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Coaching with Jamee
30 minutes | Jan 12, 2022
161 If Sex Was a Slice of Pie….
Women in thriving marriages where sex is a non issue believe that sex is not more important than anything else. They don’t believe sex is less important than any other part of their relationship or life. They believe that sex is an equal slice of the pie to every other slice. If you find yourself thinking that your spouse thinks about sex too much or you worry that if you don’t bring up sex that your spouse might forget about sex but you both want a stronger sexual connection, then this episode is for you. We talk about making sex equal and what happens when we don’t. Also what some of the obstacles are that get in the way of making sex equal- especially for women with responsive sexual desire (which is sometimes referred to as low sexual desire). Seeking this balance and equality with sex makes everyone relax and enjoy more good sex instead if sex looming so large in the marriage or being something that is dreaded. To contact me for anything (including a spot in my coaching group that is starting January 21st) email me at email@example.com
28 minutes | Dec 20, 2021
160 Enjoy More Sex: Receive Pleasure and Do Something Different
This is a continuation of what to do instead of THE TALK THAT DOESN’T WORK. We focus on a skill that women need to desire more sex and 3 obstacles that get in the way. And we also discuss a mistake that men make when it comes to supporting their wives sexual desire and the skill he needs to increase sexual desire and to just feel more confident as a man and husband.
35 minutes | Dec 14, 2021
159 Enjoy More Sex: Communicate with Skills and Lifestyle
As I mentioned in episode 158, the “we aren’t having enough sex talk” isn’t helping couples have & enjoy more sex. It’s creating obligation sex or pity sex instead. Communication doesn’t always mean talking. Communication can happen through the vibe and energy we carry around with us and it can also happen through our behaviors, lifestyle choices and our inactions. There’s a certain set of skills and lifestyle choices that a husband and wife can learn that will turn on and up a woman’s sexual desire. I introduce some of them here in this episode. Its more productive to spend your time and energy in these skills and behaviors then to have another talk about needing more sex.
17 minutes | Dec 7, 2021
158 Enjoy More Sex: Stop This Kind of Talking
Everyone in the world says that communication is the most important part of a long lasting delightful marriage where sex is a non issue. And this may be true, but communication doesn’t always mean TALKING. There are many other forms of communication that work better than talking sometimes. And there’s one conversation that isn’t working if you are a woman struggling with a low sexual desire and a man wanting more sex.
18 minutes | Sep 1, 2021
157 Enjoy More Sex: Biological Differences
In order for women to enjoy more sex they need to close their stress cycle BEFORE they will desire to turn to their spouses sexually. Men are different in that typically sex relieves stress. When women understand how their sexual desire works on a biological level and HONOR their own bodies and in turn communicate this to their husbands, then sex becomes a nonissue in marriage. They initiate sex equally as often as their spouse and they desire sex more often because they enjoy sex.
3 minutes | Aug 6, 2021
156 What Will Sex Give Me?- Favorite
Women in thriving marriages understand that focusing on having more sex is not going to strengthen your sexual connection to your spouse. What should the focus be instead?
25 minutes | Aug 3, 2021
155 Big Picture Thinking
Instantaneous gratification vs big picture thinking. Women in thriving marriages understand that instant gratification doesn’t lead them to the thriving marriage they truly desire. Recognizing how you give into instantaneous gratification with yourself and your family and spouse on a daily basis and how this effects your relationship is the key to a thriving marriage with a strong sexual connection.
6 minutes | Jul 30, 2021
154 Motherhood and Sexuality- Favorite
We are all sexual beings. And having a healthy sexual relationship between spouses is so important to a thriving marriage. There are a few obstacles that get in the way of a woman’s sexuality. I will address some of those here and what you can do about it so you can stop neglecting yourself and start thriving in your marriage and family.
29 minutes | Jul 27, 2021
153 Transactions in Marriage
Transactions aren’t inherently bad in a marriage. They can be good or bad and it depends on what your goals are and what you’re trying to create. Believing that transactions are just unhealthy in general stops the creative process that it requires for you to create a thriving marriage. Open up your mind and heart and start creating a more intimate and playful relationship…
7 minutes | Jul 23, 2021
E 152 A Whole Village- Favorite
*Coaching With Jamee Favorite series* When you realize a whole village used to do what you alone are expected to do now. And this explains your low s*xual desire.
32 minutes | Jul 20, 2021
151 Emotions are Energy
Emotions are just energy. They are a part of you but they are not you. Even though we are just learning how to properly support our bodies as they do their jobs, we don’t have to be afraid of any emotion. The more you understand, the more clarity and peace you experience in your life. The more clarity and peace you have, the easier your life becomes. The easier your life is, then you enjoy your relationships more. The more you enjoy your relationships, the deeper your connections get.
14 minutes | Jul 14, 2021
150 Thoughts Have No Moral Value
You are a being of light and love. And you are experiencing a human experience. Part of your human experience is to ha e a brain and a body. Your thoughts have no moral value. They aren’t good and they aren’t bad. They are options. When you identify with a thought or opinion then you avoid looking at your thoughts because if you discover that you have “bad” thoughts then you will feel like a bad person. Or you will feel better than others if you think you have good thoughts. Identifying with your thoughts makes it hard to progress and keeps you stuck.
14 minutes | Jul 7, 2021
149 You are Not Triggers or Circumstances
There is YOU. And then there is everything and everyone that is happening in the world. Bringing awareness to this for yourself in a daily basis makes your life so much easier to manage. Which in turn strengthens all your relationships.
25 minutes | Jun 22, 2021
148 You Already Are Connected
Noticing that something is off with your spouse (or anyone in your life) means that you already are super connected to them. A lot people misinterpret noticing someone else’s “off” feelings or energy as evidence for distance between them. But the opposite is true. You don’t notice someone else and they might be feeling if you’re not connected to them. How does this improve your relationships? What you’re thinking determines how you treat someone. What you’re thinking and believing is who you are being. And this is either inviting or uninviting to someone else. I’ll share a personal example in this episode and show you how it works.
29 minutes | May 27, 2021
147 Balance Between Masculine and Feminine Energies
When I’m teaching about masculine and feminine energies I’m not necessarily talking about genders. I’m talking about the different kinds of energy that we all have inside of us. We each have access to masculine and feminine energies and it’s not about embracing one over the other. It’s deciding which energy will serve us best in any given circumstance. And it’s also about finding a balance in ourselves, our families, and our communities. Because we are conditioned to give priority to masculine energy that it’s not uncommon for us to prioritize masculine energy and experience over feminine energy and experience. We start with an awareness of how this happens before we can make some very beautiful shifts.
1 minutes | May 24, 2021
146 Harmful Patriarchal Beliefs
I define a patriarchal society as a set of belief systems that are centered around a masculine energy and masculine bodies. This lead to a society that builds everything from a way of eating to relationship dynamics that are not serving everyone (make and female) as a whole. The harmful effects of this are women don’t understand their own bodies and believe they are broken in some way. I have a goal to teach as many women as possible about their beautiful feminine bodies and empower them to live in a way that supports their own souls so they can have the best health of their lives. More energy! More peace! More love! Deeper intimate connections with other women and deeper intimate connections with themselves and their spouses!! Yes please. In this episode I’m sharing a couple patriarchal beliefs that are harmful to both men and women. The patriarchal beliefs are misunderstood to only serve men and not women but the truth is that everyone is harmed by these beliefs- I’ll show you how. My greatest motivation is I want women to know that they are not broken and nothing is wrong with them.
26 minutes | May 14, 2021
145 People Pleasing is Cheap Love
People pleasing, self sacrificing and seeking for others approval are cheap versions of the real deep & fulfilling love you’re actually searching for. You’re doing these things for the right reasons, but it’s not going to produce the results you’re really searching for.
69 minutes | May 5, 2021
144 Inward Modesty & Outward Immodesty w/ Buck Swaney
Buck and Angie Swaney have developed a unique philosophical framework on modesty to support positive body image and healthy sexuality for their daughters and their son. Today Buck is here to share this unique way of teaching modesty with us. Get ready because Buck vulnerably shares personal stories from his own life so that we can see how he was able to come up with this fantastic outlook and way of teaching his children. Your mind is about to be blown away and you will have a completely fresh outlook on modesty and parenting after this episode.
20 minutes | Apr 27, 2021
143 Love, Appreciation, & Willingness Oh My!
Staying committed to a thriving marriage (as opposed to an average marriage) takes the same commitment you have to paying your bills. People who are in thriving marriages aren’t perfect. But they are committed to a few nonnegotiable things and they aren’t perfect at it but they are aware and willing to keep trying. It never takes perfection to succeed, it only takes willingness.
22 minutes | Apr 21, 2021
142 Resistance Explained
Resistance is hard for everyone. Not understanding resistance keeps us from strengthening relationships and also reaching goals we’ve had for years. When you understand resistance then your life gets so much easier and you reap all the rewards.
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