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A lot of listeners have sent me messages asking if I'd ever do any reading during the show, but I've been a bit on the fence about it, because I'm not sure if you'd all like it, and personally, I think I sound shit. I decided to give it a go, because... Well, why not?I'll be reading an excerpt from 'Sarah's Dirty Secret' by Charity Parkerson.

I address underage people, their being involved in or desire to be involved in BDSM relationships, and my absolute disdain for it because they are far too young for BDSM relationships. Got a question or want to leave feedback about this episode? Call 312-373-0069‬ and leave a message.Pick up my book, Welcome to the Darkside: A BDSM Primer on Amazon: amzn.to/2RI1kcP

I talk about E.L. James’ erotica trilogy Fifty Shades of Grey, because love it or hate it, the books and films exist, and there isn’t a whole lot that can be done about it. But the problem isn’t that Fifty Shades is unrealistic, the problem is that people think this is how BDSM actually works – which is a particularly dangerous thing. I also answer a listener’s question about transitioning from submissive to slave. Got a question or want to leave feedback about this episode? Call 312-373-0069‬ and leave a message.Pick up my book, Welcome to the Darkside: A BDSM Primer on Amazon: amzn.to/2RI1kcP

I talk about differences between a person being dominant versus one being domineering, as the two seem to be notoriously conflated, and I’ve decided that I should shed some light on the matter. Got a question or want to leave feedback about this episode? Call 312-373-0069‬ and leave a message.Pick up my book, Welcome to the Darkside: A BDSM Primer on Amazon: amzn.to/2RI1kcP

I answer a message I received from a listener. And because there seems to be a LOT of words going on in this message, I’m going to individually address the two that stand out the most – being a switch, and being an alpha submissive. Got a question or want to leave feedback about this episode? Call 312-373-0069‬ and leave a message.Pick up my book, Welcome to the Darkside: A BDSM Primer on Amazon: amzn.to/2RI1kcP

Believe it or not, not everyone is capable of being a submissive. I talk about whether or not being a submissive is right for you, because it's possible that you're not really cut out for it. Got a question or want to leave feedback about this episode? Call 312-373-0069‬ and leave a message.Pick up my book, Welcome to the Darkside: A BDSM Primer on Amazon: amzn.to/2RI1kcP

Have you ever wondered how you can bring up your interest in BDSM to your partner in a way that won’t upset them? I'm going to give a few suggestions that might help you out, and will hopefully allow you to both move forward together. Got a question or want to leave feedback about this episode? Call 312-373-0069‬ and leave a message.Pick up my book, Welcome to the Darkside: A BDSM Primer on Amazon: amzn.to/2RI1kcP

If you've ever wondered if testing a submissive is a common thing for Dominants to do, the answer is both yes and no. Got a question or want to leave feedback about this episode? Call 312-373-0069‬ and leave a message.Pick up my book, Welcome to the Darkside: A BDSM Primer on Amazon: amzn.to/2RI1kcP

After a bit of admittedly professional procrastination, I decided to try my hand at podcasting. So for everyone that have been asking me to do a podcast, here you go.