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Lori’s dating past for years now, especially after the situation with Diddy, it seems that ethanol was poured on the gates of hell when Michael B Jordan decided to make them social media official. A lot of you lost your minds and had so much to say, and yet the glass house you live in, windows are dirty, and your floor is nasty – and some of you even have roaches. Like lots of roaches, with different last names. Sometimes roaches you don’t take care of but keep breeding more. Therefore yes, with today’s segment, toes will be stepped upon, the ego will be shattered, and high horses will be unsaddled. Ladies, I’m warning you now, that you might want to ditch the wine today and instead grab some of the hard stuff right along with the men because you are who I am coming for first. --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/flawedasphuck/message Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/flawedasphuck/support

I will not mention any names, but the two words High Value, have been tossed around a lot lately. But, as we all know, everyone’s classification will never be the same. Some are deeply rooted in appearances and material. What determines as being valuable for each individual is quite subjective though honestly, many seem to believe their opinions, which we are all entitled to, are golden. That being said, I’ve come up with 5 traits, I consider necessary, for a man to qualify as being High Value.  They are his being consistent, considerate, a good communicator, showing sincere confidence and yes, I am saying it, he has his own. Of course, there are so many other traits that can be named, but for this episode, we will begin with these five. Make sure to subscribe and share, and if you have anything you'd like to discuss, leave a message or send me a message on IG @iamchloebarksdale.  Make sure to let me know your thoughts.  --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/flawedasphuck/message Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/flawedasphuck/support

Dating in 2020 turned into the Twilight Zone, thanks to that hefer we call Rona. If you were having trouble finding a mate before, once COVID19, hit the scene, you might as well forget about it. Many of us turned to online dating, and it’s been a very interesting ride! In this episode I give the top five reasons why I swiped left on your dating profile.   --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/flawedasphuck/message Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/flawedasphuck/support

Cancel Culture is a "thing" often associated with a company, brand or even a celebrity. Usually something is found out or someone says something and suddenly like a raging wild fire, word spreads that it or them, needs to be......"cancelled"! Whatever it is needs to not be purchased because of the company is thought of a trash, or the well known person has said, done or supported something that causes them to be ousted from the "cool kids". But one thing we don't seem to think about when it comes to being cancelled, is - Friendships and Relationships. Especially now with social media, there tends to be a labyrinth of entanglements, if you will, that once a relationship or friendship goes left - lines are drawn in the sand, and all too often, friends are stuck in the middle.  Then it comes down to, who gets who the same as who gets what, in a divorce.  And if you are still cool with them both, it turns into who gets invited to what? Who attends what for fear of one running into the other? Or, the biggest one - who can no longer come sit with us - the cool kids. And then sometimes, friends don't have a choice in the matter because unbeknownst to them, one makes the decision for themselves, to CANCEL you without your even knowing it, or their reason why. --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/flawedasphuck/message Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/flawedasphuck/support

Social Media has been set fire after so-called relationship guru, Kevin Samuels dragged a 35-year-old single mother for filth. A great many agreed with his no holds barred delivery, however, if you ask Chloe Barksdale, it wasn't coming from a good place, but just a means of tearing her down. All too often, we women look to men for the golden answer on what we need to do to get a man. If you ask ten different men, chances are you will get as many answers. Then what do you do? You find yourself confused and you know why? Because no one's life is one size, one answer, one situation fits all. You are unique and so is every single man that you encounter. Ladies, the most real answer to your questions, starts from within.  --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/flawedasphuck/message Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/flawedasphuck/support

Nowadays, it's quite easy to separate sex from intimacy. For many, sex is simply a recreational activity used to exert energy. It gives off a quick high that is good for the few moments it takes place, but as soon as it is over, the memory of it does not linger on.  However, true intimacy is a constantly changing fluid emotion that brings about anticipation in such a euphoric mass of energy, that you can feel the person's presence before, during, and after - often times before you even physically lay eyes on them or touch. It leaves you with a yearning for more - well let me say that it leaves me with a longing for more, long after we have parted ways.  You can have sex with anyone but true intimacy is felt only when the mental and spirituals align. And this - this is my Random Thoughts of a Tainted Scorpion Mind - because it takes more than sex for you to TRULY get IN2ME(You)See!  Don't forget to subscribe to my podcast at Anchor.fm/chloebarksdale #podcaster #blackpodcaster #anchorfm #blackpodcast #intimacy #relationships #dating #love #blacklove #blackpodcast #makinglove #lovemaking #sex --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/flawedasphuck/message Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/flawedasphuck/support