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Mike and Kirk interview Pastor Kelby McCottry who experienced his first Free Indeed weekend intensive for his church. Find out why this intensive is for your church to fight back again pornography! 

Mike and Kirk discuss the qualities of a church and especially the men who should consider being bravehearts within their community to help other men. Hint: It won't be easy.

What about those guys who've been going for a while? What's important for them to remember and keep in mind? Mike and Kirk explore why not just "freedom" is important. And, introducing the new tool for churches! Getting your men free from pornography and moving yourch forward. 

In this mini episode, Mike and Kirk talk what's next with the podcast. Beyond just helping one man at a time, we want to help churches and church leaders meet the challenge of having a strategic plan to get pornography out of their congregations. One church leader recently said, "This one issue prevents more men (and some women) from serving in leadership roles than any other sin." See 9marks.org - Deepak Reju, "How to Church Members Fight Porn Addiction Together?"

WARNING: TRIGGERS! In this special edition of the podcast Mike and Kirk interview...pornography. The IP Mistress herself. Listen in on how she thinks and get a glimpse into some of her motives. And, find out why men can't "just quit." You may be surprised. 

In this episode, Mike and Kirk share a quick summary of the Six Vs: Visualization, Variety, Vitality, Victory, Vacation and Validation. Please listen to all them again if they have hit home or have deeper meaning for you. 

In this continuation of our discussion on Validation, Mike and Kirk talk about safety and intimacy and the idea of the power of getting to a place of finding the right validation within the safe confines of good relationships. 

The man's need for validation, so fundamental to his identity should come from a place of masculinity. Sadly, too many men (and boys) seek it in all the wrong places. In this first of a two part finale to the Six Vs, Kirk and Mike discuss why pornography will only leave him wanting more and more yet get it. 

Who needs a vacation? You do! Or so many of us men say to ourselves when we tap or click on that site. To get away, even if for a few minutes to escape the hurt, pain, irritation, or whatever we feel we need to get away from. The IP Mistress awaits. But there is a price. There always is.

It's the moment we hope never happens. It's the moment when she has said enough is enough and now that habit or addiction has caught up with him. She has said she wants a divorce. What happens next? 

Every man has a little boy inside him. Many guys still let him run life and when it comes to  having a wife and family, giving him too much of that control. Looking back at the boyhood, both need to meet and talk - man today and boy of yesterday. 

In this very special episode (the first minute reveals why), we continue the important series on the Six Vs. This discussion, on victory, is important because of what the IP Mistress offers that no women can: uncondtional victory. Men seek it. We've killed for it, and it has cost us everything. 

We continue our series on the six Vs in Kirk's book, For Your Eyes Only. This one, on vitality is a great discussion on the power given by broadband internet pornography. Yes, power. Small engine, but much power. Yet another reason why it's hard for men to "just stop."

One unnatural thing pornography does is offer variety. Why is it unnatural? Because God never intended there be so much variety in our sexuality. The ideal - one marriage partner - goes against the seemingly infinite variety offered by broadband internet pornography. 

The foundation to all things Free Indeed the live class held every spring and fall is where you find out in detail how to gain and keep your freedom from broadband internet pornography. We talk about the need to keep it live, not online and the benefits to being the class.

After a quick continuation from the last episode, Mike and Kirk talk about the myths and misconceptions of finding and being in freedom from broadband internet pornography. 

In this episode, Mike and Kirk share some of what it feels like to be, well, kicked in the nuts. In a figurative sense of course. Life happens. And bad things happen because no one in this life promises a good life without problems, not even God. But ther

Galatians in the New Testament is a letter written to people who wanted to a return life of slavery, but whom the apostle Paul tried to hold freedom out as the best option to counteract this human tendency of trying too hard to work our way into the gospel. 

With this episode, Mike spends time in Psalm 119. This is one of the most beautiful places in all of scripture on the benefits of being a law-abiding citizen of heaven. Freedom comes from obedience. 

In this first of Mike's solo episodes of the podcast, we will hear about a beautiful and heartfelt verse from the very mouth of God to his people Israel just after they left Egypt as slaves.