Jeanne talks about being aware of when she isn't productive and knows that when she is working on the right things, she doesn't need to work 60 hours to be successful. 32:03: Cassie talks about Jeanne focusing on creating content that lands instead of just creating mass amounts of content. 32:36: Jeanne discusses how working with Cassie has helped her crate content that she can reuse, and how she knows that putting 10 to 12 hours a week into marketing now will allow her more time in the future. 33:42: Cassie talks about Jeanne wanting this business because she is creating the life she wants and that Jeanne started the month taking 3 hours to write 1 post, and now can write 3 posts in 1 hour. 34:30: Jeanne talks about posting 800 word Facebook posts and writing to the women who don't have anyone to get this information from and isn't interested in knowing all of the science behind it. 36:24: Cassie asks Jeanne what the title of her former business story is, and Jeanne says, "I'm going to tell you what you need to know." 36:48: Cassie asks Jeanne what some of the chapters to that story are, Jeanne gives a list, and Cassie talks about how her old story was very harsh and in your face. 37:36: Cassie asks Jeanne what the title of her current business story is, and Jeanne owns "You aren't going crazy; your hormones are." 32:48: Cassie asks what that means as a story title, and Jeanne talks about that women feel like they are reacting wrong to what is happening when they go through Menopause, and Jeanne wants to make it easy for women to live the life they want to. 39:18: Cassie tells Jeanne she thinks the title of her business story is "I speak to my clients so they can hear me," and Cassie talks about how differently Jeanne interacts with her clients compared to 2 years ago. 40:08: Cassie talks about how "you aren't going crazy, your hormones are" was inspired and how it was all part of the process and on the path to what Jeanne wanted. 41:24: Cassie asks Jeanne what she is excited about, and Jeanne talks about her husband's schedule and wanting him to be able to slow down and do what he wants to do, growing her business, and learning just to show up. 43:01: Cassie asks Jeanne how it feels for the business to be easier and Jeanne admits that she just needs to show up and let the Universe take care of the rest. 43:30: Jeanne talks about putting out more emails and being happy that the wrong people are getting off of her list and the right people are hearing her message. 44:29: Cassie asks Jeanne what they will be talking about a year from now after next Menopause Awareness Month and Jeanne talks about being on major morning shows and the evidence she has that that will happen. 45:36: Cassie asks Jeanne for final thoughts on people fighting their business, and Jeanne talks about getting comfortable with the work you are putting in your business and not letting other people influence what you do. 46:32: Cassie asks Jeanne about doing the work you need to be doing versus focusing on the wrong things, and Jeanne discusses not knowing what her people really wanted until she had a coach to help her see it. 47:40: Cassie clarifies that Jeanne needed someone who could be her client so she could see what her clients need to hear.
30 minutes | Apr 14, 2021
Ep. #265: Using the Law of Attraction to Get on TV
Have you ever wanted to get on TV to share your amazing business? So did Jeanne. Join your host Cassie Parks as she is again joined by Jeanne Andres, the Menopause Guru. They discuss how Jeanne landed 4 TV segments by setting the intention, doing nothing, stepping into her Future Self, tracking the evidence, allowing inspiration to show up, and following her inspiration! 00:48: Cassie asks Jeanne how her Future Self has been showing up. 00:55: Jeanne talks about recording this in Menopause Awareness Month and how her Future Self shows up to help her write her Facebook content. 01:45: Cassie asks Jeanne what is the most awesome thing about her Future Self showing up. 01:50: Jeanne talks about that it is awesome knowing that what she is writing is going out to help the people who need her and how confident she is in what she is doing. 02:32: Cassie talks about the past 2 interviews and the growth Jeanne has been experiencing and asks Jeanne how she feels differently about knowing there are people who need to hear her message. 03:11: Jeanne discusses how she has realized that by putting the message out there, it will reach the people she wants to do business with. 03:56: Cassie talks about how that is Jeanne's Future Self and how education is what being the Menopause Guru is all about. 04:16: Cassie asks Jeanne what is different because she used to have a lot of resistance to sharing her message. 04:26: Jeanne talks about knowing what she wants to write and allowing her Future Self to help her say what she needs to. 05:22: Jeanne talks about how she and Cassie have worked together to write and how connecting with her Future Self allows Jeanne to write and then decide if what she has written is exactly what her clients need to hear. 06:08: Jeanne talks about how 70 to 80% of her writing is coming from her Future Self and how that has shifted from trying to force her writing. 06:31: Cassie talks about how Jeanne is using her Future Self to step into owning being the expert. 06:59: Jeanne talks about being an expert and continually learning to help her clients. 07:58: Cassie talks about how by connecting to Jeanne's Future Self she is tapping into the person who has been doing that for years. 08:09: Jeanne talks about how fun it is to be stepping into the person she is becoming. 08:24: Jeanne talks about how about a year ago she was having issues writing and how she worked with Cassie to get clearer about who she is writing for and what they need to hear. 09:34: Cassie talks about how Jeanne can create so much content because she has learned how to speak to her Future Clients. 10:41: Jeanne talks about learning to take out any information that her clients aren't ready to hear. 11:15: Cassie asks Jeanne about the 4 tv segments she recorded. 11:40: Jeanne talks about a local tv station and a lifestyle program that is on in the morning. 12:07: Cassie stops Jeanne and wants to take her back to the beginning. 12:15: Jeanne wants to go back even further and talks about being invited by a friend to be on the show and how she reached out to the producer at that time. 13:12: Jeanne talks about again reaching out to the producer to ask her if she knew September is Menopause Awareness Month and gave her a list of topics they could use on the show. 13:53: Jeanne talks about the show reaching out to her and wanting to do 6 segments 4 of which they wanted Jeanne for. 14:14: Cassie and Jeanne agree that is awesome. 14:22: Cassie wants to break down what happened from an LOA perspective. 14:37: Cassie talks about how enjoying doing pottery with her friend was essential to stepping into Jeanne's Future Self. 14:54: Jeanne talks about loving doing pottery. 14:58: Cassie talks about Jeanne starting to do pottery 2 years ago, that her Future Self was leading her to where she wanted to go, and how her Future Self has helped her have all of the pieces in place to have the opportunities she wants. 16:42: Cassie talks about how Jeanne had to learn to speak to clients before she could be on tv, and how once she was ready, the inspiration came to reach out to the tv station. 17:20: Jeanne talks about how she reached out and didn't hear back, questioned if she should follow up, let it go, and then heard back that they wanted her for 4 segments. 17:45: Cassie talks about Jeanne staying in her own lane, doing what she needed to do, and being ready to support all of the people who will see her tv segments. 18:17: Cassie talks about there being a moment when Jeanne could have derailed from her Future Self. 19:00: Jeanne talks about how she wanted to do contests for Menopause Awareness Month to gain new followers. 19:26: Cassie talks about how contests aren't the Menopause Guru and how Cassie was prepared to show Jeanne that contests were not part of her Future Self, but then Jeanne let it go and agreed it wasn't what she needed to be doing. 20:50: Cassie talks about how they then went back into working on Jeanne's emails and then the inspiration to do Menopause Awareness Month came and being on tv didn’t matter. 21:17: Cassie and Jeanne discuss how this is stepping fully into her Future Self. 21:25: Cassie talks about how Jeanne ended up on tv because of the person she was being and how it seemed easier to get on tv than to show up on Facebook. 21:54: Jeanne talks about writing the scripts of questions for the tv show and it being easier than writing for Facebook. 22:16: Cassie talks about it feeling easier to show up on tv than on Facebook. 22:30: Jeanne talks about feeling like you can be an instant star when you get on tv, admits that she doesn't care about being an instant star, that she is going to do a seminar the day after the last segment airs, and how it is all a gift to get her message out. 24:06: Cassie talks about how Jeanne's words come from doing the work to connect with her Future Self and her Future Clients. 24:28: Cassie talks about how being on tv isn't the end all be all and that it is just part of what Jeanne does. 24:42: Cassie talks about how the Menopause Guru is who Jeanne is. 24:52: Cassie asks Jeanne what would have been different if she would have ended up on tv a year ago. 25:25: Jeanne talks about how she doesn't care what the outcome she gets from being on tv is; she knows that she is in alignment with what she does and that her goal is to educate, and that is what she is doing. 27:06: Cassie loves seeing Jeanne own what she does. 27:16: Cassie talks about how Jeanne building the business this way has set her up to support fast, significant growth in her business. 27:40: Jeanne talks about how the clients coming into her world are a reflection of the work Jeanne is doing to change the world. 27:59: Cassie asks Jeanne where people can connect with her. 28:14: Jeanne gives her website http://menopause.coach/
43 minutes | Apr 7, 2021
Ep. #264: Growth Temper Tantrums Can Happen When Manifesting
Have you ever had a growth temper tantrum? My definition of a growth temper tantrum is when you just grew or about to take a big step in your growth journey, so you throw a temper tantrum, much like a toddler. Maybe you don't throw yourself on the ground and kick and scream, but you do the adult version. You dig your heels in, maybe cross your arms, and basically say, "I'm not doing that!" "That" refers to the next step, whatever that is. Sometimes the tantrum comes when you're working with a coach, and you suggest something they know is a distraction, so they advise against it. You don't like that answer, so you throw a growth tantrum. Join your host Cassie Parks as Jeanne Andrus again joins her, and they discuss Jeanne's growth temper tantrum and how it was brought on by fear. They dive deep into how, this time, Jeanne could throw her tantrum and then keep moving and how she didn't need help or support to get through it. 00:41: Cassie asks Jeanne how her Future Self has been showing up. 00:44: Jeanne talks about her Future Self showing up to go on a trip to Florida to meet a sister she hasn't met in person and loves living the life that allows her to travel and do what she wants when she wants. 01:26: Cassie talks about how that answer covers what is awesome as well. 01:33: Cassie talks about how the last interview was a live coaching session. 02:00: Cassie asks Jeanne what has happened in the month since that last interview/coaching session. 02:12: Jeanne talks about how she felt unsure going into that coaching session and that by the end of it, she was clear that she is on the right path and that she is here to help women go through their Menopause Journey. 03:33: Jeanne talks about how important working with Cassie is because she helps her both with the business and her belief in herself. 04:00: Jeanne talks about September being Menopause awareness month and how it is so important to get the word out there and help people find the information they need. 04:55: Jeanne talks about how she did some things locally to get her name out, how she has a whole month planed to get her information out, and how she wants to reach people. 05:34: Cassie highlights that Jeanne will have to continue to find that clarity and how you have to choose to move forward and continue to step into your Future Self. 06:10: Jeanne talks about how she and Cassie talked about how she grows and then she gets scared without realizing it, and how she did one of Cassie's workshops and then scared herself. 07:03: Cassie gives the timeline of Jeanne's interview and how Cassie was ready to do an interview, and that it was awesome that Jeanne came to do the work. 07:52: Jeanne talks about how she knew everything was working and needed to trust and do the work instead of avoiding fear. 08:18: Jeanne talks about having an idea and bringing it to a call, and Cassie telling her just to do what they had been talking about doing and stop avoiding the fear. 08:48: Jeanne talks about being pissed that Cassie would say that but realized that Cassie is right and she just needed to move forward. 09:13: Jeanne talks about preparing for her and Cassie's meeting on Thursday just to move forward. 09:25: Cassie talks about how awesome it is that Jeanne can solve her own temper tantrums. 09:46: Jeanne talks about getting mad that her business isn't further along and then realizing that she is learning the skills she needs to build the business she wants. 09:46: Jeanne talks about getting mad that everything isn't perfect and realizing that she is learning the skills she needs to grow her business. 10:28: Cassie talks about having tantrums herself and that it is awesome that Jeanne felt through that. 11:18: Jeanne talks about moving through it, focusing on their Thursday meeting, and it was different than in the past. 12:06: Cassie talks about this being 1 of Cassie's favorite coaching moments because of how much Jeanne grew so quickly. 12:32: Jeanne talks about being so productive and being ready to move forward. 13:05: Cassie asks Jeanne how it feels to be that person. 13:11: Jeanne talks about feeling better, and knowing there was so much to do yet wasn't feeling confident about it. 13:43: Jeanne talks about writing from where we become and how we don't hear it before we become. 14:00: Jeanne talks about learning to speak to her clients and how she has gotten better at it as she gets clearer about what she is doing. 15:24: Cassie talks about how things start to change when you work toward long-term growth and that that is what Jeanne is actually doing with her clients. 16:43: Cassie talks about it being different to work with clients long term and the space that it takes. 17:00: Cassie talks about people who can write quick copy versus connecting to the people who are going on the journey with you. 17:38: Jeanne talks about people who write good copy, reach 1,000 people, and hold 5 of them. 18:06: Jeanne talks about wanting to help people long term because women can lose half their lives due to Menopause. 18:53: Jeanne talks about the number of people she reaches and the importance of what she does. 19:16: Cassie and Jeanne talk about how Menopause can affect everything. 19:58: Jeanne talks about when she first wrote about her story and how it felt like a country song. 20:38: Jeanne talks about getting women to the place to rebuild their lives and helping them do that. 20:51: Cassie talks about Jeanne's goal of helping women keep their lives and make them even better. 21:25: Cassie talks about Jeanne helping women to build the second part of their lives. 21:30: Cassie talks about helping people find their clients and that the big problem they have is wanting to work with people long term and wanting to start at the end of their journey. 22:16: Jeanne talks about working as a coach and being around other coaches and how everyone wants to start at the end. 22:40: Jeanne talks about being in a group to create challenges and how that isn't what her clients want. 22:55: Cassie talks about Jeanne's clients not wanting to be challenged because their life is already full of challenges. 23:09: Jeanne talks about seeing coaches use 5-day challenges and how coaches sell challenges that aren't what their clients need. 24:15: Cassie loves hearing what Jeanne is saying because Jeanne didn't always believe it. 24:45: Jeanne talks about how she can help women because she sees the journey they are on. 25:06: Cassie talks about the journey, how Jeanne gets what she wants, and how the end of the journey is adventure and bravery. 25:45: Jeanne talks about reading posts from other entrepreneurs who started their businesses because they wanted to stay home with the kids, and then not loving their business in their 40's because of the changes Menopause brings on. 26:21: Jeanne talks about articles coming out about women going through a mid-life crisis. 26:50: Jeanne talks about how people don't realize it's their body that wants them to move to the next phase of their life. 27:06: Cassie asks Jeanne what the headline for a Facebook post would be for an entrepreneur in their 40's that no longer loves her business. 27:35: Jeanne talks about that it would be something like have you lost the excitement and enthusiasm for your business. 27:53: Cassie asks Jeanne how they would take her through the process. 28:02: Jeanne talks about starting to be home with kids and questioning things in their 40's because of Menopause. 28:23: Jeanne talks about writing and working on it with Cassie and how what we want changes as we go through Menopause. 28:53: Jeanne talks about it being a hormone change and that these changes change women's lives. 30:00: Cassie asks Jeanne what opt-in they would want. 30:12: Jeanne talks about an opt-in around 5 ways to reconnect with the business you love. 30:24: Cassie asks Jeanne why she would sign up for that opt-in. 30:29: Jeanne talks about her wanting to love her business and that she feels she did something wrong, and that is why she doesn't want her business. 30:46: Cassie asks Jeanne what she would tell her in the emails. 30:49: Jeanne talks about it being normal to shift focus, and that it is normal to go to the past and bring things they loved back into their lives. 31:55: Cassie talks about eventually offering a chance to work with Jeanne to create the life they want. 32:02: Jeanne talks about that she may not have a lot of symptoms because she is taking care of herself, but that some aren't and will likely have more symptoms. 33:12: Jeanne talks about going right to an offer of coaching or needing to hybrid something new. 33:33: Cassie talks about loving seeing Jeanne do that on the spot and having the confidence to say it out loud because of who Jeanne has become. 34:20: Cassie talks about seeing new clients as you become and grow and how you can mix and match your content to help more people. 35:33: Jeanne talks about some people needing to tweak diet and exercise and how others don't. 35:52: Cassie loves that Jeanne outlined that. 36:37: Jeanne wants the link to this podcast because she will be talking to that client in September. 37:12: Cassie asks Jeanne how it feels to be clear she isn't a business coach. 37:30: Jeanne admits that she will point stuff out when she sees it, but doesn't want to help people build a business and instead wants to help women going through Menopause. 37:39: Cassie asks Jeanne what the most significant shift she has had in the last 30 days is. 38:09: Jeanne talks about how she did some fantastic scripting after the workshop and realized that she can have and do what she wants. 39:18: Jeanne talks about Cassie working with her on what her most awesome life would be like and realizing that it revolved around her family and not her work. 39:50: Cassie talks about how that is what Jeanne wanted, but she thought she got it through her business. 40:00: Cassie talks about the difference in energy between working for family versus spending time with family and having a business that supports that life. 40:20: Cassie wraps up the interview and asks if Jeanne wants to share anything else. 40:41: Jeanne wants to thank Cassie for what she does. 41:16: Cassie thanks Jeanne for showing up and doing the work. 41:31: Cassie asks Jeanne how people can connect with her. 41:33: Jeanne shares her website http://menopause.coach/
35 minutes | Mar 31, 2021
Ep. #263: Law of Attraction Coaching Session
Have you ever wondered what it is like to work with Cassie Parks? Join your host Cassie Parks as she is again joined by Jeanne Andrus for a live coaching session!!! 00:30: Cassie asks Jeanne to tell her something awesome even though she is in a rough patch. 00:40: Jeanne talks about celebrating her 8th wedding anniversary, the perfect present her husband gave her, and her husband forgetting what day their anniversary was on. 01:51: Cassie asks Jeanne what is going on. 01:55: Jeanne talks about how she doesn't have a large client base, feels like she is losing traction, isn't getting where she wants to go and is wasting time with her writing. 03:05: Cassie talks about how it is interesting that a week ago, Jeanne had a list of topics to write about and all of these other things Jeanne was looking forward to doing and asks what has changed in the last week. 03:39: Jeanne talks about how she spoke with a couple of people, thought that one of them would be a perfect fit to work with her, that she chose not to work with Jeanne, and that she keeps hearing no and is feeling stuck. 05:06: Cassie asks if she feels stuck because someone said no. 05:10: Jeanne says yes, probably. 05:14: Cassie talks about how this is typical when we hear no and asks if someone saying no means Jeanne hasn't been moving forward. 05:32: Jeanne admits that it doesn't but that it feels that way. 05:38: Cassie agrees that it can feel that way. 05:45: Jeanne talks about how that is how she feels and that she got on the group call and was feeling stuck. 06:16: Cassie asks Jeanne to evaluate what is going on and asks if it is true that she isn't moving anywhere. 06:24: Jeanne admits that it's not true. 06:26: Cassie asks Jeanne why it's not true. 06:27: Jeanne admits that she got a lot done last week but also came up against some roadblocks. 07:08: Jeanne talks about looking for signs and meaning in everything and how that can be discouraging. 08:06: Cassie stops Jeanne and comes back to the question of is it true that Jeanne isn't moving forward. 08:25: Jeanne talks about all of the things she did in the past few weeks. 09:05: Cassie asks Jeanne if she is not moving forward. 09:09: Jeanne admits that she is moving forward. 09:15: Jeanne admits that her brain has been stuck on one thing. 09:22: Cassie talks about how Jeanne is moving forward and how it can feel like you aren't when someone chooses not to work with you. 09:38: Cassie talks about how Jeanne is still doing what she needs to do and is moving forward. 09:48: Cassie talks about how as business owners, it can feel like you aren't moving forward when clients aren't coming in, but that you are still moving forward as long as you are putting in the effort. 10:14: Cassie asks Jeanne if she is ready to own that she is moving forward. 10:26: Jeanne asks Cassie to repeat the question. 10:29: Cassie asks if Jeanne's brain is ready to say I'm moving forward instead of I'm not moving forward. 10:35: Jeanne admits that she wants it to be ready. 10:46: Cassie states that Jeanne isn't there yet and wants to talk about signs. 10:50: Cassie talks about how she would interpret someone not wanting to work with her as a good thing and how Jeanne perceived it as she is doing something wrong. 11:19: Jeanne admits that that's how she feels and that it leads her to believe she shouldn't be doing it. 11:26: Cassie asks Jeanne how someone else quitting makes it so Jeanne shouldn't be doing what she is meant to do. 11:37: Jeanne admits she doesn't know, but that is where her brain went. 11:49: Cassie asks Jeanne if she thinks it's easier to look for the reasons that she shouldn't be doing it. 11:56: Jeanne agrees. 11:58: Cassie asks Jeanne why. 11:59: Jeanne admits that she doesn't have to take the blame if it doesn't work. 12:16: Cassie asks Jeanne how she wants to feel about being the Menopause Guru. 12:24: Jeanne admits that that has been an interesting question the past few days, that she is questioning what she is meant to do, and that it is weird because being the Menopause Guru has been part of her identity for over 5 years. 13:34: Cassie asks Jeanne what she has been questioning. 13:36: Jeanne admits she was questioning everything about her business and discusses what she has been questioning. 14:13: Cassie asks Jeanne if the Menopause Guru is part of who she wants to be. 14:16: Jeanne admits that it has been for a really long time. 14:25: Jeanne tells a story about how a couple of years ago she wanted to open a retreat center, how Cassie asked her if that is what she wanted, and how now she is questioning if the Menopause Guru is who she is supposed to be. 15:15: Cassie asks Jeanne if it feels similar to the retreat center. 15:22: Jeanne admits that it doesn't because there was a relief when she let that idea go, that she doesn't like how this is making her feel, and feels like it is fear that is making her feel this way. 15:46: Cassie asks Jeanne what it would feel like if she gave it up. 15:50: Jeanne admits that she would feel lost, grief, and not knowing what to do next. 16:12: Cassie asks if Jeanne would feel relief. 16:18: Jeanne admits she wouldn't and that she would feel like she gave up too soon. 16:27: Cassie talks about how Jeanne knows the difference between the retreat center and being the Menopause Guru. 16:42: Cassie asks Jeanne if she wants to be her. 16:46: Jeanne admits she does. 16:50: Cassie asks Jeanne how come. 16:55: Jeanne admits that she knows that there are so many people who need what Jeanne is sharing and that what she is doing is important. 17:33: Cassie asks if Jeanne wants to be her. 17:42: Jeanne admits that she wants to be the Menopause Guru. 17:48: Cassie asks Jeanne how it feels to say that. 17:50: Jeanne admits it feels scary. 17:56: Cassie talks about how this is normal for Jeanne, how she is getting ready to send information to a TV station that could make her known worldwide, and how when Jeanne makes big moves forward, fear hits her. 18:50: Jeanne admits that it is a pattern for her. 18:51: Cassie talks about how the conversation started with Jeanne feeling stuck and how now can say that because Jeanne is feeling fear, she knows she is moving forward. 19:07: Jeanne agrees and discusses that she wants to run backward because of fear. 19:12: Cassie talks about how it is normal to want to stay in what is comfortable and that it is easy to see the signs that things aren’t moving forward because we are looking for reasons not to move forward. 19:37: Jeanne admits that is true. 19:42: Cassie asks Jeanne what she is going to do instead. 19:47: Jeanne admits she needs to double down. 19:50: Cassie asks Jeanne to elaborate on that. 19:51: Jeanne talks about getting what she needs to do to move forward and be the Menopause Guru. 20:35: Cassie talks about how the Menopause Guru enjoys her life, teaches women to live and enjoy their life, and asks Jeanne if she is the Menopause Guru on the weekends. 21:00: Jeanne admits that she is. 21:05: Cassie asks Jeanne what it means to be the Menopause Guru and what she will do to be her. 21:15: Jeanne talks about how the Menopause Guru is all about teaching and how she needs to be ready to help the people she wants to help. 22:03: Cassie asks what voice Jeanne needs to listen to. 22:05: Jeanne admits she needs to listen to the voice of what she needs. 22:09: Cassie asks if that is the voice of the Menopause Guru or her clients. 22:13: Jeanne admits that she needs to listen to both, but mainly she needs to listen to her clients' voices. 22:53: Jeanne talks about how she hears them when she listens, but it feels like it is taking a long time to get it right. 23:17: Cassie tells Jeanne she is super smart. 23:21: Jeanne admits that being smart doesn't mean she always knows how to talk to her future clients. 23:30: Cassie asks Jeanne how she is feeling now. 23:36: Jeanne admits that she feels better and knows that this is where she wants to be. 24:05: Cassie asks Jeanne if she wants to think about going out and getting a job. 24:10: Jeanne admits that she doesn't. 24:17: Jeanne talks about how she has noticed that she doesn't want to go back into IT and that she gets so much out of being the Menopause Guru. 25:27: Cassie thinks it's good to recognize the fear, look around to see if you want to go down the path and choose to do it even if there is fear. 25:43: Jeanne talks about how in the past, at this time of year, she would have been doing some extreme physical things and that, interestingly, she knows she can do things when she’s scared. 26:31: Cassie asks Jeanne about the difference between the fear of being an entrepreneur and the fear of going down a mountain that may be out of her comfort zone. 26:46: Jeanne talks about that when it comes to something skill-based if you fail, it is because you aren't skilled enough, but if she fails as the Menopause Guru, it is because she isn't good enough. 27:37: Cassie admits it makes sense but that it is a skill to be the Menopause Guru. 27:46: Jeanne admits that hearing that made her realize she is just working on skills, and if she fails to write a good email, it isn't a reflection of her ability to be the Menopause Guru. 28:14: Cassie talks about how it is different to talk to a client to get them in the door versus serving them as a client. 28:26: Cassie asks Jeanne if she is ready to own that she is moving forward. 28:31: Jeanne owns that she is moving forward. 28:34: Cassie asks Jeanne how that feels. 28:35: Jeanne owns that it feels scary but good. 28:41: Cassie asks Jeanne how else she would like to be supported today. 28:45: Jeanne says she has some emails for Cassie to read. 28:48: Cassie talks about how they coach for about 20 minutes and then go do the work in a coaching session. 29:03: Cassie asks if Jeanne has anything else she would like to share. 29:06: Jeanne talks about how this was a big step for her. 29:15: Cassie wants to talk about the retreat center and how that was how Jeanne thought she would find the people she wanted to help. 29:46: Jeanne admits that it was also a way to be in New Hampshire so she could be with her family and now sees that there are other ways to be there. 31:18: Cassie clarifies that she doesn't need the center to get what she wants. 31:24: Jeanne admits she can do retreats anywhere and with less hassle than owning a center. 31:32: Cassie talks about how Jeanne needed the experience of wanting the center to get to what she really wanted. 32:09: Cassie talks about how the retreat center was a how. 32:18: Jeanne admits it was a how and how scripting about having clients made her question if this was another how or if she was on the right path. 33:08: Cassie asks Jeanne if there are any final thoughts she would like to share.
36 minutes | Mar 24, 2021
Are You Chasing the Law of Attraction Magic?
Do you download a new book every month? Maybe you read it; maybe you don't. Do you sign up for lots of free things promising to teach you how to get what you want? Or, are you always looking for the next thing to "learn" to get better at the law of attraction? What if you stopped and committed to one of the things you're doing? What if you picked one path, one teacher, one program to follow, and you say "no" to all the other quick fixes. Join your host Cassie Parks as Jeanne again joins her and they discuss what is possible when you stop chasing and start becoming. 00:40: Cassie asks Jeanne what's awesome. 00:42: Jeanne talks about redoing her email series and how amazing it was to see the work she has been doing with Cassie pay off. 01:20: Cassie talks about how amazing it is that Jeanne loves her email series. 01:29: Jeanne discusses how different she feels about her emails now than in the past. 01:36: Cassie asks Jeanne to talk more about being less judgmental of herself. 01:40: Jeanne talks about how she has always been a perfectionist, how striving for perfection has evolved into accepting good enough, and how good enough is perfect. 02:36: Jeanne talks about getting an email from a client, that she worked with 8 years ago, about how the current information Jeanne is sharing is helping her now. 03: 04: Cassie asks Jeanne how it feels to get the feedback of helping someone. 03:07: Jeanne talks about how awesome it is and that it was even better to have someone she worked with 8 years ago come back and say that her tips are still helping. 03:23: Cassie talks about what happens when you speak to the people you want to reach. 03:32: Cassie asks Jeanne to talk about how less is more when communicating with her clients. 03:46: Jeanne talks about how she loves science, felt that she needed to share all of that information to help her clients and that sharing the science isn't what her people need from her. 05:00: Jeanne talks about reading articles about the science, wanting to share this information, and then realized that what she really needed to share was how the information she learned is beneficial to other people. 05:58: Cassie asks Jeanne what the Menopause Guru does for the people she works with. 06:08: Jeanne talks about how her magic is helping people realize where they are on their Menopause Journey and how to feel better now. 06:50: Cassie asks Jeanne what she would have said about what she did 2 or 3 years ago. 06:55: Jeanne talks about how, in the past, she would have had a long description of what she did. 07:20: Cassie talks about how entrepreneurs benefit so much by connecting with their Future Selves and their Future Clients because they get clarity on what they do and how they connect with people. 07:55: Cassie asks Jeanne to talk about how Jeanne did something Cassie told her never to do, and she did it anyway. 08:09: Jeanne talks about how about 1 and a ½ years ago Cassie told her she had to be all in or Cassie would fire her as a client, that Cassie wanted Jeanne to talk to her about joining new things before joining, and how Jeanne stuck to that until about 3 weeks ago. 08:48: Jeanne talks about how someone made her an offer, and Jeanne signed up without talking to Cassie, and how it was okay because it was Cassie's program she signed up for. 09:14: Cassie talks about how Jeanne did a check-in and said she signed up and then asks Jeanne how taking a year and a half saying no to new programs effected what happened next. 09:47: Jeanne talks about how when you are chasing the next big thing, you just jump from one to the other without giving it time to be implemented or let it work, and that it puts too much in your head to get anywhere. 10:30: Jeanne tells a story about her accountability partner and how she sees her chasing the next big thing that will change her business. 11:30: Cassie talks about seeing her friend chasing. 11:42: Jeanne talks about how she would investe in a program, do a third of it, say it's not working, go on to the next thing, and how she used to use that as a way of blaming the programs for not working. 12:14: Jeanne talks about when she chose to commit to doing one thing, she learned how to go deeper and has so much more clarity on what she is doing. 13:01: Cassie talks about how Jeanne can have conversations because of the work she did in her business, how Jeanne created her own process to go deeper, and asks Jeanne how it feels. 14:00: Jeanne talks about how she and Cassie talked and how afterward Jeanne sat down and created the formula that is helping to take her business to the next level. 15:22: Jeanne talks about signing up for someone's 100 best email idea list and thought it was great but not for what she is doing, and how she knows what her people need to hear to get where they want to be. 16:07: Cassie asks Jeanne how she knew she needed to say yes to the Enchanted Business Circle. 16:16: Jeanne talks about being on an Enchanted Circle call and hearing someone ask the same questions she used to ask in the past. She realized what she was hearing and how much she has grown and how she is ready for a community that will help her grow her business the way the Enchanted Circle has helped her. 18:12: Cassie talks about seeing where you came from when you are in the group. 18:30: Jeanne talks about how easy it is to feel like you aren't getting anywhere and how when you feel that way, the coaching groups shows you how far you have come. 19:20: Cassie talks about the intention of the group is for people to see their growth and asks Jeanne about her husband's car accident. 19:47: Jeanne talks about it being scary and tells the story of how an 18-wheeler hit her husband's car, how he ended up in the hospital, and how she felt about everything that happened. 21:36: Jeanne talks about how she realized that everything was going to be okay and that everything did work out for the best. 22:18: Cassie asks Jeanne how that is different than in the past. 22:26: Jeanne talks about how in the past she would have stayed in the energy of this is the worst for weeks, and this time she stopped that and stopped trying to figure out how to fix it or figure out how it will work out. 23:24: Cassie asks Jeanne what it means not to have to be the how person. 23:34: Jeanne talks about how she used to plan everything and how she was completely thrown when things didn't work out. 24:03: Jeanne talks about how you can't control the world, but you can take your best next step and ask how you feel. 24:41: Cassie talks about how Jeanne realized that this accident could bring other things to fruition that Jeanne has been scripting. 24:58: Jeanne talks about waiting to see what happens but that the accident could very well take them to the next step. 25:46: Cassie asks Jeanne how she thinks she would have reacted in this situation if she hadn't been working with Cassie. 26:00: Jeanne discusses that she would be angry, thinking about going back to a regular job to feel more secure, and would resent the situation. 26:56: Cassie talks about how Jeanne going back to work would change her relationship. 27:00: Jeanne admits that going back to work would change everything. 27:15: Cassie and Jeanne talk about that they are glad she did the work. 27:20: Cassie talks about how Jeanne putting the work into her business has allowed her to be where she is now. 27:52: Jeanne agrees and talks about how because her work is about changing other people's lives, both wives and husbands, that she has the opportunity to change hundreds of thousands of lives through her work. 29:48: Cassie asks Jeanne how her Future Self has been showing up more as the Menopause Guru in the past couple of weeks. 29:59: Jeanne talks about taking weekends off and that the ease in business comes from taking time off and not feeling guilty about it. 31:11: Jeanne talks about how it is getting so much easier to own who she is and what she does to help the people she needs to help, and how fun it is to step in and own that. 32:20: Cassie asks Jeanne how people can connect with her. 32:29: Jeanne talks about going to www.menopause.guru or Facebook: Menopause Guru, that her books are on Amazon or menopausebooks.com 33:16: Cassie asks Jeanne what advice she would give herself 5 years ago. 33:24: Jeanne talks about how she had to go through the journey the way she did to get where she is and how you need to find someone that resonates with you and follows one voice.
44 minutes | Mar 17, 2021
Ep. #261: Hiding Who You Are Hinders Your Manifesting
There are many ways to wear masks and hide who you are or who you REALLY want to be. Jeanne realized she was hiding. She was choosing her words to post on Facebook and trying to be secretive about menopause. She didn't want anyone to think she was "too much" or get offended by the unflattering symptoms that might come on a woman's journey to her next stage of life. While hiding kept others from getting uncomfortable, it also kept her hidden from those who needed her the most. It kept those who needed her hiding in fear that they were weird, falling apart, going crazy, and mostly not understanding that what they were experiencing was pretty normal. Last week we talked about aligned energy and how that is more important than the perfect words. In this week's episode, join your host Cassie Parks and Jeanne, for the next step in her journey, which is owning who she is! In this episode, they dive deep into why you can't get what you really want unless you own it. In this interview, you will hear Jeanne talk about how she has opened up, how she has stepped into who she wants to be, and how she is owning that she wants to change the world. If you're hiding your LOAness, your knowledge, or any part of you, you are hiding a piece of the puzzle from the Universe. Tune into this week's episode to see just what is possible when you choose to be yourself. 00:38: Cassie asks Jeanne what's awesome. 00:43: Jeanne talks about getting to go to a jazz festival and how much fun she had. 01:03: Cassie asks Jeanne what her superpower is. 01:08: Jeanne talks about how her superpower is to help women recognize the symptoms they may have from menopause, and she helps make them go away. 01:25: Cassie asks Jeanne how people can determine if their symptoms are menopause-related. 01:49: Jeanne discusses how many doctors aren't even aware of all of the things that can be menopause-related and recommends that you check out her website www.menopause.guru/symptom to get an idea of what symptoms can be menopause related. 02:30: Jeanne talks about how if you are over 40 or even in your late 30's, and weird things are happening, it could be hormone-related, and that a lot of the symptoms that are commonly associated with menopause are the ones that show up in the later stages of the menopause journey. 03:17: Jeanne talks about how once you know possible symptoms, you can then explore if it could be caused by a hormonal change due to menopause and how that knowledge can make some of the scarier symptoms less scary because you know what you are dealing with. 03:48: Cassie asks Jeanne what the biggest change that she has had in the last 30 days as far as who she is and who she is being in her business. 04:07: Jeanne talks about how she is more relaxed and is truly owning who she is and what she does. 04:20: Jeanne talks about how she wasn't owning who she is and what her superpower is. She talks about how she has decided to own that she is the Menopause Guru, that she helps women on their journey through menopause, and how she is more confident putting that out into the world. 05:02: Jeanne talks about how by not owning it, it was making it more stressful because she wanted to help people but wouldn't own and share how she can help people. 05:28: Cassie talks about how Jeanne wanted to help people, but there was a barrier between her and the people she was trying to reach. She discusses how people are coming into Jeanne's business quicker and easier because she is owning who she is. 05:55: Jeanne talks about how the biggest change in her business has been owning who she is and what she does, and fully showing up in the world as who she is. 06:24: Cassie talks about how Jeanne was hiding and trying to grow her business, and that she couldn't do what she needed to do to help the people she wanted to help and hide at the same time. 06:38: Cassie talks about how it has been a journey/process and how everything had to happen for Jeanne to step into who she is now. And how, now that she has, the business can build off of the momentum that she has created. 07:14: Jeanne talks about how other people in the group are so much farther ahead of her and that she is just stubborn and a slow learner. 07:37: Cassie gives Jeanne her take on that belief and explains that Jeanne is just in the process of becoming and that what she wants is coming. She just had to allow these pieces to fall into place first. 08:22: Cassie talks about how some people show up ready to own who they are, but then it takes them more time to do some of the other things that Jeanne has been working on. 08:37: Cassie talks about how excited she is about the next few months because everything is already in place, and now that she is ready to own who she is, it will be amazing. 08:49: Cassie talks about how Jeanne has set up the business so that she is ready to take on a ton of clients at once and can support them in the way they need to be supported. 09:17: Cassie talks about how they have been working on setting up the business as Jeanne's Future Self, and they know that her Future Self has a system in place that allows her to focus on her clients and not other aspects of the business. 09:42: Cassie talks about how they have put into place everything that needed to be in place before something bigger could happen. 10:02: Jeanne talks about how scripting 5 years out has helped her see how what she is doing now is helping her create the life she wants to live. 10:49: Cassie asks Jeanne about how it feels to know it is inevitable that, in 5 years, she goes to New Hampshire after Jazz Fest, and if that is how it felt 2 years ago. 11:12: Jeanne admits that she didn't see it two years ago, but now she sees how her life will be in the future because that is how she is setting up her life, and it all feels so much more real. 12:03: Cassie talks about how, to get to that point, it takes consistency in scripting and practicing becoming, and that there is no way to rush the process. 12:33: Jeanne agrees and talks about how in the past two weeks, her husband was rear-ended by an 18-wheeler and how, because of her Future Self, she realized that this is happening to get her where she wants to be. 13:54: Jeanne talks about liking that she scripts 5 years in the future because there is nothing to figure out, and she can instead enjoy what her life looks like 5 years from now. 14:42: Cassie talks about how Jeanne is owning her Future Self in a whole new way. 14:56: Cassie asks Jeanne about the difference between the Jeanne of the past that thought she broke the Law of Attraction and the person she is now who knows what she is scripting 5 years out is inevitable. 15:28: Jeanne talks about how the person she was then was only looking at the short term and believed that if she didn't manifest what she wanted right away it wasn't working, and uses the example of manifesting a free cup of coffee. 16:08: Jeanne talks about manifesting $100K and not expecting it to come into her life the way it did. 16:33: Jeanne talks about trying to manifest a cup of coffee and how the rules she had in place were keeping her from seeing what she had manifested. 17:40: Jeanne talks about how she would miss the amazing things the Universe was giving her because of her rules. 17:47: Jeanne talks about trusting that the Universe is going to give her what she asks for, and trusts that she is taken care of. 18:02: Jeanne talks about how she thinks she broke the Law of Attraction by trying to control too much. 18:12: Cassie asks Jeanne about co-creating with the Universe. 18:26: Jeanne talks about how she takes the step that she feels is the right next step to take, and she trusts that that action is setting her up for exactly what she needs. 19:19: Jeanne talks about how it doesn't matter what happens next because everything that needs to happen is happening, and the specifics don't matter. 19:40: Jeanne talks about how it is all about trusting that everything is exactly as it needs to be. 19:46: Cassie asks Jeanne if the Law of Attraction is working better now. 19:58: Jeanne discusses how her expectations are larger, and she has less rules around them. 20:22: Jeanne talks about manifesting $40 that wasn't hers for the first time. 20:40: Jeanne talks about having to trust that the best possible things are coming true. 20:55: Cassie asks if the old Jeanne would not have been able to trust and had to try to make it happen. 21:03: Jeanne admits that that was her, that she still has her moments, and how if she would have started this process 15 years ago, it would have included more of what was real at that time and that that wasn't where she was supposed to be. 22:11: Jeanne talks about how she is where she is now because she wasn't trying to create her life. 22:30: Jeanne talks about her marriage ending, how the person she was then wouldn't have chosen the life she has now, and how she has accomplished so much more because she became the person she is now. 23:18: Cassie talks about how if she had been scripting at that time, she would have been scripting the relationship she has now but would have thought she was supposed to be with her ex. 23:51: Jeanne agrees and talks about how the details don't matter, and that the details were where she was getting stuck. 25:00: Cassie talks about how things may change, but they will be even better than what she has now. 25:35: Cassie asks Jeanne what she meant by controlling all of the details. 25:50: Jeanne talks about how when she first started scripting, she thought she had to put in all of the details and that now it is so simple in comparison. 26:16: Cassie asks how keeping it simple changes how Jeanne feels when she scripts. 26:25: Jeanne talks about how there is less description because scripting waking up and hearing birds could be her waking up anywhere and having an amazing day, and that the details don't matter. 27:19: Cassie talks about how when you start your script, I heard birds, depending on where you decided you are when you began scripting will dictate what kind of birds and other noises you hear when you wake up. 27:52: Cassie talks about that the being is trusting that your brain will fill in the details of what kind of birds you hear when you start a script. 28:04: Jeanne talks about how if she were writing this as a journal entry and not as a script, she wouldn't put all of the details because they are the birds she would hear every day. 28:45: Cassie wants to talk about how way back Jeanne was so detailed and how things shifted as Cassie got her to let go and trust the first thing that came to mind. 29:29: Jeanne talks about how randomly her husband set his alarm clock to sound like birds. 29:40: Jeanne talks about it being hard to hear the birds in their bedroom because the air conditioner is loud, that all of a sudden she was hearing birds every morning, and how she manifested the birds she was scripting. 30:02: Cassie talks about how that started to build Jeanne's trust muscle. 30:30: Cassie talks about how Jeanne is posting freely and is owning who she is, and asks what kept her from doing that before. 30:34: Jeanne talks about how on her business page it wasn't a problem, but how on her personal page, where she has a lot of people following her that have known her a long time, she was hiding what she did because she didn't want them to feel like she was marketing to them. 31:53: Jeanne talks about how now she is still using her personal page to connect with people and owning what she is doing in her business as part of who she is. 32:28: Cassie talks about how many people feel like Jeanne and feel like if she owned being the Menopause Guru, she would lose out on connecting with her friends. 32:36: Jeanne agrees and admits that she is finding a balance between her personal life and her business life because what she does is important. 33:23: Cassie talks about how many famous people lose who they are and gives an example of someone who owns who they are and shares what they do for a living. 34:49: Cassie talks about how Jeanne couldn't be fully seen on her Menopause Guru page until she could be fully seen on her personal page as the Menopause Guru. 35:05: Jeanne agrees. 35:08: Cassie asks Jeanne about a post she recently put up. 35:13: Jeanne talks about putting up a random post, getting a great response, and that now she wants to own who she is because as she does that, it is easier to step into the person she wants to be. 36:11: Cassie reiterated that being the person you want to be makes it easier not to be the person you don't want to be. 36:25: Cassie talks about how, in the last coaching session she did with Jeanne, she wanted her to set the intention of having 100 people in the cleanse in May and to find these people only through posting what she wants to post on social media. 36:58: Cassie talks about Jeanne realizing if she did 10 posts a week, she would get about 20 people in her cleanse per week, which would be around 100 people in May. And how a week ago that seemed hard, but now it is easy because she is being. 37:25: Jeanne admits that she was planning on trying to negotiate how much she could spend on ads to help her reach the 100 because she didn't think she could do it on her own, and admits that she now knows she can do it on her own. 37:40: Cassie asks Jeanne why she doesn't need to increase her boosted posts. 31:42: Jeanne talks about how she is the person who attracts the people that need to work what her. 37:50: Cassie asks Jeanne to repeat what she just said. 37:53: Jeanne says I am the person who attracts the people who need to work with me. 37:58: Cassie asks Jeanne what changes knowing she attracts the people who need her to her business has made. 38:15: Jeanne talks about how she doesn't need to worry because everything that needs to happen is. 38:32: Cassie asks Jeanne what is going to fill the space that was filled with worry. 38:36: Jeanne owns that fun is going to replace the worry in her life. 38:47: Cassie talks about how Jeanne had a fear that if her business got too big, she wouldn't be able to have fun. 38:59: Jeanne admits that she was worried about making the money she wanted and still doing what she wanted to do. 39:18: Jeanne talks about how most people her age are retired and questioned if she really wanted to grow the business. 39:48: Jeanne talks about how she realizes that she can have it all because of how she runs her business. 40:16: Cassie wants to simplify what Jeanne is experiencing and explains how when you trust, you lessen the worry, and when you let go of the worry, all of the stuff you want can come in. 40:35: Cassie asks Jeanne what advice she would give to someone that is struggling in their business. 40:43: Jeanne talks about telling them to find a coach that resonates with them who can help them discover who they are and help them stay out of their own way. 42:19: Cassie asks Jeanne where people can connect with her. 42:26: Jeanne talks about that you can find her on Facebook under menopauseguru or menopause.guru or menopauseguru.com.
43 minutes | Mar 10, 2021
Ep. #260: It's Not What You Say, But the Energy Behind It
It's not what you say; it's how you say it. This is a common phrase that often talks about tone or body language and not the specific words you use. And it's super important to making The Law of Attraction work. You can say all the "right" words. They can be amazing! You can get out your thesaurus, use the perfect grammar and even have an app make your words more interesting. However, the thing no app, thesaurus, or amazing English teacher can change is the energy behind your words. When you're using the perfect mantra, but the energy behind it is "Please Universe, hear me!!!!! I don't trust, but I'm hoping if I pick the perfect words, you'll have mercy on me," the Universe feels the desperation. In essence, you create more to feel desperate about. You create more "trying to get it right" instead of more of what you want. This happens in business too. Successfully leveraging the Law of Attraction and attracting clients is all about the energy behind the words you are using. There are no "perfect words," only aligned energy. Join your host Cassie Parks for another episode in Jeanne's Journey, where they dive deep into what happens when you let go of desperation and come from a place of trusting the Universe. You'll hear Jeanne go back and review her own words and what the energy used to be behind them versus what it is now. She'll talk about the difference between speaking knowing someone will show up instead of desperately hoping they do. Most people who've been trying to make the Law of Attraction work for a long time don't even know what it looks like or feels like to have that amazing energy alignment. Be sure to tune in this week to hear Jeanne talk about this so you can connect to what it feels like! 00:37: Cassie asks Jeanne what's awesome. 00:42: Jeanne talks about how awesome her business is, that she is celebrating 6 years of living in her dream home, and that she is excited to reach the people that need to hear her message. 01:18: Cassie talks about Jeanne owning that she is excited to get her message out. 01:29: Cassie asks Jeanne how she feels differently about putting her message out than she did 3 years ago. 01:34: Jeanne talks about how she has had this message for a long time, that it is an important message to share, and that she plays an essential part in getting this message out to the world. 02:10: Jeanne talks about how when she used to try to put the message out and didn't feel like it was making the impact that she wanted, it was hard and didn't feel good. 02:30: Jeanne talks about how she has done a lot of work in the last 5 or 6 weeks on her cleanse, how it feels amazing, and is exciting to work on it. 02:51: Cassie asks Jeanne about why it feels so different now than in the past. 03:19: Jeanne talks about how it is draining when you put in the work, and it doesn't seem to be making an impact. 03:28: Jeanne talks about it being draining when she thought she was doing everything right, and it still wasn't working. 03:45: Jeanne discusses how she has talked to some entrepreneur friends, and they talk about being burnt out and tired, how their businesses no longer feel good, and how she recognizes that these are side effects of menopause. 04:44: Jeanne talks about how she took her message to business coaches and other business people, and no one has been able to help her find her audience like Cassie has. 05:17: Cassie talks about how Jeanne has been connecting with her audience more, that the cleanse is taking that connection to a new level, and that Jeanne already has people signed up. 05:35: Jeanne talks about that she has only sent the URL to the cleanse to a few people and isn't sure how she already has 2 people signed up. 05:51: Cassie wants to talk about how Jeanne is getting clients on an energetic level. 05:57: Jeanne admits that she knows how it is happening on an energetic level but doesn't understand how it is happening on a technical level. 06:02: Cassie wants to discuss the differences between the energetic and technical how, but first, she wants to celebrate that Jeanne isn't constantly checking to see if people have signed up for the cleanse. 06:25: Jeanne admits that the only reason she knew is that she got a notification email that told her 2 people had signed up. 06:34: Cassie asks Jeanne what makes it feel like her message is finally reaching the people she is meant to reach. 06:53: Jeanne talks about how she put her first Facebook post out about the cleanse about an hour ago, that it happened organically, and that the signups had already happened before she made that post. 07:18: Jeanne talks about how different the energy and feeling is because she knows that what she is saying right now is what people need to hear. 07:36: Jeanne talks about how she always felt in alignment with her message, but now she feels in alignment with more than just the message within herself. 08:08: Jeanne talks about how she has opened the flood gates to connecting with people because she is so much more confident because of the work she has been doing with Cassie. 08:33: Jeanne talks about how she knew her emails were right but didn't know what to say on Facebook to get people to the emails. 09:00: Cassie and Jeanne discuss that she now feels confident in all aspects of her business. 09:05: Cassie talks about the difference energetically, from an LOA perspective, when you do things knowing people are getting it versus hoping people will get it. 09:33: Jeanne agrees. 09:34: Cassie wants to clarify that the words matter, but from an LOA perspective, it is about the coach's alignment that creates the connection to your clients. 10:03: Jeanne talks about how it is the energy that also crates the words and how once you are out of the energy of desperation, and in alignment, you just know what to say, and it is easy and fun to share this message. 11:42: Cassie talks about how Jeanne spent last year getting clear so now she can better communicate with the Future Clients she knows she works with. 12:22: Cassie asks Jeanne to talk about how the cleanse has taken her business to the next level. 12:27: Jeanne talks about how she is really into the science behind everything, how sharing that information would help some people, and then they would leave because she gave them all the information they needed. 13:25: Jeanne talks about realizing that science isn't enough and that it isn't what people need to know right when they meet her. 13:36: Jeanne talks about realizing that her clients need to know that she cares, will help them find the solutions that they need, and that what they need is unique to them. 13:57: Jeanne talks about how there are so many programs and books that are all about following a few steps, and how the cleanse is only the first step to feeling better while only following a few steps. 14:50: Cassie talks about how Jeanne has stepped into the beingness of her Future Self by putting the cleanse together, and how she is owning being a higher level coach that is taking people on the journey. 15:45: Jeanne talks about how she is prepared for the fear and overwhelm to show up but is excited about being in this new space. 16:37: Jeanne talks about how when she did the first cleanse in January, she was trying to make it so it would make everyone happy and this time she is owning that if people follow the cleanse the way it is, they will get the result they want. 16:57: Cassie talks about how part of Jeanne's up-leveling is owning that she is the expert and that the cleanse will work because Jeanne knows that is what will get people the results they need as they start on this journey. 17:48: Jeanne talks about being her own worst and best client and that she tried the cleanse 3 times in 3 months and discusses how, when she didn't follow her own advice, she had a hard time doing it, but when she followed the cleanse as it was meant to be it was perfect. 19:33: Cassie talks about loving coaches that will do the work on themselves. 19:40: Cassie asks Jeanne to explain what the cleanse does. 19:43: Jeanne discusses how the cleanse is about supporting your body for 5 days with healthy eating and proper exercise and how we often are punishing ourselves and not handling our stress. 21:07: Jeanne talks about how the cleanse is 5 days of supporting your body in the right way so you can start to address the hormone imbalances that come with menopause. 21:44: Jeanne talks about how the cleanse is designed to deal with a lot of the common hormone imbalances so that you can start your path to taking control of your health. 22:03: Cassie wants Jeanne to talk about working and how it has felt recently. 22:09: Jeanne talks about how she, in the past, would feel like she had to sit at her desk 8 to 10 hours a day, wasn't getting anything done, and how she was chasing something that wasn't there. 22:47: Jeanne talks about how Cassie told her to schedule a sensible amount of time to dedicate to her work, and how she still wasn't productive except for when she would meet with Cassie. 23:32: Jeanne talks about how as she connects more with her Future Self, and gains more confidence in her message, she now enjoys the work, and how much time it takes doesn't matter anymore. 24:21: Cassie talks about how Jeanne is in the flow and asks her how she would define being in flow in the past. 24:41: Jeanne discusses that she thought going down rabbit trails where flow, how they were fun, but that they led nowhere and left her feeling stuck and is grateful that Cassie is there to get her out of those situations now. 25:27: Cassie and Jeanne talk about a rabbit hole being all the ideas you think will get you the results and give some examples of what Jeanne used to do. 26:09: Cassie talks about how a rabbit hole is the thing that feels exciting when you are chasing trying to connect with your client, because, as a coach, it is exciting to connect with your people. 26:44: Jeanne agrees with Cassie's description of a rabbit hole and discusses how she only believes in sharing products if she knows that they will help her people, and how she knows when she thinks a product is a good idea, she knows it's a rabbit hole. 28:59: Cassie talks about how you don't have to chase what doesn't feel good when you're in flow. 29:03: Cassie asks Jeanne what you do when you aren't in flow or feel you can't get into it. 29:16: Jeanne talks about how she will first try listening to meditation music and script, and if that doesn't put her in flow, she will take the dog for a walk, and if she still can't scrip, she will take the day off and do something fun. 30:23: Jeanne talks about when you aren't in flow, it isn't worth trying to force flow or working when you aren't connected to your clients. 30:38: Cassie talks about how Jeanne has finally learned that lesson and that it is more powerful to walk away than try and force something. 31:01: Cassie wants to go back and talk about technical alignment versus energetic alignment and discuss how you can hit all of the things you are supposed to have to have a successful business, but without the energetic connection, it doesn't work. 32:04: Jeanne talks about how the technical stuff distracts her sometimes, but she now realizes that she is the only one who can speak to her client. 32:50: Jeanne talks about how she is in some groups and people will ask if they have a good sales pitch, and how she always answers back that I'm not your client, so why would my opinion matter. 33:23: Jeanne talks about how she believes that so many coaches think you can just tick the boxes and get the results, and how it doesn't work that way. 33:47: Cassie asks Jeanne why ticking the boxes doesn't work. 33: 49: Jeanne discusses that they don't work because there are only so many people you want to speak to and that by trying to reach all the people, you aren't connecting with the people who need you. 34:45: Jeanne talks about that because Cassie is connecting with Jeanne's Future Self, she can help Jeanne reach her clients in a way no one else can. 35:42: Cassie talks about how when she saw Jeanne's Future Self, she could help Jeanne find what she says to her clients. 36:33: Jeanne talks about learning that what she thought her clients wanted wasn't what they wanted at all. 36:45: Cassie talks about how Jeanne has been speaking to her clients for a while and that the more she steps into her Future Self, the clients she wants to help are showing up more and more. 37:27: Jeanne talks about how working with Cassie is more about manifesting the life she wants than it is about manifesting money. 39:18: Cassie asks Jeanne the primary reason someone would want to do her cleanse and how they can do it. 39:34: Jeanne talks about how the primary reason to do the cleanse is that you either don't feel like your best anymore, you just want to feel better, and/or that you are between the ages of 38 and 55; the cleanse will help change the way your body is acting. 40:11: Jeanne shares that you can find her at www.menopause.guru.
40 minutes | Mar 3, 2021
Ep. #259: How to Use Inspired Action to Build Your Business
If you’re in business, you’re usually taught to develop an idea, do some research on how to market it, and then write some copy to sell it. Oh, and hope people sign up or buy. For coaches, especially those that are Law of Attraction minded, it can feel challenging to integrate the Law of Attraction piece with the traditional business advice. Jeanne tried to follow traditional business advice for years, and none of the advice she followed led her to the clients she desired. Join your host Cassie Parks as Jeanne Andrus, the Menopause Guru, again joins her, and they dive deep into how Jeanne found and connected with the clients she has always wanted using the Law of Attraction. Cassie and Jeanne discuss how Jeanne has allowed her Future Self to lead her to her clients, build the business she truly wants, and go into detail about what that process looked like. They dive deep into how they started using a symptom by symptom basis to bring clients into Jeanne’s business and how that led to Jeanne creating something that is useful to just about anyone on their Menopause Journey. If you are tired of following the same old business advice and not seeing the results you desire, then this episode is for you!!!! 00:41: Cassie asks Jeanne what's awesome. 00:45: Jeanne discusses her awesome weekend and that she manifested 10K. 01:36: Jeanne talks about her run and how excited she is to be back running. 01:57: Cassie talks about how she knows runners who thought Cassie was posting about running when she would post about Manifest $10K. 02:10: Jeanne talks about how fun it was to follow inspired action to run an unplanned 10K. 02:36: Cassie asks Jeanne if she wanted to tell the wallet story. 02:45: Jeanne tells a story about how 2 years ago her husband couldn't find his wallet and was worried about it, and how 2 years later, one of his clients found the wallet when moving his couch and that everything was still in the wallet when he got it back. 04:06: Cassie asks Jeanne what she is working on in her business right now. 04:25: Jeanne discusses that she is working on a 5 day cleanse to help women going through menopause start to take care of themselves the right way. 05:18: Jeanne talks about how excited she is that it is something that anyone can start at any time and that it will be available for women when they are ready for it. 05:40: Cassie talks about how this interview will be amazing for business owners who want to use the Law of Attraction and how to apply using inspired action to build their business. 06:10: Cassie talks about how it is sometimes hard to learn to take things one step at a time and how this is a great illustration of how things came together. 06:30: Cassie asks Jeanne to talk about how working with Cassie has helped her connect with her future clients through Deb. 06:45: Jeanne talks about how so many women are experiencing so many different things in relation to their menopause journey. 07:15: Jeanne talks about how she picked one problem that menopause is causing, how Cassie helped her create a detailed character with that problem, and then gave her the results that she wants. 07:36: Jeanne talks about how once she knew what the results looked like for Deb, she could work backward and figure out what she needed to be doing to attract similar people into her business. 07:57: Cassie talks about the process of working with Deb, how she then worked backward to find paying clients, and how there are so many aspects to menopause it made sense to work on a symptom by symptom basis. 09:20: Cassie asks Jeanne to talk about Deb. 09:25: Jeanne discusses how Deb has never worried about going to the doctor until menopause started to change her body and how suddenly her numbers were cause for concern. 10:19: Jeanne discusses how Deb is scared because she has seen her family members start to live on pills, and she doesn't want that. 10:55: Jeanne discusses that Deb's biggest hurdle is finding a new way to keep herself healthy on her menopause journey. 11:22: Cassie talks about how Deb's journey to finding Jeanne starts with going to the doctor and being worried about her numbers. 11:38: Jeanne admits that that is what happened to her, how her numbers were going up, and her doctor wanted to put her on medication, and she wanted an alternative. 12:21: Cassie talks about how Jeanne was inspired to team up with someone and do a menopause cleanse. 12:48: Cassie discusses how she asked Jeanne why she needed someone else to do it. 12:55: Jeanne admits that working with Cassie made her realize she doesn't need anyone else to do the cleanse. 12:59: Cassie discusses how Jeanne had to own that she is the expert and could step into her Future Self by doing the cleanse on her own. 13:06: Cassie asks Jeanne about the process of creating the cleanse. 13:14: Jeanne discusses how the cleanse is a 5-day process to start changing your diet to better support your body as you go through menopause. 13:40: Jeanne admits that it is a different approach than what most people are used to because it is different from how most people were raised and is different from others' approaches to nutrition. 14:22: Jeanne discusses that her goal was to create something that women could try for 5 days and see what worked for them and what didn't. 14:35: Jeanne discusses that her overall goal was to help women remove some of the food that has the biggest impact on their health and help them feel better. 15:00: Cassie talks about how Jeanne spent December creating, launching, and leading close to 30 women through it. 15:15: Cassie asks Jeanne to discuss launching the cleanse. 15:23: Jeanne talks about how she did a lot of social media posts, emailed her list to let people know about it, created a Facebook group, and then freaked herself out. 15:42: Cassie wants to talk about how she used LOA and scripting to know who she was talking to as she went through this process. 15:57: Jeanne talks about how she used a person coming from her list and one from her social media posts to help her reach the right people. 16:20: Cassie talks about how doing that helps to speak to the people you are looking to speak to and that you can speak to one person and be heard by many. 16:38: Cassie asks Jeanne what happened after she launched her cleanse. 16:40: Jeanne discusses how she kept adding ideas that weren't fully formed, how she was trying to force and ended up doing too much. 17:21: Jeanne talks about how she wanted to talk to people after the cleanse and ask them what they wanted next from her. 17:34: Jeanne talks about a series of emails that she created to send out after the cleanse, how her fears got in the way, and she ended up setting the email up wrong, so they didn't even go out. 18:14: Jeanne talks about how she was busy the weekend the emails were supposed to go out and didn't check if everything was working. 18:35: Cassie talks about how Jeanne didn't get the result that she wanted, but that she didn't spiral into an old story of her business would never be successful and instead realized it was a technical glitch. 19:00: Cassie asks Jeanne the difference between knowing that it was a technical issue and not that she was incapable of running a successful business. 19:08: Jeanne talks about how you can fix fear by connecting to your Future Self who has been successfully doing this for years, and how you stop the fear by telling your brain you know how to do this. 20:39: Cassie talks about how she loves that Jeanne has let go of her old story and how fear is easy to let go when you connect with your Future Self. 21:20: Cassie talks about how she loved that Jeanne stepped up and knew how to fix it, but that how she wanted to fix it was action-oriented. Cassie then had her switch her focus to her Future Self and not jumping ship because of a hiccup. 22:40: Jeanne talks about how Cassie coached her through her anxiety. 22:47: Cassie talks about how Jeanne is creating an evergreen business and is getting inspiration from her own life. 23:06: Cassie shares Jeanne's website (www.menopause.guru) for if you notice spikes in anxiety. 23:21: Cassie discusses how she coached Jeanne to just keep moving forward and kept her focus on her Future Self as she taught anxiety month. 23:42: Cassie talks about how, when using the Law of Attraction, when you talk about something, it can bring it up in your own life. 23:53: Cassie talks about how Jeanne had to own that anxiety month was tough, how she decided not to do depression month after that, and how she helped Jeanne tweak her plan to make it feel good in the moment. 24:24: Cassie talks about how people feel like you need to layout the whole roadmap when you start, and you have to follow it perfectly, but when you follow the breadcrumbs of inspiration, it can lead you to something better. 24:41: Cassie talks about how at that point, they went back to Deb and were going to read emails that they wrote with her in mind, and then realized that she came from a Facebook post and not an email. 25:02: Cassie talks about how Jeanne freaked out when there were no emails and asks Jeanne to talk about what happened next. 25:18: Jeanne admits that she had forgotten Deb's story but was reminded of her journey when her health was affected by menopause. 25:48: Jeanne talks about how she realized that she wanted to talk about her story again, that looking back on her own menopause journey, she started with a cleanse that helped her find the path back to her health, and, looking back, that is what sparked the inspiration for the cleanse. 26:37: Cassie talks about how all of the pieces fell into place and that a year ago, Jeanne wasn't ready to do a cleanse. 26:53: Jeanne admits that she wasn't ready to do the cleanse at that point, that she was only prepared to handle one symptom at a time, and not prepared to put something out in the world that could help just about anyone. 27:17: Jeanne discusses feeling like she needed more control to speak to such a big audience, and now she knows that this cleanse is the right start for most people who want to take charge of their health as they progress on their menopause journey and not go on medication or hormone therapy. 28:03: Jeanne talks about how she knows her clients don't want to go on medication, and they want to take control of their own journey and health. 28:17: Jeanne talks about how this cleanse is a great starting place to see what taking control is going to look like, and how she lets people know that these 5 days are the strictest and hardest and how it leads to the right path for each individual. 28:40: Jeanne talks about how each journey is unique, and the process of working with her becomes more personalized the more you work with her. 28:54: Cassie talks about how she took notes to help Jeanne write future emails about the cleanse. 29:01: Cassie wants to highlight the breadcrumbs that Jeanne followed and how setting up, launching, and coaching through the cleanse led Jeanne to realize she could do this as a group program. 29:24: Cassie talks about how Jeanne's ideas shifted as she stayed the course and focused on her Future Self has led her to realize that she doesn't work with groups but instead individuals. 29:43: Cassie talks about how as business owners, you sometimes need to coach individuals to see how you can coach as a group. 30:09: Cassie talks about how it started as not wanting to do anxiety and depression back to back, and what it created was the space to take Jeanne's business to the next level. 30:31: Cassie talks about how Jeanne started the cleanse almost the same date she wanted to start it before and then decided it wasn't the right time. 30:46: Jeanne talks about that it is funny how the timeframe went. 30:52: Cassie asks Jeanne if she would have forced moving ahead with the cleanse and fixing everything if it would be as good as it is now. 31:04: Jeanne admits that it wouldn't be because she would have been focused on mechanics and not what she knows Deb and her clients need. 31:25: Jeanne talks about how she keeps simplifying things, increasing communication, and letting go of rules to make sure her clients have what they need and not focused on perfection. 32:02: Cassie tells Jeanne that's a massive shift. 32:04: Jeanne admits that she is realizing that as she works with more people that a lot of what her clients need is a mental shift that will allow them to make the shifts that will change their health. 32:38: Jeanne talks about how some of it is the food you eat, but a lot of it is loving and taking care of yourself. 32:58: Jeanne discusses that the menopause journey can take as long as 20 to 30 years, and that is a long time that you need to be committed to taking care of yourself. 33:18: Cassie talks about how she heard so much growth from Jeanne because, in the past, she always wanted to give people a bunch of harsh rules to follow, and now she is in the space of offering a starting place for people and then offering to help them create their plan that will support them for the next 20 to 30 years. 34:12: Jeanne talks about how her clients are at all stages of their journey and how it is different to support each of them. 34:50: Cassie talks about a link to the cleanse and wants Jeanne to talk about the cleanse and how detailed it is. 35:08: Jeanne talks about how this is the part of the journey that you can follow all of the rules if you want to, and if you wish to do part of it, you can do that too. 35:28: Jeanne talks about how she has thrown in some fun things to do to better take care of yourself. 35:40: Jeanne talks about if you are used to exercising a lot, it may be challenging because she really wants you to take a step back and take care of yourself for 5 days. 36:00: Jeanne talks about how the cleanse is a starting point, that you can adjust it for you, or you can reach out to her, and she will help you customize it to fit your needs. 36:18: Cassie talks about if you relate to Deb, the cleanse would be great for you. 36:46: Cassie asks Jeanne what advice she would give someone who is on the journey to their Future Self in 5 years and how they can use that to connect with their clients today. 37:02: Jeanne discusses that as you connect with your client today, you know that your Future Self has already connected with their clients. 37:15: Jeanne talks about that if your Future Self is telling you you are doing something wrong, you need to listen to her, and how if you hear that you can't do it, it is not your Future Self your hearing, you are hearing something else. 37:46: Jeanne talks about how your Future Self has been through all of this, and all you have to do is follow the path she paved. 38:02: Cassie thanks Jeanne for sharing her journey and talks about if anyone is interested in connecting with Jeanne, you can find her at www.menopause.guru.
42 minutes | Feb 24, 2021
Ep. #258: You Aren’t Too Old or Stubborn to Make LOA Work
Jeanne was over 60 when we started coaching with Cassie and spent her life getting computers to do what she wanted them. These and a few other things set the stage for Jeanne to define herself as the “most difficult client Cassie has ever had.” Jeanne is also The Menopause Guru and teaches women from 40-60 to tame their most annoying symptoms so they can reap the benefits for where they are in their journey as a woman. While her knowledge is the best there is, speaking from her heart instead of her head is something Jeanne has had to learn. Join your host Cassie Parks and Jeanne Andrus over the next 18 weeks as we embark on Jeanne’s journey from most difficult client to manifesting $222,000+ in 9 months! Additionally, you’ll hear how Jeanne started stepping into her business instead of trying to push it forward. 00:40: Cassie talks about how this interview was recorded at Christmas of 2019 and talks about Jeanne's past interviews. 01:02: Cassie tells Jeanne Happy Birthday. 01:09: Cassie asks Jeanne what is awesome? 01:13: Jeanne talks about that it is awesome that she just sent her new post-holiday menopause cleanse to her email list, that more people are interested than she thought would be, and how she is excited to help so many women kick-off 2019 with a bang. 02:06: Cassie talks about how Jeanne owning that she was going to run this cleanse was a major shift for her. 02:19: Jeanne discusses how she felt like she needed to work with someone to put this cleanse together and how she realized she had all the answers and could do it herself through working with Cassie. 02:40: Jeanne talks about where you can contact her if you are interested in why you should do a menopause cleanse. 03:15: Cassie discusses how there were many pieces to putting together this cleanse and how Jeanne put it together in a month versus feeling overwhelmed like she would have in the past. 03:59: Jeanne talks about how working with Cassie and working with her clients has given her clarity when writing her emails and how working with Cassie on her emails has made them even better. 04:54: Cassie talks about how it has made a difference for Jeanne when she is in her client's heart instead of their head. 05:00: Cassie asks Jeanne how she is different now than she was at the start of 2018. 05:06: Jeanne talks about how she really started to change in October 2017, when Cassie almost fired her. 05:22: Jeanne talks about how that was the moment she had to choose to stop all of the voices and only listen to hers and Cassie's as she moved forward. 05:38: Jeanne talks about how the clarity Cassie helped her find is what helped her focus on her clients and stopped her from trying to figure things out. 06:20: Jeanne talks about how the clarity she has has allowed her to trust that she is on the right path and is doing what is right for her business. 07:00: Cassie asks Jeanne if she thinks that the clarity came from having only 2 voices to listen to. 07:12: Jeanne talks about how she felt like someone else had the answers, how everyone will push their solutions on you, and that they may have the answer, but her success has come from the work she has done with Cassie and trusting herself. 07:53: Jeanne talks about how when you are trying to do everything, nothing can happen. 08:00: Jeanne admits that the movement comes from focusing on one thing. 08:05: Cassie wants to emphasize that you can't do all of the things and be successful. 08:52: Cassie asks Jeanne what it means to stand in one place and how that can help people in business and life. 08:58: Jeanne admits that standing still allows her to be molded through the work she is doing with Cassie. 09:10: Jeanne talks about that when you stop and stay still, you allow the voices to come to you and then get to choose what is in alignment with what you want. 09:40: Jeanne talks about how consistently getting in touch with her Future Self, as her only LOA work, has guided her to the answers she was looking for. 10:13: Jeanne talks about how she used to jump around in her LOA work, how she used to think she had to do all of the methods to get results, and how having a long to-do list doesn't work. 10:42: Jeanne talks about how Cassie has made it easy to know when she is off track and how there isn't a zillion things to do to get magical results. 11:40: Jeanne admits that the results come from the consistency of doing the work. 12:14: Cassie asks Jeanne how her birthday feels different than birthdays in the past. 12:28: Jeanne talks about how she got up a 2 am and worked for 3 hours because it was inspired. 12:51: Jeanne talks about how she got up mostly on time and was working all day. 13:00: Jeanne talks about how in the past, she would have resented working on her birthday, but now she knows that if she really wanted the day off, she would have taken the day off. 12:27: Jeanne admits that what she wanted to do on her birthday is create the things that will reach the women she is trying to help. 13:42: Jeanne talks about how today feels like it has purpose, is centered, productive and perfect. 14:01: Cassie asks Jeanne what she is the most excited about in 2019. 14:07: Jeanne tells Cassie that she is excited because she can see how this year is where all of the work and growth she has experienced while working with Cassie will pay off, and she finally reaches the women she has always wanted to help. 14:31: Jeanne talks about how she knows she is offering something that people want, but the missing piece was communicating with the right people to let them know how she could help them. 14:50: Jeanne talks about that there were so many reasons that she hasn't found her audience, and now she knows that it is all about timing to reach the right people. 15:30: Jeanne talks about some of the fears she has had to work through. 15:50: Jeanne owns that this is the year that everything falls into place and that she will get to help all the people she is meant to help. 16:10: Cassie talks about how Jeanne has realized that she isn't meant to help everyone and how that is hard as a coach. 16:26: Jeanne talks about how it can feel like she isn't good enough when someone doesn't want to work with her and how she now knows that isn't true. 16:40: Cassie asks how freeing it is to know it is not a reflection of you if someone doesn't want to work with you. 16:43: Jeanne discusses how it feels super freeing and how, in the past, she be hurt to find out that someone decided to work with someone other than her. 17:14: Jeanne talks about how she would question why they wouldn't want to work with her, how she now has realized that they are choosing what is right for them and that it isn't a reflection of her. 17:48: Cassie asks Jeanne what the most surprising thing about 2018 was. 18:02: Jeanne talks about how, in the summer, Cassie told her that she has to stop trying to work because she wasn't working. 18:22: Jeanne admits that Cassie's coaching made her rethink how she was working, that it was okay to do other things and live her life to open space for her business. 18:51: Jeanne talks about what happened when she started to question how she was currently working versus what her life would look like once her business was what she wanted it to be. 19:16: Jeanne talks about how creating space allowed her to see that there is plenty of time to do everything she wants to do and saw that she was wasting time forcing and not accomplishing anything. 19:29: Cassie talks about how important space is because, as a coach, if you are energetically too busy, your clients don't feel like they will be taken care of. 20:09: Cassie asks Jeanne about 2018 being the year of relaxing and knowing it. 20:20: Jeanne talks about her dad being an entrepreneur and how her dad worked really hard and worked 9 to 10 hour days, after work, and weekends. 21:10: Jeanne talks about how she took that as you have to be working all the time to be successful. 21:21: Jeanne talks about how she realized that you have to have space, choose to be there for the people who need you and that the people who need you will show up. 21:50: Cassie asks Jeanne how knowing her people will show up will make 2019 amazing. 21:55: Jeanne talks about it starting because she is allowing people to come to her by putting this cleanse out there. 22:32: Jeanne talks about how she is letting people see what is possible when they put themselves first and take care of themselves by doing this cleanse. 23:00: Cassie talks about how Jeanne had to let go of a lot to get her to the point where she is ready to share this cleanse. 23:28: Jeanne admits that she was trying to do too much, and it wasn't right for anyone. 24:00: Jeanne talks about realizing that she had to find a way that both her and her clients could get what they need out of the cleanse and love it at the same time. 24:10: Cassie talks about how when Jeanne started working with Cassie on her business, she felt like there had to be so many things to get the results and how that has changed as Jeanne stepped into her Future Self and got clear about her clients. 24:48: Cassie asks Jeanne how it felt to let go of feeling like her clients had to do everything all at once. 25:00: Jeanne admits that she still has to be aware of when she is trying to give too much at once. 25:18: Jeanne admits that part of the reason she does that is because she felt like she had to be the A student who did all of the work in school to get where she wanted to be. 25:45: Jeanne talks about how Cassie almost firing her made her stop being the person who could figure it out overnight and made her stop chasing how she was going to be successful. 26:40: Jeanne talks about how she initially had an outline for a 400-page book when she was writing her first book. 27:07: Jeanne talks about how now she has written 400 pages, but it has been over 5 books, how each book has its purpose, and how she has been able to get the books out because she didn't try to do it all at once. 27:30: Jeanne talks about learning that she has to pace herself or she will overwhelm her clients. 27:46: Jeanne admits that she tends to forget that the clients who need her are already overwhelmed with menopause and that they need help, not more overwhelm. 27:59: Cassie talks about the importance of Jeanne remembering that she needs to break things down into pieces to serve her clients best. 28:23: Jeanne talks about how she realized she could simplify the cleanse even more as she is having this conversation. 28:30: Cassie asks Jeanne how it feels to see a way to make the cleanse even simpler. 28:32: Jeanne admits that it feels really good that she realizes that what she was planning is too much to fit into 5 days, and that part of what she was planning can be the next step for people who want to continue to work with her. 29:18: Cassie talks about how less is almost always more and that by giving people less, they will go deeper and get more out of the experience of working with Jeanne. 29:49: Cassie talks about how Jeanne called 2019 the year of sufficiency and asks Jeanne to elaborate on that. 30:08: Jeanne talks about how she has learned that making $1 million isn't sensible to do in 30 days, that she has learned that she has a business that is just starting to support her and that she has to allow that to build so that it can fully support her. 30:53: Jeanne talks about her first VIP client coming to work with her and how Cassie helped her realized she didn't need 4 or 5 clients to do retreats. 31:14: Jeanne talks about how she and her VIP client had a fantastic weekend and that if she had had 4 or 5 people, she wouldn't have been able to serve them because of things she hadn't even considered. 31:44: Jeanne admits that if she had had 4 or 5 people, she would have been in tears by the end of the weekend and instead had a fantastic learning experience. 32:07: Jeanne talks about how the next weekend, no matter how many people, will be awesome. 32:30: Jeanne admits she went off-topic. 32:34: Cassie talks about how Jeanne was talking about what she learned and that you can go for $1 million, but not overnight. 32:39: Cassie admits that she has her clients go for a $1 million 5 years out so that there is space for it to come. 32:54: Cassie clarifies that Jeanne now realizes that you have to build up to $1 million, and how if you went from 0 to $1 million, you would miss all the lessons along the path. 33:17: Jeanne talks about how she sees her business fully supporting her in 2019, how that is starting to happen now, and that as soon as 2020, she can see her business fully supporting her and her husband. 33:50: Jeanne talks about how amazing it is to be in this position because she and her husband are in their 60's and that she loves that this business will be there to support them no matter what. 34:13: Jeanne talks about how important it is to her that her business allows her husband to retire. 34:40: Jeanne talks about giving her husband the gift of not having to work. 35:00: Cassie talks about how making $100K feels real and possible now. 35:10: Jeanne talks about seeing how her business will bring in $100K in 2019. 35:25: Jeanne talks about doing the $1 million exercise with Cassie several times and that she now knows that this cleanse is the start of what is going to make her $1 million in her business. 36:06: Cassie talks about how when you follow the path to $100K it is inevitable that your business will grow to the $1 million mark if you continue down the path. 26:31: Jeanne talks about knowing exactly what the path her clients will go down with her looks like, how she sees how it is all possible, and how when she is making $100K, she will see what the next step is. 37:14: Cassie talks about how when you focus on making $1 million in 30 days, it keeps you in the energy of how do you get there, versus becoming the $1 million coach through doing the work that Jeanne has been doing. 37:55: Jeanne talks about how everything moving forward is building off of what she does in 2019. 38:08: Cassie asks Jeanne if she has any final thoughts she would like to share. 38:14: Jeanne just wants to thank Cassie for helping her and keeping her on as a client and the importance of not chasing everything to get where you want to go. 39:49: Jeanne is so grateful for everyone who will be on the journey with her. 40:04: Cassie asks Jeanne where people can connect with her. 40:12: Jeanne shares that you can find her: Facebook: Menopause Guru Website: www.menopause.guru Email: email@example.com
34 minutes | Feb 17, 2021
Ep. #257: Manifesting When You Feel Like a Rebel
Have you always felt like an outsider? Maybe a rebel? If you answered yes, you are in good company. It's great to want more, believe more, and see more possibilities in the world than anyone else, but when your story becomes, "I'm a rebel," you start creating that experience everywhere you go. There isn't room for a different experience because you, consciously or unconsciously, need to create your story over and over again. Join your host Cassie Parks as she and Kimberly Hite dive deep into unraveling Kimberly's "I'm a rebel" story. In this episode, you will hear that story disintegrate and shift into a deeper sense of belonging. Being a rebel is great unless it keeps you from what you desire, and the good news is that no matter the story you are living right now, if you want something different, you can have it. Kimberly Hite is a magical artist who finds happiness in creating. She joined the Enchanted Circle because she had experienced moderate success on her own but wanted more. By sharing her experience, she intends to inspire others on their journey to the happiness everyone deserves. When she's not following inspiration to create magic in her studio, you can find her laughing with her boys, scripting her Future Life, and cheerleading others to live life’s they love. If you would like to connect with Kimberly, the best place to find her is her personal Facebook page, Kimberly Hite. 00:33: Cassie talks about the last episode she did with Kimberly about Network Marketing. 01:03: Cassie talks about how Kimberly has been in the Enchanted Circle a year because that is when she said yes, and discusses the magic of saying yes and going all in. 01:33: Cassie talks about how about a year ago, she sent out an offer for a 10-day pass to the Enchanted Circle. 01:48: Cassie asks Kimberly why she said yes. 01:51: Kimberly discusses how she followed Cassie for 3 years, had read and reread Cassie's books, how she was inspired to invest in herself, and how it is one of the best investments she has ever made. 02:28: Cassie talks about how she got an email from Kimberly asking if she should get started right away. 02:42: Cassie discusses how she asked Kimberly if there was space to start right away or if she would instead enjoy the holidays and start when it felt right. 02:52: Cassie shares that Kimberly decided to wait for the right time and asks her if she feels like that impacted what happened next. 03:00: Kimberly admits that it did because she gave herself permission to enjoy the holidays and how she gave herself the space to become the person who thrived in the Enchanted Circle. 03:23: Kimberly talks about how she was investing in 10 days but knew that she was invested in going long term. 03:38: Kimberly admits that she needed the baby step of 10 days to own going all in. 03:54: Cassie talks about how when she asks herself who her clients are, she knows that a lot of the time, they need that diving board and early success to go all in. 04:13: Cassie talks about bringing Pay After You Manifest back and using that to give people a taste of what is possible. 04:30: Cassie asks Kimberly why she decided she was in long term and how she made that decision. 04:51: Kimberly discusses how Cassie made it easy for her to make that decision and admits that she is currently scripting that in 5 years, she is still grateful that she is working with Cassie, so it is a no brainer that she should be working with her now. 05:33: Kimberly admits that she is trusting her Future Self because she knows her Future Self is working with Cassie. 05:48: Cassie discusses that inspiration is not what you hope will get you where you want to go, but the thing you have to do. 06:17: Kimberly talks about how she has been going deeper and deeper into understanding the feeling of inspiration, how it is the thing you have to do, and how the Universe always delivers when she follows that feeling. 06:40: Cassie talks about co-creation and how what she does and what her clients want all works together to benefit everyone. 06:55: Kimberly admits that being in the Enchanted Circle is magical. 07:15: Cassie asks Kimberly about the money she has manifested in the last year. 07:23: Kimberly admits that she doesn't have the exact number, but she is close to having manifested $88,000 in a year. 07:30: Cassie asks Kimberly how it feels to have manifested that much. 07:33: Kimberly discusses that it is incredible because she has never made that much money in a year before, how that is close to triple what she made working her corporate job working 40 hours a week, and how she hasn't worked anywhere near that much this year. 08:00: Kimberly talks about how money just shows up in her life and how fun it has been. 08:10: Cassie talks about how Kimberly had done Manifest $10K on her own and manifested $10K twice, but now Kimberly is at $88K because she committed herself to a year of doing the work. 08:22: Kimberly admits that when she manifested the $10K in the past, she got laid off from work and received $10K from her unemployment. 08:34: Kimberly admits that she was amazed at how well Manifest $10K worked but wished she hadn’t gotten laid off. 08:42: Cassie asks Kimberly if the money is coming in in different ways, and Kimberly admits that it is. 08:49: Cassie asks Kimberly what the biggest ah-ha or growth has been since her last interview. 08:53: Kimberly admits that she talked about it earlier but can't remember what it was. 08:27: Cassie reminds Kimberly that she realized that she had done enough and that that is huge. 09:08: Kimberly talks about how she volunteered to take on a project that she thought she would have help on and realized that she would be doing it independently. 09:25: Kimberly talks about realizing that she took on more than she could do on her own. 09:38: Kimberly talks about how she realized that she was no longer inspired and that she did everything she could do on her own. 10:01: She owned that she had done the best she could and that it would all work out. 10:18: Kimberly discusses how it was a huge shift because she didn't feel guilty about her decision and how what she did do was good enough. 10:45: Cassie talks about how owning that you are enough opens you up to so much more and creates so much more magic. 11:11: Cassie talks about how you are creating when you are enough and how your life gets even more magical. 11:40: Kimberly discusses that it has been a journey to get to this point and that she has been saying it to herself, but she now owns that she is enough. 12:14: Cassie asks what coaching she has gotten to help create the shifts she has experienced. 12:22: Kimberly can't remember what she and Cassie had talked about, and Cassie reminded her that they had had to discuss judgment, how that tied into I'm enough, and how judgment was comfortable. 12:33: Kimberly talks about how recently she has realized that she has a choice in what she wants to own as her truth and that she has become more aware of choosing what feels best to her. 12:55: Kimberly discusses that she hadn't realized that judging herself was her comfort zone, that now that no longer feels good, and that she wants more. 13:20: Kimberly discusses that she chooses to let that go and be in this new space that feels uncomfortable. 13:29: Cassie talks about how new is uncomfortable even if that is what you want, and it is a weird space of both the old and the new not feeling great. 13:42: Kimberly talks about how she was going back to what was comfortable even though she is no longer that person. 13:51: Kimberly realizes that looking back, she can see how it took her a while to own that she was judging herself and that she wanted something different. 14:08: Cassie talks about that that is how it works because in the moment, it doesn't feel like a choice, and how as you start to ask how to let things go, you realize that it is just choosing what you want. 14:50: Kimberly discusses how much better it feels even if it is uncomfortable. 15:00: Cassie talks about how it is worth getting comfortable in that uncomfortable space. 15:07: Kimberly talks about how she wants more. 15:12: Cassie discusses that Kimberly was scripting having amazing skin, then Kimberly joined Mary Kay, got the amazing skin she wanted, and then realized that she created that. 15:28: Cassie discusses that Kimberly didn't script it and then try to figure out how to make it happen, how that is how she used to use scripting, and how having amazing skin is such evidence for her. 15:53: Kimberly admits that that is one thing that she will always remember because she never saw Mary Kay coming into her life. 16:22: Kimberly discusses how it was something that she had to do, how she didn't understand why she had to do it at the time, but in hindsight saw there were many reasons she had to join Mary Kay. 17:00: Cassie talks about how Mary Kay is a fun story and how you think it will be the massive things that are your favorite stories, but it is a lot of the time the fun random ones that stick with you the most. 17:23: Cassie talks about how Kimberly knows it's happening because she makes really smart investments now, and asks Kimberly how it feels to be that person. 17:32: Kimberly tells a story that recently she didn't make a great investment, and how it was a learning experience. 17:50: Kimberly talks about that she knows she makes smart investments because she invested in working 5 years with Cassie and how investing in herself is huge because she is worthy of that investment. 18:14: Kimberly talks about how she manifested 1-on-1's with Cassie, knew that she had to do them, and how they are a smart investment. 19:00: Cassie asks Kimberly about manifesting being closer to her kids than she ever thought possible. 19:08: Kimberly discusses that she used to have the story that teenage boys didn't want to hang out with their moms and that she started scripting being closer with her boys. 19:33: Kimberly discusses how when there are important things to talk about, they come to her to talk about it. 19:40: Kimberly talks about how her son called from Alaska and spoke for an hour on the phone. 19:51: Kimberly recognizes that the Enchanted Circle has allowed her to have more in-depth conversations with her kids because of who she is showing up as. 20:30: Kimberly talks about how she loves her relationships with her boys. 20:42: Cassie asks Kimberly how she has seen her Future Self show up in the last few months. 20:47: Kimberly talks about how she shows up more confident and honest and asks for what she wants and what she needs. 21:21: Kimberly talks about how her Future Self shows up in the moments where she needs support in being authentic. 21:30: Cassie asks Kimberly about showing up quiet. 21:35: Kimberly talks about how she is always getting ideas, how she feels like she has to act on all of them, how her Future Self has taught her to acknowledge the ideas and realize that she doesn't have to act on them just because she thought them. 22:02: Kimberly discusses that she now sees that she has a choice in what ideas she wants to pursue, and she realizes that she can choose only to pursue the ideas she is inspired to and can let go of the rest. 22:23: Kimberly discusses how it feels so much better only to pursue ideas that are inspired. 22:29: Cassie asks Kimberly what the biggest way she has grown or shifted in the past few months is. 22:37: Kimberly talks about how the biggest thing she has realized is that she is worthy and can be herself and belong. 23:12: Cassie talks about how Kimberly's growth is so much more than just the money in her life and that there are so many more awesome things. 23:31: Kimberly talks about how she used to think that manifesting was all about money, that money was the solution to all of her problems, and that she has learned that she emotionally feels better, that she loves the feeling, and the feeling is what brings the money. 24:06: Kimberly discusses how money keeps showing up and that it gives her so many choices. 24:16: Kimberly knows now that it is all about following what feels good. 24:20: Kimberly admits that she is deeply happy every day, and she wants more of that. 24:32: Cassie asks Kimberly if she has any questions for Cassie. 24:50: Kimberly asks Cassie what changes she has seen in Kimberly over the past year. 25:03: Cassie talks about how Kimberly came into coaching so open that it allowed her to let go and shift really fast. 25:20: Cassie discusses how she had to help Kimberly realize that she didn't have to continue to heal the past anymore, that she gets to choose that she is okay and doesn't have to analyze the past. 25:48: Cassie discusses how Kimberly has stepped into choosing to no longer analyze. 25:56: Cassie discusses how Kimberly stepped out of analyzing and into her Future Self through doing the work. 26:41: Cassie discusses who Kimberly was initially and how she doesn't recognize that person a year later. 27:05: Kimberly asks Cassie about how she knows her client's Future Selves. 27:24: Cassie discusses that she sees her client's Future Self in the workshop, and that is why she always goes back to the work that is done in those workshops. 27:58: Cassie talks about how she hears and sees her clients' Future Selves in the workshops 28:21: Cassie talks about how all of her coaching comes from what comes up in those workshops. 28:27: Cassie talks about how coaching can be similar for multiple people, that sometimes it is more specific to each person, but everything comes from the work done in the workshop. 29:03: Cassie discusses how once she knows someone's Future Self, she can catch when you aren't being true to the person you are becoming. 29:15: Kimberly talks about how cool that is and how she wanted to understand how Cassie does things. 29:40: Kimberly talks about how Cassie is interested in how the brain works and wanted to understand how she knows someone's Future Self. 29:56: Cassie talks about how she would love to talk more about knowing her clients' Future Selves and how the workshops are a space that people think they are creating a dream, but in reality, they are creating a place in time. 30:10: Cassie discusses how you are creating a place in time in the workshop and because time isn't linear, it shows people the person you will become someday. 30:38: Kimberly talks about how the exciting part of working with Cassie is realizing how much of what she is scripting is already in her life and how she thought she would have to wait 5 years to experience what she was scripting. 30:55: Cassie asks Kimberly if there is anything else she would like to talk about. 31:00: Kimberly talks about that she is on a natural high and that she is so grateful she said yes to working with Cassie. 31:30: Kimberly and Cassie discuss how they have 4 more years to work together. 32:08: Cassie asks Kimberly where they can connect with her. 32:23: Kimberly shares you can connect with her on her personal Facebook page Kimberly Hite. Be sure to tune in next week as we dive into another amazing interview series!!!
39 minutes | Feb 10, 2021
Ep. #256: Manifesting and Network Marketing
Kimberly's Future Self led her to 3 network marketing companies. The third one happened so inspired it left her thinking, "What did I just do?" These were all inspired, and they taught, and are still teaching, her how to sift through inspiration, and how to really stay true to the Law of Attraction foundation she has built while doing what was inspired. Network marketing companies often have a "system" you are supposed to follow to be successful. And that system is usually based more on pushing than leveraging the Law of Attraction. After being inspired to join the third network marketing company, Kimberly had to navigate how to stay out of the push and in inspired action. Join your host Cassie Parks as Kimberly Hite again joins her to discuss all things network marketing, the Law of Attraction, inspired action, and how all of these things played out in Kimberly's life. Kimberly Hite is a magical artist who finds happiness in creating. She joined the Enchanted Circle because she had experienced moderate success on her own but wanted more. By sharing her experience, she intends to inspire others on their journey to the happiness everyone deserves. When she's not following inspiration to create magic in her studio, you can find her laughing with her boys, scripting her Future Life, and cheerleading others to live lives they love. If you would like to connect with Kimberly, the best place to find her is her personal Facebook page, Kimberly Hite. 00:40: Cassie introduces the topic of MLM's (Multi-Level Marketing) and the Law of Attraction. 01:13: Cassie asks Kimberly what is awesome, and Kimberly talks about how it is awesome that she is ready for Christmas. 01:48: Cassie talks about how Kimberly has been on her journey a year. 02:30: Kimberly talks about how this has been the best investment ever to work with Cassie. 02:50: Cassie wants to talk about how Kimberly used to be a money chaser and why she joined the Enchanted Circle. 03:20: Kimberly talks about how she joined an MLM when her son was a baby and how she joined many over the last 20 years. 03: 48: Kimberly talks about the most recent MLM's she has joined. 04:05: Kimberly talks about how she thought she joined Color Street (MLM) for the discount and how she thought that it is something women use, so it should be easy to sell. Then the pandemic hit, and she just felt like she was annoying her friends and family and how it didn't feel good. 04:28: Kimberly talks about how she still uses the product but isn't inspired to do anything else with it. 04:35: Cassie talks about the difference between following inspired action to join and when joining is actually a how. 05:26: Cassie talks about how Kimberly never felt she had to go out and sell, but she was selling. 05:35: Cassie asks Kimberly to talk about how selling Color Street by the pool was different from selling in the past. 05:42: Kimberly tells the story of going to the pool, telling a stranger about the product, and how she sold four sets. 06:25: Kimberly talks about how this was entirely out of her comfort zone and was organic and inspired. 06:53: Kimberly talks about how the whole situation was organic, how she let it unfold naturally, and how this felt so much better than cold calling like she would have in the past. 07:30: Cassie talks about how Kimberly's Future Self has led her to these opportunities to bring in fast, easy money and allowed her to grow in the fastest way possible. 08:06: Cassie talks about how we are given chances to do things differently when we connect with our Future Selves. 08:20: Cassie talks about how it felt good to Kimberly to want to sell Color Street, and when that shifted, she chose to stop. 08:30: Cassie asks Kimberly about how she feels about deciding to stop selling Color Street verses how she would have felt in the past. 08:35: Kimberly talks about how she would have had a judgment about leaving in the past, shares how she reached out to the woman above her, and that she responded with how great Kimberly would be at it. 08:50: Kimberly talks about how she owned that she was no longer inspired to sell and just wanted to buy the product and not sell it. 09:03: Kimberly talks about how she sold off all of her product in bulk and made $285 in the process. 09:15: Kimberly talks about how there was no guilt in not wanting to be a part of that MLM anymore and how that was different than in the past. 09:24: Cassie asks Kimberly if she had experienced guilt in the past. 09:28: Kimberly talks about how in MLM or Network Marketing, there are people above you, and the more you sell, the more they make. 10:10: Kimberly admits she would feel like she was letting the people above her down if she wasn't selling what was expected of her. 10:26: Kimberly talks about how this time she felt like it wasn't inspired and had no responsibility to her up-line. 10:37: Cassie talks about the expectation of working in an MLM. 10:21: Cassie asks Kimberly about joining Mary Kay. 11:00: Kimberly tells the story about how she was introduced to the opportunity and how she could get started for $75. 11:25: Kimberly talks about how she just signed up, didn't even think about it, and how afterward she asked herself why she did it. 11:40: Kimberly talks about how she had to get on a call and ask Cassie why she just joined another MLM. 11:54: Kimberly explains how it was an out of body experience joining, how she just did it and had no idea what happened afterward. 12:12: Cassie talks about how Color Street and Mary Kay were different and similar for Kimberly and how they were the next step. 12:40: Kimberly admits that at the moment, she didn't realize she was taking the next step and had no idea what to think. 13:00: Kimberly admits that the only reason she did it was that she was inspired to. 13:04: Kimberly talks about how she had a 2-hour script assignment to do after all of that happened, how she had to reread the original from the workshop, that in it she wrote that she enjoys amazing skin, and how she forgot she wrote that. 13:27: Kimberly talks about how all of this was totally inspired and what she had learned from the experience. 13:40: Cassie wants to talk to Kimberly about the lessons she has learned. 13:51: Cassie talks about how she was in an MLM, how she learned a lot, but it wasn't a great experience, and how she would do it so differently now. 14:13: Cassie wants to talk about how MLMs pitch living a different life, and how you sign up to do it differently and get put into a box because it is an easy business plan to follow, but it doesn't always line up with LOA. 15:00: Cassie asks Kimberly if she felt like she was put into that box. 15:08: Kimberly talks about how she got on a few calls asking Cassie how to get out of the box and do it her way, and how it didn't feel good to do it the Mary Kay way. 15:38: Cassie talks about how when Kimberly started, she had a lot of success in her first month, and how after she got promoted and was put in a leadership role, things began to shift. 16:04: Cassie talks about how Kimberly had to change the story that she was rebellious because she didn't want to do it their way. 16:16: Cassie talks about how they did some coaching to switch the story from I'm rebelling to I'm following my intuition, which is what got her to this point. 16:25: Kimberly talks about how she forgot about all of the success she was having in the beginning and how that shifted when she started training to help other people grow their businesses. 17:02: Kimberly talks about how she felt like a rebel because she didn't what to do the training the way they wanted her to, how she liked the first month, how it was no longer fun, and how she stopped showing up and being authentic. 17:47: Kimberly talks about how she was in the how and trying to figure out what to tell her director to explain herself, and she realized that she doesn't have to explain herself to anyone and can do what she wants in her business. 18:05: Kimberly talks about how she felt responsible for helping her director reach her million-dollar goal and learned a lesson about investing money she wouldn't typically have invested. 18:29: Kimberly talks about how she knows that money is coming back to her, but that the process has been hard because she realized that she was trying to convince herself that what she was doing was inspired. 18:48: Cassie talks about how joining three MLM's is the story of a money chaser, but that as a whole, joining these MLM's is not the story of a money chaser, and explains how what Kimberly did is different than chasing money. 19:40: Cassie talks about how doing the work changes you and that things become inspired as you grow and the meaning changes. 20:00: Cassie talks about how people get inspired and then get in and start to push and asks Kimberly how she knew that she was no longer inspired after she joined. 20:17: Kimberly admits that she knew it wasn't inspired because she had to ask herself if it was inspired, and how she knows if it's inspired you don't have to ask if it is. 20:25: Kimberly admits that she was going back and forth on if she should do it or not, and she talked herself into it so that she could work to double her money. 20:35: Kimberly talks about winning $500 that she knew she would use for Christmas, how this launch convinced her she could double her Christmas money, and how that is not what happened. 21:00: Kimberly talks about how the big ah-ha was realizing that it wasn't inspired. 21:20: Cassie talks about how surprised she was that Kimberly invested when she spoke to Kimberly on a call and thought she wasn't going to invest and then did, and how Kimberly then realized that she wasn't following inspiration. 21:50: Kimberly talks about how she was able to grow from the experience, how it helped her to better trust herself and her intuition, and how that is something that you continue to improve upon. 22:22: Kimberly admits that she forced herself to make that investment, and how she knows that that money will come back to her because she is continuing to trust. 22:45: Cassie talks about how it is okay just to get the money back or just take the lesson from it to take it to the next level, and know that the money will come back to her. 23:20: Cassie talks about how joining MLM's is often pushed and tells a story about when she joined an MLM. 23:54: Cassie talks about how now she would ask herself if she was inspired before she would invest any money. 24:11: Cassie talks about how people often get pushed when they join MLM's but that it can be a beautiful place if done through inspiration. 24:24: Cassie talks about how loving the product is the first step in building a successful MLM business. 24:30: Kimberly talks about the third MLM she is a part of, Isagenix. She discusses how she does it for her health and isn't trying to build the business. 24:55: Kimberly admits that she has lost 40 pounds with the products, yet there is no other inspiration. 25:04: Kimberly talks about how she loves Color Street, but she gave it up and realized the discount isn't really that important to her. She realized that what is important is to support other people's businesses instead of building her own. 25:30: Kimberly talks about how she has had some inspired ideas of things to do with Mary Kay, how some of them were a bust, how they were fun, and how she made $150. 25:54: Kimberly discusses how she no longer wants to chase the pink Cadillac and wants a silver glittered Beetle instead. 26:14: Kimberly talks about how she is still using Mary Kay products, loves them, and loves investing in herself. 26:36: Kimberly talks about keeping her page to empower women and will no longer push to grow that business. 27:00: Kimberly admits that she knows that amazing things will come from that inspiration and is excited to see what they are. 27:11: Cassie talks about how the Universe delivers us the easiest path to get the experiences we need to become our Future Self and how following inspiration will lead you there. 27:38: Cassie discusses how the magic happens when you go all-in into inspiration and stop when it no longer feels good. 27:52: Kimberly discusses that she realized that in the past, she didn't want to accept recognition, and how Mary Kay showed her that recognition could be fun, but then realized that she had to sell $1800 to earn a $21 prize. 28:40: Kimberly talks about how she realized that if she wanted the prizes, she could invest her own money in it, and the value would have been higher. 29:00: Kimberly talks about how the most incredible thing she has gotten out of this experience is confidence and that that is a step to her Future Self. 29:23: Kimberly talks about how she was confident enough to go to her director and say that she wasn't inspired to chase or push for sales and that she wants it to be organic. Therefore, she will not do what she was being taught to do and admits that owning that was new for her. 29:49: Kimberly talks about how this was a lesson in owning who she is and what she wants, that that is okay and that it is not her responsibility to make her director successful. 30:13: Cassie asks Kimberly what her director's response was. 30:20: Kimberly talks about how her director wants her to be successful no matter what she is doing and that she will support her in whatever way she needs. And how awesome it is to have someone who just wants to support her no matter what she does. 31:11: Kimberly admits that she was putting herself in the box, and her director just wanted her to succeed. 31:27: Cassie talks about how Kimberly felt that she was rebellious and how that story made it seem like she didn't fit in and it wasn't going to work. 31:43: Kimberly realizes that saying she is a rebel is a story that she has been telling most of her life and that she is learning even in this interview. 32:05: Because Kimberly had an ah-ha, Cassie asks her how realizing that she could be her and be supported will change her story moving forward. 32:32: Kimberly says she doesn't know, but she has tingles and that it is magical. 32:45: Cassie talks about how it will be different, that the shift is something she can feel, that that is how stories shift, and the tingle is Kimberly letting go of the old and stepping into the new. 33:19: Kimberly says she is still tingling and has tears in her eyes because she has wanted to belong all of her life and that now she knows she can belong and be herself. 33:55: Kimberly owns that she belongs and is 100% authentically herself and that that is something that she scripts. 34:38: Cassie asks Kimberly what advice she would give someone that is drawn to joining an MLM and want to do it LOA style. 34:57: Kimberly talks about how she tells everyone they need to join the Enchanted Circle and that they should only join an MLM if they are inspired to. 36:18: Kimberly also advises to meet the other people involved in the MLM. 36:26: Cassie discusses that you get to choose. 36:32: Kimberly agrees that you have a choice, and if you join out of inspiration, you are allowed to stop when it is no longer inspired and do something different. 36:57: Cassie asks Kimberly how people can connect with her. 37:02: Kimberly talks about how she no longer has a website and that you can find her on her FaceBook page Kimberly Hite.
19 minutes | Feb 3, 2021
Ep. #255: How Being Vulnerable Helps You Manifest
She thought vulnerability was a weakness… Then it saved her marriage. Kimberly was a strong, independent woman who had her stuff together. Vulnerability didn't seem necessary, nor did she get it. It seemed weak, and that wasn't her. The longer she was in The Enchanted Circle, the more she opened up without even really realizing it. One day this "vulnerability thing" caught her attention, so she paid attention. She took it in, and when the moment came to save her marriage, she laid everything on the counter. She was vulnerable. She told her husband how she felt and what she needed with-out filter, concern for looking weak, or what would happen next. Join your host Cassie Parks as Kimberly Hite again joins her (for her fifth interview in this 7 part series) to discuss her recent journey of discovering vulnerability, using it to save her marriage, and taking her manifesting to the next level! 00:42: Cassie asks Kimberly what is awesome. Kimberly discusses how what she is scripting is showing up in her life, how she has recently gotten a couple of texts that are right out of her script, and how it is even better than what she is scripting. 01:28: Cassie talks about recording this interview in September 2020 and how Kimberly hearing another Enchanted Circle member talk about vulnerability brought new awareness into Kimberly's life. 01:53: Cassie asks Kimberly how she would have described being vulnerable in the past. 02:00: Kimberly talks about how she used to view being vulnerable as a weakness and wasn't even open to it. She admits that she would attempt to be vulnerable, but she always felt like she is a strong independent woman who doesn't need help to get what she wants, and the thought of opening up and being vulnerable scared her. She didn't see it on her radar and had no interest in going there. Kimberly admits that it was something that she didn't even realize that she was avoiding. 03:11: Kimberly talks about Mia getting on an Enchanted Circle call and being super vulnerable. Kimberly admits that she didn't know Mia well because she was usually quiet on calls and that that call was one of the first times Kimberly had heard Mia really talk. Kimberly admits that she was shocked that Mia put it all out there and was vulnerable because Kimberly always saw her as such a strong woman. 03:41: Kimberly talks about how Mia inspired her and how everything is always in alignment. 04:02: Kimberly talks about listening to Mia's interviews where she talked about being vulnerable, how it was scary, and how she asked for help that she wasn't used to asking for. 04:50:Kimberly goes on to talk about how listening to those interviews made her realize she wasn't being vulnerable and didn't know how to be. 05:10: Kimberly talks about how hearing those interviews came at the right time and how she didn't want to be vulnerable but hearing those interviews inspired her and made her realize that being vulnerable was the next step in her journey. 06:00: Kimberly talks about how her marriage was in trouble and that she was defaulting to trying to fix it, and it wasn't working 06:20: Kimberly talks about how hearing Mia's interviews brought awareness to vulnerability and that she then got a random message about marriage and being vulnerable. She discusses how she was inspired to speak her truth, be vulnerable and honest with her husband, and own that she wanted to be with him. 07:15: Kimberly talks about how it felt to speak to her husband and how it wasn't as bad or scary as she thought it might be. 07:30: Kimberly talks about how being vulnerable with her husband opened a door that allowed her and her husband to communicate in a way they never had before, and how it allowed her husband to speak his truth and admit that he felt like she didn't need him. 07:56: Kimberly talks about how being vulnerable opened up so many new things and how it was all because she followed inspiration. 08:13: Kimberly talks about how her husband moved back home and that everything started to change and shift because she was vulnerable. 08:28: Kimberly admits that she never thought being vulnerable was the answer to saving her marriage. She thought being vulnerable was being weak. 08:45: Kimberly discusses that she has realized that she is showing up more vulnerable every day and in all areas of her life, and gives an example of being vulnerable when doing a live video. 09:12: Kimberly talks about how being vulnerable has opened up so many opportunities. 09:20: Kimberly discusses how being vulnerable is still new and how she is in shock that it is opening up so many new things. 09:27: Kimberly talks about how it is scary to be vulnerable but that it is worth it and how the Enchanted Circle was essential in supporting her while she stepped into this new space. 09:38: Cassie talks about how it may seem new for Kimberly to be vulnerable, but she has been practicing being vulnerable in the Enchanted Circle for a while. 10:02: Cassie talks about how it is scary to be vulnerable, that that is why people avoid it, and how the Enchanted Circle is a safe place to practice and start being vulnerable. 10:16: Kimberly admits that she didn't even realize that she had been practicing vulnerability, and how she has to sit with the fact that she has been practicing being vulnerable for some time. 10:41: Kimberly talks about how Cassie always catches what she doesn't see in herself. 10:55: Cassie talks about how Kimberly has been stepping into being more and more vulnerable and that everything lines up even if you don't see it. 11:14: Cassie brings up how Kimberly found out something about her husband right before an Enchanted Circle call and, at first, felt that it was inconvenient timing. Once she was on the call, she realized that it was perfect timing, and it allowed her to fully feel everything that needed to be felt to then open up the space to save her marriage. 11:49: Kimberly talks about how she is just now putting together the dots of how she has gotten where she currently is. 12:06: Kimberly talks about how before that Enchanted Circle call, she was devastated; she remembers crying and talks about feeling her feelings and being in alignment. 12:39: Cassie discusses connecting the dots, how these interviews help her clients put things together, and how it is fun to watch that process. 13:00: Cassie discusses how after that interview with Mia, she didn't know if it should be the final in a year long series or the start of the next one, and how she went back and forth on whether or not to put that interview out at that time. 13:47: Cassie talks about how she decided it needed to come out when it did and how it was perfect. 13:54: Cassie talks about the Universe always working for us once we are clear about what we want and where we are going, and how things work behind the scenes. 14:05: Kimberly talks about how thankful she is that Cassie was inspired to release that interview when she did, how it was that interview that opened up so much for her, how it pushed her in a new way, and how the timing was perfect. 14:42: Kimberly talks about being forever grateful for Cassie and how it feels good to own being vulnerable. 15:08: Kimberly discusses how being vulnerable has increased her trust level and how that is straight out of her script. 15:20: Cassie talks about how if you aren't vulnerable, you are not trusting. 15:24: Kimberly talks about how scripting what she wants is bringing what she wants into her life, how priceless it is to work with Cassie, and how being in the Enchanted Circle has changed everything. 15:58: Kimberly discusses how excited she is to see what other opportunities the Universe has in store for her. 16:07: Cassie asks what advice Kimberly would give listeners about being vulnerable. 16:17: Kimberly talks about how being vulnerable is not a weakness and how it is actually a strength. She also discusses how joining the Enchanted Circle will give you the support system you need to become more vulnerable and change your life. 16:53: Cassie asks Kimberly if there is anything else she would like to share. 17:00: Kimberly closes out the interview by discussing how thankful she is for Cassie and that the Universe brought her into her life. Be sure to join us next week for Kimberly's sixth interview in this 7 part series!!!! Kimberly Hite is a magical artist who finds happiness in creating. She joined the Enchanted Circle because she had experienced moderate success on her own, but wanted more. By sharing her experience, she intends to inspire others on their journey to the happiness everyone deserves. When she's not following inspiration to create magic in her studio, you can find her laughing with her boys, scripting her Future Life and cheer leading others to live lives they love. If you would like to connect with Kimberly, the best place to find her is her personal Facebook page, Kimberly Hite.
30 minutes | Jan 27, 2021
Ep. #254: Using the Law of Attraction to Fix Yourself for Good
How long have you been trying to fix yourself? Fixing yourself rarely works, as you might have experienced. There is something that works much better. That is stepping into your Future Self. Kimberly has learned and experienced how to "step in" rather than "fix." She came to The Enchanted Circle with a habit of trying to fix herself, which wasn't bad. She wanted what anyone reading this wants... to be better. Along the way, she started fixing things to be better. That often works in the beginning. And then there comes a point where you can't fix anything else. You have to start stepping into a new version of yourself to become the person you desire to be. Join your host Cassie Parks as Kimberly Hite again joins her, and they discuss how she stopped fixing her life, started stepping into her Future Self, and the amazing results she has had from becoming instead of fixing. 00:40: Cassie asks Kimberly what's awesome, and Kimberly talks about how her new money manifested total is $80,030.34. She has noticed that she is stepping into her Future Self and following inspired actions that her Future Self is leading her to. 01:42: Cassie asks Kimberly about the inspired actions she has had, and Kimberly discusses how she got on a launch party on Facebook, and she became a Mary Kay consultant. She also discusses how it all happened through inspired action and how amazing it has been. 02:40: Kimberly talks about how she signed up 2 weeks ago and cannot believe her results. 03:05: Kimberly talks about how it was all possible because she followed inspiration. 03:13: Cassie points out that everything has been fun and easy and that Kimberly is also making money simultaneously. 03:19: Kimberly talks about getting a $50 bonus, $206 of free product, and earrings in the mail from her director as encouragement. 03:35: Kimberly talks about how she was scripting about working with amazing and powerful women, and she is living that life by working as a Mary Kay consultant. 04:10: Cassie talks about how it is amazing that it was something that Kimberly never thought of before, but her Future Self led her there, and she said yes! 04:30: Cassie talks about how saying yes has given Kimberly the experience of making money while watching her son play football. 04:44: Kimberly talks about how she launched her Mary Kay business at her son's first varsity football game and how amazing it was to enjoy life and make money at the same time. 05:10: Kimberly talks about how she couldn't have imagined any of that happening or how it could have been any more perfect if she planned for it to be. 05:45: Cassie discusses how everything is happening because of who Kimberly is and how people limit the possibilities because of their beliefs. 06:28: Kimberly talks about how she did a video bringing all of what she is doing together because it was inspired and fun, and how she will keep doing it until it is no longer fun. 07:11: Kimberly talks about how she had put herself in a box and realized that she could work her business and be at the football game simultaneously. 07:48: Cassie talks about how easy and freeing it is to do what you want. 08:03: Cassie asks Kimberly how she thought it would be versus how it's been, and about getting away from fixing and stepping into her Future Self. 08:50: Kimberly talks about how her old story is that she would analyze things, and that is how she would try to fix them. She talks about how she had to make a shift, do her assignments, not worry if they were perfect, and realized forcing doesn't work. 09:10: Kimberly talks about how she connected that when she analyzes, she is doing so to try and fix something. 09:20: Kimberly talks about how stepping into her Future Self started by doing the assignments and not analyzing them. 09:35: Kimberly talks about how scripting helped her see when she was trying to force things and how she has used Cassie's help to step further into her Future Self. 10:37: Cassie talks about how Kimberly used fixing and analyzing to get her to the point she is now, that there are phases to growth, that you have to let go of processes that no longer serve you, and how people get in their head as they start to do Future Self work. 12:03: Kimberly talks about how she would analyze to get where she was going faster. 12:12: Cassie talks about how Kimberly has learned to turn off the analyzing and step into her Future Self. 12:30: Kimberly talks about how she never thought she would be selling Mary Kay, but she knows she was led there by her Future Self. 12:50: Kimberly talks about how she kept asking the same questions about inspiration, how it clicked one day, and how now she sees what is unfolding because she is following inspired action. 13:30: Kimberly talks about how she is now trusting her Future Self to guide her to the life she wants. 13:50: Cassie asks Kimberly how the process has been different than she thought it would be because she had followed Cassie for a long time before starting to work with her. 14:14: Kimberly admits that she thought scripting was forcing what she wanted on the Universe in writing and how she now knows that is not what scripting is. 14:30: Kimberly talks about how she was limiting herself by scripting the wrong way, how learning to script has changed everything, and how she now knows that it is about allowing and not forcing. 15:42: Cassie talks about how she knows that Kimberly thought to be successful she would have to do many things she didn't want to do, and how it is really about doing what she wants and allowing things to unfold. 16:12: Kimberly talks about how much better it is to do it Cassie's way and to get what she wants than to try and force something that wasn't working. 16:34: Cassie asks Kimberly how it feels to get what she wants all of the time. 16:41: Kimberly talks about how she has to pinch herself because she is getting exactly what she wants in ways she never saw possible. 17:09: Kimberly talks about how what she really wants is not the things, but to feel deeply happy. And how magical it is to manifest all of the amazing things along the way while feeling deeply happy. 17:39: Cassie asks Kimberly if she feels like she has grown and become a better mom since joining the Enchanted Circle. 17:55: Kimberly talks about how her 3 boys are her world and how she wants to lead by example. One game-changer for Kimberly since joining the Enchanted Circle is the importance of feeling your feelings and how to give space to others and allow them to feel their feelings. 19:10: Kimberly tells a story about one of her sons being angry and getting on a call to ask Cassie what to do because she wanted to make him feel better and fix it. Cassie taught her that she needed to tell him to feel his feelings. Kimberly talks about how that shifted her relationship with her son and how she interacts with all of her kids. 20:20: Cassie talks about how Kimberly was doing what most moms do by trying to lessen what her kids were feeling and trying to explain behaviors. Cassie taught Kimberly that it is more powerful to teach them to feel, however they feel. 20:40: Kimberly knows she is a better mom now because she feels her feelings, she can allow her family to feel their feelings, and she can be supportive and not try to fix anything. 21:20: Kimberly talks about how amazing it is that her growth allowed her to help her family in such a profound way. 21:40: Cassie wants to share one more story about one of Kimberly's sons. Kimberly came to a call and said that her son was upset because he could not spend time with someone, and Kimberly worked with Cassie to switch her from feeling crushed to feeling proud. 22:14: Kimberly talks about how her and her husband had been separated, and he had moved out. One of their sons was having anger issues, and Kimberly was trying to help and fix it. Their son felt bad because his dad would spend time with others but not him. 22:55: Kimberly realized that she wasn't going to chase people to be in her life, and that day Kimberly's son told her that he wasn't going to force his dad to spend time with him. 23:28: Kimberly talks about how Cassie helped her realize that her son is super smart for setting boundaries at 17, and realized that she is so proud of her son for not chasing people. 24:10: Kimberly talks about the effort she has put into herself and loves being an example for her kids. 24:40: Cassie asks Kimberly if there is anything else she wants to share. 24:47: Kimberly talks about how she finds pennies everywhere and tells a story about how a pebble got stuck in her shoe, and she found a quarter when she stopped to get it out. 25:33: Cassie talks about how the universe is always trying to get our attention to show us the path to what we want. 26:33: Kimberly talks about how she always asks, "What is the universe is bringing me today?" when she gets stuck behind a tractor. And how whenever there is an inconvenience, she wonders where it will lead. 27:30: Kimberly talks about where you can connect with her and closes by talking about how grateful she is for the Enchanted Circle and why you should join if you are interested. Kimberly Hite is a magical artist who finds happiness in creating. She joined the Enchanted Circle because she had experienced moderate success on her own, but wanted more. By sharing her experience, she intends to inspire others on their journey to the happiness everyone deserves. When she's not following inspiration to create magic in her studio, you can find her laughing with her boys, scripting her Future Life and cheer leading others to live lives they love. If you would like to connect with Kimberly, the best place to find her is her personal Facebook page, Kimberly Hite.
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