EVP-029: Escape from the Planet Pornography (with Kevin Bergen)
What if I told you that there were a growing problem in the world that could, and may have already infiltrated your own life? And what if I told you this problem had been around forever, but that it had become much MUCH worse over the past 20 years or so? What if this threat were like cancer, but MUCH more aggressive, and that it didn't ONLY attack biologically. What if it also attacked psychologically, emotionally and even socially? Would such a threat concern you? Well, that threat actually exists! Obviously I'm talking about the destructive and GROWING threat of pornography. It's a subject that often makes people uncomfortable, so no one wants to talk about it - which only adds to it's insidiousness - but it NEEDS to be discussed.
There was a time (not even that long ago) when accessing pornography actually took some effort. But today, it's not only incredibly accessible through the internet, but it's actually becoming popularized and aggressively distributed to infiltrate every corner of our lives! As a society, we've effectively become a frog who's slowly being boiled to death by deceptively subtle porn-infused music, movies, video games, books, magazines, advertisements, social media and even TOYS! We're being ever-increasingly desensitized by it. We're being poisoned by degrees!
Pornography is the cancer of love. It really does kill love. I'm not even going to pretend it's okay, or natural, or whatever else people say about it to justify their indulgence. Pornography is wrong and it's problematic far beyond just morality.
In this episode of Escape Velocity, I interview marriage and family therapist Kevin Bergen, author of The Bergen Protocol and Director of the Center for Counseling Recovery and Growth in Torrance California, about the attributes, misconceptions and dangers of pornography. In this interview, we discuss how pornography can re-wire the brain to facilitate addictive patterns of behavior and cause all kinds of problems for families, couples and individuals. We also discuss what to do about it. Planet Pornography is a mega-planet with a HUGE gravitational pull. It CAN be escaped, but it often takes the combined effort of a willing and courageous "astronaut" a well-constructed "Rocket," and a skillful and loving "Houston" all working together to make it happen.
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Kevin Bergen, MA, MFT, Therapist, Blogger, Podcaster, Author, Photographer, Entrepreneur