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It's happened to all of us and it's going to happen countless times again. I'm referring to rejection. It disables us and prevents us from finding the truth. With a different mindset we could turn it around and make rejection work for us. 

Have you ever been caught up chasing and obsessing over that one seemingly perfect girl. You can't get her out of your mind and she consumes all your focus and energy. Other parts of your life suffer and you lose respect for yourself but it seems worth it just to be in her presence. If you can relate, you have or had a oneitis. I talk about why you found yourself here and how you can salvage something from it.

Dating is a trying process. A process that will eventually lead you to the person you'll spend the rest of your life with. Isn't that motivation enough? What is exactly your motivation to subject yourself to the gauntlet of emotions that the ups and downs of dating presents?

Learn how to find your dating audience and how to metagame your way into a quick rapport. Come across as their equal and their peer by being educated about the type of person your date is.

I explore the anatomy of a break up, our typically response to one, our responsibility in it, how No Contact can help and how the Rule of 7 is important to recovery and getting your ex back. 

If you're needing help improving your ability to converse with women or needing some ideas of what to actually talk about listen to this episode. I speak to embracing our nerdy past and give you examples of how to honestly share your history in a compelling way.

I share with you my nerdy past and the catalyst that started me on the path from my nerdy self to the compulsive dater I am now. I preview my Rule of 7 and describe how it changed my dating life and how it can help yours. Also, I go over dating and relationship questions I've come across on Reddit.