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Cris is dealing with losing things but also gaining a "new" wardrobe while Kenj is dealing with the seriousness of the disparities amongst black women in maternal health. But on a lighter note, listen to our personal heaux tales as we reflect on Jazmine Sullivan's album that was so eloquently put together. Shout out to her, it was much needed for the culture!Black business highlight:@Rhythmandheat@vegastarelites

Listen to Cris and Kenj talk about what's going on with their lives from unexpected death to unexpected illness. Reflecting on that, we also speak about how our past can  affect our present behaviors, good and bad...in that the reflection Cris remembers a time when we was church heavy and we enjoyed a laugh about it. You may or may not get it, it aint for everybody, respectfully!Black business highlight:@by_lakeisha@thebbetter_co

Listen, this episode almost didn't make it, so for that reason, we feel like it was destiny for it to get published! Hear us talk all about fate, destiny, and manifestation and what these concepts mean to us and how they work for our lives. And its a new year, so new us! But not really...we still on the bullshit that yall love to hear! Black business shout out for this week:@_monetcreations @callanscollections

This week Cris and Kenj talk about sex baby...well kinda. Listen in as your favorite homegirls catch up and have some unapologetic sex talk about compromises, exploration, and the missing conversations amongst the masses. Shout out to this week's unapologetically great black businesses/brand, @_yogawithjazz and @herlifesparkles.

This week Kenj updates yall on her pregnancy woes and the lack of grace she has for herself, while Cris fills yall in on her Covid mini-cation she took. Listen to hear what we think about love, or the lack there of between black men and women. We talk about the core of the problem and possible solutions but to be honest, we just figuring it out like everybody else. But come on, did it really take for Meg to get shot?!

Cris and Kenj are back from a self proclaimed sabbatical and ushering in Season II.  Prepare to laugh as you  tune in for some much needed catching up between the duo as they discuss their summer time parlay,  full circle friendships, and reveal some fun surprises.

Cris and Kenj catch up on their lives this week while dealing with all of what's going on with the world outside. This week we discuss forgiveness, what that looks like for us, and how we handle it, or don't. We agree that certain things are just not forgiven despite what our Christian world has taught us. Also tune in to find out why Kenj just cannot bring herself to go back to Starbucks. 

Due to the recent tragic current events, this episode Cris and Kenj speak on the climate of our nation. We discuss what changes we feel like need to happen, and what we plan on doing to promote change. Shout out to everyone and everything black!

So apparently social distancing is over because Kenj has lowkey been in these streets, and unfortunately partially by choice. Cris still been doing the right thing and just hitting up the grocery stores. Listen this week as we discuss the difficult dynamics of Issa and Molly’s relationship from the show Insecure...because yea, we all caught up, so we hope yall are too!  

Soo not alot has been going on with us due to everybody being at home during this time but at least for Kenj, her daughter finally seems to be getting her life together. Cris reflects this week about her not so great Mother's day experience and feelings that stemmed from it. Tune in for a dose of our transparent girl talk convos. We just figuring it out along the way.....

Audiobooks and internet concerts got Cris and Kenj aligning they chakras and uplifting each other all while realizing life inside aint too bad. With gardens growing and social lives blooming, listen as they catch up on Mother's Day, white tv shows, and a few things in between.

Listen in as Cris and Kenj catch up on quarantine life for the week. Surprisingly both are embracing the shelter in place orders and in a lot of ways being put on! Along with staying home for Covid, both Cris and Kenj have been recently affected by some chronic illnesses. This week we'll discuss the impact it's had on each of our lives. 

We back!! Listen in this week as we catch ya'll up on our quarantine lives, which has been filled with new undesired work lives and changes in our kids school life. In this episode, our our opinion on the education system, or lack there of is discussed. And for a plot twist, apparently Kenj is the one had somebody else fu*ked up!

Thank yall for listening through our technical difficulties as yall catch up on Cris juggling the stress between the Coronavirus news and her nail design and Kenj's daughter experiencing her first "all my life I had to fight" moment. Listen this week as we discuss the crazy things we do or have done for relationships/love after reflections from the movie "The Photograph". 

Cris been mom'n and working and Kenj finally made it to an award ceremony for her kid. Hear us chat about things from "the virus" to keeping spice within relationships. Things get personal with us as we speak on a few bedroom experiences that might make you laugh or question us, but either way, it's unapologetic!

While Kenj spent time watching the fight, Cris has been busy in fights with the typical toddler meltdowns she's dealing with. Listen this week as we spend some time catching up on what we've been watching. As we close out black history month, we acknowledge black people who refuse to apologize for their greatness while still calling out who had us fu*ked up. 

Cris and Kenj have a black moment with the recognition of gingerale being in its own category of drink. Tune in to hear us talk about marriage from Greece to ghetto. Who's actually ever ready? What role does society play? Also, this episode marks our first listener engagement when emails go flying and a teacher literally take things into her own hands. 

Kenj is feeling better this week and Cris and her son been kicking it! Hear how Kenj talks about the shittiest moment in her life and how Cris seems to think its hilarious. Tune in also to hear us speak on our thoughts about our men and women protecting each other in black culture. As always, shout out to black people refusing to apologize for their greatness. 

This week Kenj is currently getting over the Google diagnosed coronavirus, and Cris went to her mom as woman. Listen in as Cris and Kenj give a few song references WITH vocals while talking all about love, how we learn to love, and how we wanna love. 

In another instance of untold stories, Cris and Kenj talk first times. From twin beds to changing sheets, listen in to hear the juicy deets. Do numbers matter? Is virginity as sacred as your parents had you thinking? Tune in to hear more of our thoughts and experiences on the subject.