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Even if you aren't trying to be provocative you are going to come across online bullies who put a lot of energy in defaming you.... the more visible you become.     I always say that dealing with cancel culture and online bullying is the shadow work of visibility because this is the exact thing that makes online success and fame feel unsafe.     Are you truly unsafe though? In most cases not... but your mind says otherwise.     This is one of the biggest issue online entrepreneurs face and coaches face.    In this episode you'll learn..     How to deal with online haters  How to deal with people defaming you   How to deal with people lying about you  How to deal with people bullying you   How to deal with the online harassment  How to deal with character assassination    My link tree : https://linktr.ee/SorryIOffendedYou  

This is what you need to consider before hiring your husband to work in your coaching business or any online business. Find out more about what I'm offering on my link tree - https://linktr.ee/SorryIOffendedYou how does one keep their masculinity?  How does a man keep his masculinity if he is working?  For his wife or in his wife's business. Now, first I want to address the common saying that I see in the boss babe groups or the women influencers of the world or women coaches, and that's the idea of "I want to retire my husband."   And having the goal of retiring your husband, I am an absolute 100% fuck no to.    Retiring your husband and I will explain more because maybe people get it confused thinking that I am a retired man, but I'm doing this video , so I'm not retired.   You should never retire your husband unless the whole marriage thing, sickness and health and understanding that there's times where one person may be in need of the other.   You're co-creating together. You're not gonna be at your strongest throughout the entire marriage.  Yes, I do agree in within sickness and in health to support each other, things like that. But in most cases, in any normal circumstance where you're both healthy, you're both able bodied and you're both kicking ass.    There is no reason you should ever retire your husband. And this is why. The reason is because masculinity grows through challenge.   Men are meant to be driven by their purpose. So you never want to.    It's basically looking at assets and liabilities. You never want to feel like your husband is a liability rather than an asset to the family and to the business if you decide to co-create a business.

What does the Andrew Tate vs Greta Thunberg beef mean about us? Can we really be upset about our elected officials if we constantly entertain this same circus in different forms? Find more of my content and my programs here -  https://linktr.ee/SorryIOffendedYou  

The coaching industry certainly has it's issues. I would be lying if I said I didn't feel and extremely familiar feeling back when I watched The Tinder Swinder.   Over the years life coaches, influencers, money / business coaches and of course MLMs  have gotten a bad rap.     Oh... and I'd also be lying if I said I never witnessed seeing women behind the scenes having the financial boundaries violated. Sometimes making multiple 6 figures a year with nothing to show for it in her bank account... and often the culprit is over- investing in high level masterminds... sometimes multiple masterminds.    However.. coaching is also a beautiful thing and it has changed my life. I would not be the man I am today if it wasn't for coaching, internet marketing, self help etc. I drastically improved all areas of my life since the age of 19 because of the incredible information and transformation that is available to all of us.     Dating, Relationships, Fitness, Mindset and Finances are all skills I've been able to learn to live a better life.     But the get rich quick schemes just don't work...  my journey was hard at times.  It required mastery in all these areas... or being on the path of mastery in some of these areas.     There are plenty of coaches that market and breed entitlement within their clients...  thinking being financially free are a few affirmations away. Like it doesn't take mastery and some massive breakthroughs that can feel extremely uncomfortable.     As I write this... after years and years of the coaching industry being at odds it seems that frustration and anger has come to an all time high.    Cancel Culture has been prevalent in the new age / coaching space for quite some time now.     Obviously things must be revealed in order to heal... discussions need to be had.  There certainly are unethical people out there that are hurting people financially and psychologically.    AND there is a ton of unchecked anger with no conscious being thrown at innocent bystanders as well.   In fact for every coach that there is valid criticism for.. there are like 20 coaches who get bullied for minor infractions or absolutely no reason at all.    So even if there is a valid problem that needs to be addressed.... is cancel culture actually making this situation better or a lot worse?    If there are new age and coach cults...  has anti coaching also become a cult?     Fuck Cancel Culture: https://brandon-havener.mykajabi.com/fuck-cancel-culture  Find out everything I got going on: https://linktr.ee/SorryIOffendedYou

Love And Light Confessionals did not let a tragedy go to waste and saw a great opportunity to boost her personal brand and audience.   Unfortunately a mass shooting happened last week at Club Q in Colorado Springs.    Unsurprisingly a member of the anti-coaching HR Department Love and Light Confessionals responded in less than 24 hours putting the blame on life coaches, womb healers, metabolic experts and polarity coaches claiming that they all have homophobic and transphobic rhetoric which caused mass murder.     This is because blaming coaches for absolutely everything isn't about morality.  It is about envy and projection...  and it has now spiraled so far out of control that horrible events are being blamed on business owners because they will not bend to the will of the anti-coaching HR Department.     more from Brandon Marshall Havener ...    Link Tree -  https://linktr.ee/SorryIOffendedYou  Fuck Cancel Culture - https://brandon-havener.mykajabi.com/fuck-cancel-culture  Gays Against Groomers is also mentioned in this video - thank you for being a voice of reason and speaking out against the radicalized absurdity.

Did you know when a woman talks about...   Being a Goddess   Being in her divine feminine  energy    Being a spiritual woman    Taking bubble baths...    Letting her husband drive her to date night    Getting her nails done  And having children...     Is actually what Hitler himself wanted?    Women... what if breast feeding is just alt right propaganda that is leading us into fascism?      On this episode of Sorry I Offended You we touch on these hard topics that are leading women through the divine feminine to alt right conspiracy theorist pipeline. Fuck Cancel Culture:  https://brandon-havener.mykajabi.com/fuck-cancel-culture All My Stuff: https://linktr.ee/SorryIOffendedYou

Welcome to a world where gender doesn't exist...   where your beliefs around gender was rooted in white supremacy all this time...     where grown kids spray their parents with a water bottle for not following your ideology    and where teachers tell their students everything about their sex change and their sex lives.      Shout out to libs of TikTok for finding all of these videos that I shared in this episode of Sorry I Offended You Find me on all my platforms: https://linktr.ee/SorryIOffendedYou Join F* Cancel Culture Here: https://brandon-havener.mykajabi.com/fuck-cancel-culture

The fat acceptance cult has lost their ever damn minds as they try to tear down taylor swift because of her anti-hero video.     Will Taylor Swift apologize to the cancel mob? Or will she claim Queen-Status and ignore all the miserable haters? find out on this episode of Sorry I Offended You w/ Brandon Marshall Havener Fuck Cancel Culture - Join Here 

Taylor Swift is the latest in the crosshairs of the ultra woke and cancel culture because in her new music video Anti-Hero she stepped on a scale and the scale said fat.     Of course a small portion of the Swifties had their complaints... well I have something to say about this nonsense too.    I only hope that Taylor Swift DOES NOT APOLOGIZE!     Join Fuck Cancel Culture - https://brandon-havener.mykajabi.com/fuck-cancel-culture  More violent, More Dangerous and More Problematic than before!!!   

In this episode of "Sorry I Offended You" I take a look at a video a teacher decided to post because she is having an internal battle with telling her students that's she's poly. What boyfriend should she tell them about? If she doesn't tell them about both boyfriends will one feel left out? What if they think she's "cheating"? Oh the difficulties of being a school teacher these days... Join Fuck Cancel Culture Here -  https://linktr.ee/SorryIOffendedYou

This past week Kanye West went on Tucker Carlson's show and said that if Lizzo lost 10 pounds they would cancel her.   We have seen this before when people got angry at Adele for losing weight.    Is there an agenda behind Lizzo's platform to make us fat, delirious and unhealthy?     Her die hard fans are the most annoying one's.. you will go on the internet and they are in complete denial about the ability to control our own health and they have a complete lack of knowledge of what health is.    They are so delirious that they will even say that the obesity rate today has ALWAYS been this way.. which is simply not true.    Also in this episode:  I cover Greg Doucette's video on Lizzo,  Lizzo's instacart menu and the tragic tail of Nikocado Avocado who went from suffering on the vegan diet to suffering keeping up his mukbang online persona that made him rich.     Fuck Cancel Culture - Click Here More with Brandon Marshall Havener - Click Here  You can also listen or watch to Sorry I Offended You on your favorite platform like Spotify and iTunes

Mystery offers have become popular in the coaching industry? Are they a scam? Is it smart to purchase mystery offers as a coach? Is it ethical to offer mystery offers as a business coach? Tune in to find out!

Back in the day I was nearly highjacked by the woke cult and I participated in cancel culture because I actually believed it was for the betterment of humanity.      The anti coaching HR department is absolutely linked to the leftist (marxist) social justice ideology. This is why it never fails... you will always see the anti coaches regurgitate leftist talking points.   The victim mentality with jealous coaches is the same victim mentality of SJWs.    It's not a coincidence that when I felt like I needed to be a "hero" of the coaching industry or an SJW hero that was right at the very moment my old life was in shambles.    It's also not a coincidence that when I got in a healthy relationship that identity started to dissolve.    People in happy relationships don't often feel the need to cancel people.    In this episode I will be deconstructing an old post of mine when I was closer to the cringe area of leftism... however a lot of the stuff I posted are things I still agree with to this day.       I am also responding to the account Why Don't You Say Something? run by Eva Collins.  While we disagree on a lot there are a lot I do agree with and relate with her.    So my intention was to disagree on this video as respectful as possible and still holding my beliefs, values and learning experiences along my journey.     This episode was originally intended for my new podcast "Conscious Defiance"  but I am also putting the episode on "Sorry I Offend You" as well since it's relevant for both.       More from Brandon Marshall Havener aka The Spiritual SmartAss:  https://linktr.ee/SorryIOffendedYou

This is a story about how I infiltrated Katarina Phang's High-Value Goddess Community facebook group as the one and only Amanda Nightfire.   Unfortunately my time was cut short because they figured me out... but it was fun while it lasted.    I am now accepting troll requests and ideas to showcase on The Sorry I Offended You Podcast...  send me a dm @SorryIOffendedYou to submit your requests. all of my links and contact details :   https://linktr.ee/SorryIOffendedYou

The anti coaching HR DEPARTMENT do not accept any apologies... so why bother apologizing? Because as compassionate people we think that there is room for reasoning... the issue is there isn't.     When people are in large groups and agree that cancel culture is OK they will dehumanize and justify the bullying...  here is me breaking down a break down of an apology... APOLOGY INCEPTION!!!

Savtta's new name is SeekingForDrama.   In some cases I think she is right just like a broken clock is...  however she is constantly wrong about me lol.   Watch how I got called out during my time off of social media over a post from months ago (which she decided to comment on)    before this month I forgot who Savtta was. Apparently though...  I was unhinged during my hiatus away from social media. Perhaps I was harassing her in the astral realm?     You can't call somebody unhinged if you are the one doing the provoking.  The truth is...  YOU are unhinged and I am one of the first one's willing to respond to your BS. Comments

Seeking With Sattva or @SeekingWithSattva tends to put on more of a polished image on instagram than the reddit group AshaeScumdara that praises her often...    However I think her IG stories are a bit creepy as well.  Today I cover a part of her stories when she went totally unhinged. It's quite interesting that her and people like her think this is some higher regulated standard of carrying yourself online as a certified coach or licensed therapist.     Is this what they're looking for when they demand coach regulation?    Website: http://www.BrandonMarshallHavener.com Sorry I Offended You w/ Brandon Marshall Havener aka The Spiritual SmartAss

The life coach HR department is very upset about sex coaches and blending in sex coaching with money coaching.  Or maybe they just hate coaching all together!     This is a breakdown of how to deal with cancel culture as a coach and what type of bullying coaches face by the failed coaches who just couldn't hack it so they stew in jealousy.     Sorry I Offended You with Brandon Marshall Havener aka The Spiritual SmartAss

Whenever I see a post mentioning "real men" there are people who get upset at the audacity to define what a "real man" is. But I think this is the foundation of the struggle that women have if they can't find a good man and the issues men have when it comes to having a healthy relationship with their masculinity. If you get the least bit offended when it comes to "real men" how can you possibly BE or Attract a real man? No we don't fit in boxes and we don't all act the same AND.. Masculinity is certain and defined.  If you think that masculinity is fluid and it's absolutely everything then it's also absolutely nothing. While there are plenty of wounded men in the world... The mainstream narrative takes actual masculinity and defines it as "toxic masculinity" Then tries to re-define masculinity by trying to make it fluid and embodying all the traits as feminine energy. Then they get mad when these "healed men" that are only accepted through either a distorted lens or a feminine lens... ...  can't step up and be protectors. If you can't define a real man and list core traits of what makes a real man then there's a very low chance of experiencing life as or with a real man. For more of Brandon Marshall Havener visit here 

Why are the self titled trauma informed coaches that apparently have "safe spaces" the most trauma inducing? ------ Positioning yourself as the holier than thou wokest leader of them all has it's consequences: Most people doing this are putting themselves in the rescuer position. You will either... 1. Attract victims who will hand over the bulk of their personal responsibility and if you do not comply to the victim they will smear you as an abuser. 2. Create an unrealistic standard for yourself which is beyond any regular human. The judgment you have for other experts being "toxic" will one day come back like a boomerang on your ass.  You're a human just like the people you judge and you are not exempt from being dethroned from the high-horse you place yourself on. Yes there are people doing bad shit.. there always will be. The one projecting onto the "bad people" the most often have the most skeletons in their own closet... because they don't apply the same accountability toward themselves as much as they pressure others to be accountable. for more of Brandon Marshall Havener visit http://www.brandonmarshallhavener.com