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We're back! And since we have received so many great questions from our listeners, we decided to do a whole episode devoted to them. Keep on sending in your male-bag questions to questions@getgaymepodcast.com. You can ask about something we've talked about that you'd like clarification on, or write in with a problem you're going through with a guy, friends, or whatever. If it's on-topic, we'll do our best to answer it live on a future episode. Show Links:gaytherapyla.comfacebook.com/getgayme twitter: @getgaymepodcast instagram: @wesmcdowell

Now that you have his number, texting is a great way to keep things interesting until you can actually meet up in person. In this episode, Wes & Ken dive into the dos and don'ts of texting game, including the two major objectives for flirting via text.  When should you send the first text? How do you keep things flirtatious so he stays interested? And what should you never do via text? Most gay guys make all kinds of cringe-worthy mistakes in this stage, so listen close so you're not one of them. Gay Texting Tips [Tweet "There are two major objectives when text flirting with a gay guy. Do you know them? #gaylove"] We also answer a listener question about what to do when you're not comfortable going up and talking to guys. Show Links:gaytherapyla.comfacebook.com/getgayme twitter: @getgaymepodcast instagram: @wesmcdowell

You finally approached the guy of your dreams. You're chatting it up, drinking and flirting all over the place. But does he like YOU? It's the million dollar question that nobody ever seems to know the answer to. But we're here to tell you the signs are everywhere. Luckily guys aren't nearly as hard to read as women, so listen to this episode and the next time you're in this situation you'll know everything you need to know without being a mind reader. We also answer a new listener question about how to meet guys in a very rural area. Show Links: gaytherapyla.comfacebook.com/getgayme twitter: @getgaymepodcast instagram: @wesmcdowell

What is it about Halloween that we gays love so much? Is it the endless parties, the half-naked men, or the chance to cuddle up watching a scary movie? Needless to say, there are countless reasons why Halloween is known as "Gay Christmas." In this episode, Wes and Ken go over some priceless tips to make the most out of the Halloween experience, and how to rock your costume this year. Sexy or topical, funny, or scary, there's so much to consider! After that, we answer a new listener question about what to do if your boyfriend identifies as bi. Show Links: gaytherapyla.comfacebook.com/getgayme twitter: @getgaymepodcast instagram: @wesmcdowell

Talking to a guy is one thing, but at a certain point you have to escalate the conversation to a sexual level or risk the dreaded "friend zone." One of the most effective ways is through touch. There are several types of touch that we will go over in this episode, and we'll walk you through exactly when and how to use them so he'll get the message. Show Links:gaytherapyla.comfacebook.com/getgayme twitter: @getgaymepodcast instagram: @wesmcdowell

So you finally went up to the guy you've been eyeing... now what? If you don't have a plan, you might be headed into the world's shortest conversation. But in this episode, Wes & Ken show you how to keep the conversation going, and how to have fun and make a positive impression while doing it. Flirting, (or bantering) is the art of easing the tension and showcasing your fun side, allowing both of you to relax and enjoy the moment, eventually raising the stakes into the sexual realm. Listen up for actual methods you can use out of the box tonight! We also answer our very first listener question about how to figure out if the guy who's chatting you up is interested in just being friends, or more. Show Links:gaytherapyla.comfacebook.com/getgayme twitter: @getgaymepodcast instagram: @wesmcdowell

Are you mystified by how to approach the guy you so desperately want to talk to? Most gay guys are, in fact, its one of the most common questions we get. In this episode, Wes & Ken break down what makes a strong approach, and why what you say doesn't matter nearly as much as you think it does. We explore the two different types of approaches, and why one is much more preferable to the other. We also go over a few different conversation starters you can use if you're really stuck for words. Stay tuned for our upcoming episodes which build upon this one, walking you through the different phases of a successful "pickup." Show Links:gaytherapyla.comfacebook.com/getgayme twitter: @getgaymepodcast instagram: @wesmcdowell

Long before you say anything, your body language, smile and eyes will make your first impression for you. Like it or not, you are being judged on all of these things, so if you can master the art of nonverbal game, half your job will be done before you ever open your mouth. In this episode, Wes and Ken go over the dos and don'ts of good body language, facial expression, tonality, and other aspects of nonverbal game that will be sure to get you noticed in all the right ways. Show Links:gaytherapyla.comfacebook.com/getgayme twitter: @getgaymepodcast instagram: @wesmcdowell  

There are many factors that will get you noticed, and your looks will only get you so far. Which is great news if you don't happen to be a Cali 10. In this episode, Wes & Ken go over the 4 major keys of attraction, and what you can do to maximize each of them. Attraction goes for sexual/romantic interests as well as a more general sense of commanding intrigue in any aspect of life. Once you master the keys in this episode, you will own whatever room you happen to be in. Show Links: gaytherapyla.comfacebook.com/getgayme twitter: @getgaymepodcast instagram: @wesmcdowell

You see a hot guy you really want to talk to. But you don't. WHY?! The biggest hurdle we all face when trying to meet someone new is the sometimes overpowering fear of rejection. And it can be infinitely worse for gay guys. In this episode, Wes & Ken break down what the root causes are, and what you can do to put the fear aside. While it may not always be easy at first, the more you practice the advice in this episode, the easier it will become, and soon enough, the fear will shrink down to no more than a passing thought. Show Links: gaytherapyla.comfacebook.com/getgayme twitter: @getgaymepodcast instagram: @wesmcdowell

In this, our first episode, Wes and Ken introduce themselves, as well as what you as a listener can expect to get out of the show in future episodes. We also discuss the overall concept of "game." Also known as swagger, charm, charisma, or just an overall "it" factor, game is what you need to succeed with guys, and with life in general. Don't get it yet? Don't worry, stick with us and you will soon enough! Show Links:gaytherapyla.comfacebook.com/getgayme twitter: @getgaymepodcast instagram: @wesmcdowell