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New Facebook groups named "Are We Dating the Same Guy?" have begun to appear in most cities around the country. There are groups "Are We Dating the Same Girl?" but they have very few members and not very good. The Are We Dating the Same Guy group in Denver has over 40,000 members! This episode we talk about these groups and questions on their accuracy, moral issues like is it fair to guys, or is it useful for women. 

This episode I talk to someone that was married for 29 years and now at 50 yrs old is out in the dating world. When you’ve been married for 29 years and then start dating it can be confusing, interesting, and funny. You really need to be true to yourself and what you want and don’t want. This guest encountered transgender, old high school boyfriends wanting threesomes and lots of other things along the way. But good news you can find a relationship you’re happy about. Let’s start the episode and remember go out there, have some fun, try not to hurt anyone and try and fall in love.

Dating and relationships can be frustratinga and confusing, that's why I started this podcast. So we often look for resources. Things like books, or podcasts…and sometimes coaches. Someone that can offer an objective viewpoint and guidance on what to do. Anything from healing from your past relationships and dating experiences to help with online profiles and wardrobe. This episode I have Cassie Callister (see links below). From life experiences and from ongoing training in life coaching she helps people help themselves. So let’s get on with the episode and find out what Cassie thinks about dating and what she’s learned. Go out there have some fun try not to hurt anyone and try and fall in love. Cassie Callister Linktree Cassie on Instragram  

Continuing the story of Camille who falls in love with the man of her dreams, when she decides to try dating 10 yrs after the tragic death of her husband. She finally tries dating and meets a great guy and they start a beautiful relationship. Then one day she gets a text from her new boyfriend's phone telling her that it's actuallly his ongoing girlfriend texting to let Camille know they're still together and then threatens Camille if she doesn't stop seeing him and send Camille nude pics of herself...hear the interesting details as the new boyfriend tries to explain what's happening. 

In a previous episode we heard "Camille's" story of her new love and how it all went bad. She started getting texts from HIS phone sent by his ex/current-girlfriend. The texts included threats from the woman and nude photos of this "ex" girlfriend. Listen to this and one other follow up episode to find out what happens when he tries to explain and she confronts him and when Camille starts talking to this ex...

We talk to the gorgeous Emily Victoria about her OnlyFans account. Find out how it impacts her relationships, what men ask her to do, what her mom thinks about it, all that and more. You can find/see Emily on Instagram at @emilyvictoriaofficial or see/subscribe to her OnlyFans at Emily's OnlyFans  Facebook at Emily Victoria Facebook

A guest tells a story of misunderstanding in her interactions with someone she was interested in dating. She thought the guy was interested in dating her although it was never explicitly stated. Maybe he was but they never talked about it specifically. See what you think. 

In the ongoing them of Chairlift Confessions and anonymous guest tells her story of falling in love with someone that seemed like the perfect match for a widow that had held off on a relationship for years. When she finally decides to go for it she gets more than she planned including nude photos but not from her new man...from his "ex" girlfriend sent from his phone!!

Discussion with author Marlisse Testa about her book "Stow Your Luggage When Dating". Figuring out how to find a great relationship whether you're re-entering the dating world after a breakup or divorce or just trying to get better at finding a great match. Marlisse has a lot of ideas and tools to make your dating better and practical advice for online dating. Including how to make sure you've gotten over your past traumas and heartbreaks. 

In the continuing series of stories of love that you want to tell but maybe don't want people to know what you did... you confess your stories to us. Like you're riding a chairlift with us and we listen, and add some funny commentary. In this story "Jason" (names changed) falls for someone while travelling but she lives 1300 miles away. No problem, there's air planes. But then there are problems that really blow up on a romantic adventure to London. It's a good story and we can all learn something. Or at least commiserate with Jason. 

Love priestess Dina Joy Rifkin joins us to talk about ways to improve your dating. Immediately click with someone and fall for them right away?.. that could be a red flag! Keep having the same bad experiences with your dates? Find ways to search better, have better success with online dating and hear the hell yes signs and run away signs of online profiles and first dates and a lot more. Find Dina's books and dating support at Love and Qi 

You've been dating for awhile or maybe not that long but you're just over it, tired of it, burned out. It's frustrating, heartbreaking, and not fun anymore. You're not alone...studies show that most people are "burned out" from dating, dating apps, and trying to find relationships. Jeff and Mindy go over this and commiserate with you. Give a listen and see if you agree. 

This episode we talk to the Denver Queen of Speed Dating Cynthia Pfeffer from Figs and Dates . She tells us about what she's seen with the hundreds of speed dates she's hosted and gives us tips and observations to improve your speed dates or regular dates. 

Our guest Jacqui Pugh has some advice for fixing the common denominator in relationship disasters: Ourselves! Struggling with a breakup, serial bad dates and relationships, difficulty getting over your divorce or ex?  You really need to look in the mirror and in your own mind and heart. Take a break from dating and take action to really get over your ex(s), dive into why you keep repeating relationship patterns. Check out the episode and find more info on Jacqui's programs and tell her Dating Daze sent you! Link here: Jacqui Pugh

This episode we talk about our experiences with speed dating. Jeff and Mindy went to separate speed meet n' greet events. One a traditional sit down talk for 5 mins and move to the next one and one a speed mingling where your group chats for 10-15 mins then moves to a new group. Both great ways to meet that might lead you to the love of your life.

We talk to psychotherapist and dating-book author Marlisse Testa and get her advice on finding your next great relationship. Tips on making sure you're ready to date, first date/Meet n' Greet ideas and suggestions. Plus some great fun concepts to help make your next first date, your last first date. Marlisse Testa Look for her new book coming soon: "Stow Your Luggage When Dating"

You're on a first date and they mention their ex and you assume they're not over them...or they say they like skiing and you assume they won't date anyone that's not an avid skier...don't make assumption and judgements based on the limited information of a first date...also don't stand up someone or ghost them it's not nice...this and more on this episode.

A lot of men say they want a relationship and that's why they're dating...but do they reallly? Others...a lot of others...say they just want to get laid. In this episode we talk to Justin Adams a masulinity coach. He helps men figure out themselves first and what they want and then helps them get it. Super interesting! Find Justin at: Find Justin here

While the majority of people want, or say they want, a long term, monogamous, relationship it turns out that most of the time that doesn't work and a lot of people don't even want to be monogamous or even married. But how does that work? And it turns out that you the same issues in dating monogamously show up in non-monogamy. We talk to a real expert Dr. Joli Hamilton about how to negotiate all of it. Find her here

When you first start back into dating you might get a little nervous when you first meet in person (the Meet n' Greet-MnG). But after 300 or so first dates, like Jeff and Mindy, you won't even blink...but hoping you'll only ever need a few dozen MnG's here's some things to ask but maybe more importantly some things to not ask.