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Every breakup is different, there is no one way to go about it. Some breakups feel insignificant, others change our perception of love and relationships for the rest of our lives. On today's episode, Tess and Katie discuss their experiences with breakups, how to navigate them, and suggest the best things to do and not to do during a breakup. Follow us on Instagram @coolgirlspodcast

In this Halloween special, the Cool Girls asked listeners to write in their spookiest dating stories. You will feel shivers down your spine as Katie and Tess read aloud stories about being haunted by a one night stand, being spooked out while on a pity date, being abandoned by a famous British musician boyfriend, and more. Follow the Cool Girls @coolgirlspodcast Cool Witch parody produced by Kris Cruz and performed by Brady (aka Katie). Follow them @kriscruz__ and @officialbradymusic

Today Tess and Katie discuss the power of saying no. Where does the fear of saying no stem from, in both non-sexual and sexual partnerships, at work, and even with our best friends? Katie and Tess explore their own relationship with “No” and offer advice on how to put yourself first, even in the hardest situations. A trigger warning that this episode may be difficult for people to listen to that have experienced sexual trauma. We hear you, see you, and support you. Follow us @coolgirlspodcast

For this episode about heartbreak, Tess and Katie spoke to Claire Byrne, also known as Claire the Heartbreak Coach. Claire is a Southern Californian life coach whose expertise is in the field of heartbreak and how to stop wanting him/her back. They talk about falling for narcissistic sociopaths, chasing unavailable people, playing it safe, and having confidence in your own greatness. Claire has an affordable online course launching in November. Subscribe to her mailing list for updates on that at www.clairetheheartbreakcoach.com for updates. Follow Claire @clairetheheartbreakcoach Follow the Cool Girls @coolgirlspodcast

On this episode of Cool Girls, Tess and Katie reveal their vulnerable journeys of love and dating in 2020. Katie opens up about her new relationship hurdles during COVID-19, while Tess reflects on the intricacies fo dating during a global pandemic. Follow us @coolgirlspodcast

The Cool Girls are back with an episode all about boobs and bras! This episode Katie and Tess got to interview Jane Fisher, co-founder and co-CEO of Harper Wilde, the Venice, CA base bra company created for the modern woman - ethically made and fairly prices with core values of empowerment. Listen in to learn about the bra industry's somewhat toxic history, hear Jane's perspective on being a woman in business, and find out some of Tess and Katie's most embarrassing boob stories. Learn more about Harper Wilde and view their collection at www.harperwilde.com or visit their instagram @harperwilde

Bonus episode alert! Join Tess and Katie as they read personal journal entries and song lyrics dating back as long ago as 2005. Listen to what it was like for Katie to come out of the closet and to Tess's pros and cons list about her first boyfriend. Follow us @coolgirlspodcast

On today's episode of Cool Girls, Tess and Katie talk to Landon, Tess's ex-boyfriend and college sweetheart. Not only will this episode provide a snapshot of what it was like to date Tess back in the day, but it will also unravel the ups and downs of young love, reveal Landon's personal journey coming out as a gay man, and look at the danger of generalizations and labels. You can follow Landon @landinobambino Follow us @coolgirlspodcast

Tess and Katie talk about their experiences with codependency in their past relationships and discuss ways to break old habits and turn an unhealthy relationship into a more interdependent one. Follow us @coolgirlspodcast

Listen to Tess and Katie's discussion with LA based sex therapist Kamil Lewis as she challenges the heteronormative dialogue around intimacy, debunks Hollywood's portrayal of sex, and even suggests way to introduce fantasy into the bedroom. You can reach Kamil at kamillewistherapy@gmail.com or visit her website at www.KamilLewis.com. Find her on instagram @kamil.lewis Follow us on instagram @coolgirlspodcast.com

Katie and Tess discuss online dating, first date jitters, and dating deal breakers. Is it realistic to fantasize about meeting your perfect person off-line by catching eyes at a coffee shop, like a fairytale? Or is the status-quo changing so that our modern love stories can start with a dating app and still sound romantic? Follow us @coolgirlspodcast!

Boss lady Liz Culley (co-host of podcast "Scissoring Isn't a Thing"; weekly host for "The Taylor Strecker Show") joins Tess and Katie on this episode of Cool Girls as they discuss navigating being a newlywed during Covid-19, internalized homophobia, and stigmas around bisexuality. Follow Liz @listentoliz and check out her amazing LGBTQ+ Culture podcast from Embassy Row @siatpodcast.

Have you ever seen a text come through on your partner's phone and feel your heart beat suddenly, a wave of heat come over you, and your thoughts start to spiral? On this episode of Cool Girls hosts Katie and Tess discuss jealousy, explore ways to navigate the feeling in relationships and work, and share some personal mantras that personally help them come out the other side.

Actor and comedian Victoria Dunn joins hosts Katie and Tess to discuss her experiences with cheaters, providing many laughs along the way. They touch down on topics like non-monogamy, confronting past trauma in a new relationship, and they ask each other those tricky questions... is it okay to go through your partner's phone? Follow Victoria at @thevictoriadunn and visit her website at www.victoriadunn.com

In the debut episode of Cool Girls Podcast, hosts Katie and Tess discuss ghosting, caspering, and closure with their hookup buddies and long term loves, alike.

What is a Cool Girl? Why make a podcast with that title? In this short introduction, hosts Katie and Tess unveil the inspiration for their podcast all about dating, love, relationships, heartbreak and independence. Episode 1: Ghosting is out now!