The Day that Changed Everything
I think we can all agree that our nation has gone through a huge, seismic shift these last few years of the Trump presidency. Here, I discuss just what the 2016 presidential election meant for me as a first-generation American. We’ll discuss just why it’s so important to show up as your full self everywhere you go, and why not doing so damages our national fabric and future generations. I hope you love it!XO,Anna
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Show NotesI don’t know if white America fully understands that this last presidential election was a punch in the gut to those of us with the foreign-sounding names, with slight accents, or those of us that pray to someone other than Jesus. It rocked me to my core, and I am honestly still processing how this made me question my identity even more than I already did. (2:43)What I want my fellow white Americans, both Republican, and Democrat, to understand is this election transcended politics on a visceral level for me and so many people I know. Frankly, it knocked me on my ass and made me wonder why I was even here in America. If they hate me enough to vote for this man, then I even belong here? Was my family wrong for even coming here? 5:03I think that day will mark America forever, just like we use B.C.E and C.E to mark time, I feel like America’s history from now on will just be B.T. (before Trump) and A.T (after Trump). I think a lot of us first-generation folks, especially those of us who aren’t white-passing, now will need to fight harder to uphold the ideals of our nation and remind everybody (ourselves most of all) that we DO belong. 5:56America has given us and our families so much, and we’re repaying that favor just with our presence. It’s a blessing for both sides of this story. 6:55I want you to show up in your life, in your workplace, at school, in your ambitions as unapologetically as you always have or maybe even more. I want you to stand in who you are, lets the rest of us see you and remember how incredible and diverse our nation is. 7:45What does it cost you to play small? Ask yourself that question. What does it cost others when you don’t show up as the fully expressed version of yourself? 8:35As a mother, I think it costs my children when they don’t see me show up as me. Not some watered-down version of me that somebody else thinks is acceptable. 9:27I think it costs the country as a whole and it costs the next generation because they’re watching us shirk our foreignness or our hair or our complexion. And it costs us time worrying about how we’re perceived by those people who look different than us. It doesn’t matter that you look different than them. That’s the beauty, the absolute beauty of America and the American experiment. 9:50LinksErika Cramer, The Queen of Confidence