How to Teach Kids Kindness
Above most qualities in life, I want my children to be kind. I want to raise thoughtful, good, gracious, productive, kind individuals. From those qualities, I believe happiness and joy will come to my children. Success, too.
We live in a fast paced world. Children, for the most part, have (and get) what they need (and want) immediately. There is no delayed gratification. I am guilty. I want to give my children everything. I truly do, but not at the expense of being unaware of the way the rest of the world lives and the right way to treat people.
I trust that they feel gratitude, even though at 3 and 5 they may not be able to express this gratitude naturally (or maybe they do but we adults need to pay closer attention?), for what we have as a family. I hope they want to be kind because, well, that is the right thing to do.
How do we teach kindness to children? Is it possible to teach kindness? I don’t know the answer to that question. I do know that children pay close attention to what we adults say and how we adults act. I also know that helping a child develop empathy towards others is an important part of being a caretaker. Social and emotional intelligence come more easily to some than to others but regardless these intelligences are just as important to nurture (maybe even more so) than fine motor, language, and math skills.
“Educating the mind without educating the heart is no education at all.” ~ Aristotle
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