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In this deeply honest and insightful episode, Ahmir and Basirah continue their conversation from part one, delving even further into the challenges they've faced in their relationship and the ways in which they've grown and healed together. With vulnerability and authenticity, they share their journey of overcoming turmoil and finding a deeper connection, ultimately emerging stronger and more resilient. And in addition to exploring the depths of their personal experiences, they also share exciting news about the new directions that BSOTB will be taking. Tune in for a powerful and inspiring conversation about love, growth, and the beauty of overcoming adversity.PLEASE LIKE, FOLLOW, SHARE AND  COMMENT!Connect with us on Instagram https://instagram.com/bothsidesofthebed?igshid=YmMyMTA2M2Y= For the full video on YouTube, check out our channel @bothsidesofthebed https://youtube.com/channel/UCOuDUZpjUhqXsC2AABwNuEwShare your stories, ask advice, or connect with us at share@bothsidesofthebed.tvFor Sex & Relationship Coaching with Basirah connect with her on her websitehttps://www.b-intimate.com (https://www.b-intimate.com)Linktreehttps://linktr.ee/bothsidesofthebedSHOUT OUT TO JAY KAIZEN FOR THE INFO ON TWIN FLAMESGo Check out more of his content on IG and TikTok @jay.kaizenhttps://instagram.com/jay.kaizen?igshid=MzRlODBiNWFlZA==

WELCOME TO SEASON 2!!!Come join Ahmir and Basirah in this amazing two-part first episode as they share their beautiful but intense twin flame journey. Get ready to feel all the feels as they get real about the ups and downs they've been facing and how their love for each other helped them through it all to get where they are today.Tune in next week for Part 2 of this episode. PLEASE LIKE, FOLLOW, SHARE AND  COMMENT!Connect with us on Instagram https://instagram.com/bothsidesofthebed?igshid=YmMyMTA2M2Y= For the full video on YouTube, check out our channel @bothsidesofthebed https://youtube.com/channel/UCOuDUZpjUhqXsC2AABwNuEwShare your stories, ask advice, or connect with us at share@bothsidesofthebed.tvFor Sex & Relationship Coaching with Basirah connect with her on her websitehttps://www.b-intimate.com (https://www.b-intimate.com)Linktreehttps://linktr.ee/bothsidesofthebed SHOUT OUT TO JAY KAIZEN FOR THE INFO ON TWIN FLAMESGo Check out more of his content on IG and TikTok @jay.kaizenhttps://instagram.com/jay.kaizen?igshid=MzRlODBiNWFlZA==

In this episode, Ahmir and Basirah discuss Masturbation, why they do it, what they fantasize about, the value of self pleasure and the positive and negative effects it can have on our sex life. Stay tuned to hear about the ways you can switch up you self pleasure “routine”PLEASE LIKE, FOLLOW, SHARE AND  COMMENT!For Sex & Relationship Coaching with Basirah connect with her on her websitehttps://www.b-intimate.com (https://www.b-intimate.com)For the full video on YouTube, check out our channel @bothsidesofthebed https://youtube.com/channel/UCOuDUZpjUhqXsC2AABwNuEw (https://youtube.com/channel/UCOuDUZpjUhqXsC2AABwNuEw)Join our Patreon for exclusive contenthttps://www.patreon.com/BSOTB (https://www.patreon.com/BSOTB)Connect with us on Instagram https://instagram.com/bothsidesofthebed?igshid=YmMyMTA2M2Y= (https://instagram.com/bothsidesofthebed?igshid=YmMyMTA2M2Y=)https://linktr.ee/bothsidesofthebed (https://linktr.ee/bothsidesofthebed)

In this episode, after receiving many questions on the subject, Ahmir and Basirah finally take a deep dive into open relationship and talk about the different types of open relationships, what their open relationship looks like, and break down the good, the bad and all the sexy things that comes with being in one. Stay tuned to hear about the important questions you should ask yourself if you are considering being in one too. PLEASE LIKE, FOLLOW, SHARE AND  COMMENT!For Sex & Relationship Coaching with Basirah connect with her on her websitehttps://www.b-intimate.com (https://www.b-intimate.com)For the full video on YouTube, check out our channel @bothsidesofthebed https://youtube.com/channel/UCOuDUZpjUhqXsC2AABwNuEw (https://youtube.com/channel/UCOuDUZpjUhqXsC2AABwNuEw)Join our Patreon for exclusive contenthttps://www.patreon.com/BSOTB (https://www.patreon.com/BSOTB)Connect with us on Instagram https://instagram.com/bothsidesofthebed?igshid=YmMyMTA2M2Y= (https://instagram.com/bothsidesofthebed?igshid=YmMyMTA2M2Y=)https://linktr.ee/bothsidesofthebed (https://linktr.ee/bothsidesofthebed)

BSOTB IS BACK! In this weeks episode Ahmir and Basirah bring in the New Year catching us up on where they have been these last few months and some major challenges they faced during that time.Come along for the ride as they take you back to the loving beginnings of their relationship and the beginning of Both Sides of The Bed. Stick around until the end for clips of bonus Patreon content of a conversation they had as they dive in deeper and unpack their feeling surrounding their relationship.PLEASE LIKE, FOLLOW, SHARE AND  COMMENT!For the full video on YouTube, check out our Channel @bothsidesofthebed https://youtube.com/channel/UCOuDUZpjUhqXsC2AABwNuEw Connect with us on Instagram https://instagram.com/bothsidesofthebed?igshid=YmMyMTA2M2Y= https://linktr.ee/bothsidesofthebed (https://linktr.ee/bothsidesofthebed)

Seduction is an energy, a dance, an intent and an art. In this weeks episode Ahmir and Basirah dive into the 9 different seduction styles, share their personal seductive techniques and discuss how having a seductive game can amplify your chances of getting what you desire…and your prey. PLEASE LIKE, FOLLOW, SHARE AND  COMMENT!For the full video on YouTube, check out our Channel @bothsidesofthebed https://youtube.com/channel/UCOuDUZpjUhqXsC2AABwNuEwConnect with us on Instagram https://instagram.com/bothsidesofthebed?igshid=YmMyMTA2M2Y=https://www.bothsidesofthebed.tv

Have you wanted to spice things up in the bed room but struggled with how to bring up the topic to your partner? In this weeks episode Ahmir and Basirah discuss “The Sex Blueprint”, a guide to help you get a better understanding of what you want and get a better understanding of your partners needs by, Getting clear about your wants, Identifying you desires and Being vulnerable. The Sex Blueprint:https://drive.google.com/file/d/1xZsEaAstvqKsU8J-ZeIZcBZ6_mMqHZmJ/viewPLEASE LIKE, FOLLOW, SHARE AND  COMMENT!For the full video on YouTube, check out our Channel @bothsidesofthebed https://youtube.com/channel/UCOuDUZpjUhqXsC2AABwNuEwConnect with us on Instagram https://instagram.com/bothsidesofthebed?igshid=YmMyMTA2M2Y=https://linktr.ee/bothsidesofthebed

What are the right ingredients for great sex?In this episode, Ahmir and Basirah chat with Kiki and Medinah, the lovely ladies of the Cocktails: Dirty Discussions podcast. They discuss how to have great sex, being the beloved unicorn, and uncommon porn interests! Kiki and Medinah are honest, hilarious, and know exactly what great sex means. Connect with our guests: Cocktails Podcasthttps://linktr.ee/cocktalespodcasthttps://instagram.com/cocktalespodcast?igshid=YmMyMTA2M2Y=@Kikisaidsohttps://instagram.com/kikisaidso?igshid=YmMyMTA2M2Y=@coffeebeandeanhttps://instagram.com/coffeebeandean?igshid=YmMyMTA2M2Y=j

Do you give your self permission to be sexually free? Do you prioritize fun in your sexual experiences? In this episode Ahmir and Basirah discuss sexual freedom and the true embodiment of your sexual energy with sex enthusiast Majestyyy the self proclaimed “Funsexual”. Majestyyy takes us on a ride as they all discusses the importance of prioritizing fun and play in your sexual experiences. You can find Majestyyy at The Funsexual Podcast and on social media @thefunsexualhttps://linktr.ee/thefunsexual

For many of us our sex education journey has been anything but educational! Most of us have been taught about “the birds and the bees” and our schools have showed us many graphic images of all the STDS we were bound to get if we dared to have sex. But what about all the many MANY things they didn’t teach us? In this episode Ahmir and Basirah discuss all the things we wish we learned about sex growing up! From communicating to your partner effectively to knowing how to please your self and your partner. Along with the things they did manage to learn about sex on their own journey's. They also share some tips on how to normalize talking about sex in the home.PLEASE LIKE, FOLLOW, SHARE AND  COMMENT!For the full video on YouTube, check out our Channel @bothsidesofthebed https://youtube.com/channel/UCOuDUZpjUhqXsC2AABwNuEwConnect with us on Instagram https://instagram.com/bothsidesofthebed?igshid=YmMyMTA2M2Y=https://linktr.ee/bothsidesofthebed

Sexual Confidence sets the tone for any sexual experience, it determines how present we are, how well we connect and how good we f*ck.  In this episode Ahmir and Basirah discuss the importance of Sexual Confidence and deep dive into questions like “What kind of things make you feel sexually confident?” and “tell us about a time for you lacked sexual confidence?”. Listen as they share their journey to sexual confidence and some tips to help enhance your confidence in the bedroom.PLEASE LIKE, FOLLOW, SHARE AND  COMMENT!For the full video on YouTube, check out our Channel @bothsidesofthebed https://youtube.com/channel/UCOuDUZpjUhqXsC2AABwNuEwConnect with us on Instagram https://instagram.com/bothsidesofthebed?igshid=YmMyMTA2M2Y=https://linktr.ee/bothsidesofthebed

Are you Vanilla, Freaky, or Kinky? How would you define Vanilla, Freaky, and Kinky? In this episode Ahmir and Basirah discuss the different definitions and perspectives surround Vanilla sex, Freaky behaviors and Kinky mindsets. Tune in as they share their personal experiences surrounding the type of sex they indulge in and how no matter the “category” you land in, sex is amazing as long as it’s consensual and you show up fully. PLEASE LIKE, FOLLOW, SHARE AND  COMMENT!For the full video on YouTube, check out our Channel @bothsidesofthebed https://youtube.com/channel/UCOuDUZpjUhqXsC2AABwNuEwConnect with us on Instagram @bothsidesofthebed@ahmir_rashad@Basirah__https://instagram.com/bothsidesofthebed?igshid=YmMyMTA2M2Y=https://linktr.ee/bothsidesofthebed

So, you wanna have a threesome! Has it been a fantasy of yours for a long time? Not sure how to navigate the world of manaja twa at all? Or are you seasoned in the world of threesomes and want to amplify your experience even more?   In this episode Ahmir and Basirah discuss threesomes, foursomes and moresomes and share their personal experiences and offer some tips on what they believe would be helpful to have a successful group sex encounter.  PLEASE LIKE, FOLLOW, COMMENT AND SHARE AND  COMMENT! For the full video on YouTube, check out our Channel @bothsidesofthebed  https://youtube.com/channel/UCOuDUZpjUhqXsC2AABwNuE Connect with us on Instagram  @bothsidesofthebed @ahmir_rashad @Basirah__

What do you REALLY, desire? Do you know? Does your partner know?Acknowledging your own desires and your partners desires is vital if you are seeking an open, connected and fulfilling relationship. Whether it’s the type of relationship style you want, or the kinks you lust after, identifying and communicating your desires is the first step to achieving full satisfaction.In this episode Ahmir and Basirah discuss identifying and addressing desires, relationship styles and their “Relationship Blueprint” that supported them in going after the type of relationship they truly desired with each other.For the video version and more sexy content you can check us out on YouTube and to follow and connect with us you can follow us on Instagram @bothsidesofthebed  @ahmir_rashad and @basirah__Download “The Blueprint” here:https://drive.google.com/file/d/1krW95qhxCS43M6FppoVV0mQ4CTa1erB7/view?usp=sharingCheck us out on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCOuDUZpjUhqXsC2AABwNuEw/featured

EP: 1 Why do people have sex?Welcome to the very first of many episodes of Both Sides of The Bed! Do you ever wonder why you have sex? What entices your partner(s) to have sex? What your motives are?In this episode we will dive in to the question “Why do people have sex?” We will learn about what drives Ahmir and Basirah to have sex and their opinions on why other do as well.Take note to what inspires you to have sex, and ask yourself are you happy with your answer?Let's keep this connection going. For more content and to reach out, follow us on Youtube Instagram at @bothsidesofthebed or Ahmir and Basirah individually at @ahmir_rashad and @basirah__

This Podcast is a platform all about sex, love and relationships, join @ahmir_rashad & @Basirah__ every Wednesday as we dive into topics like:Why do people have sex?How to go after the sex you desireThe difference between Kinky sex, Vanilla sex and freaky sexHow your boundaries can set you freePlaying with “toys” Connecting to your sensual selfButt stuff and so much more!Our hope is that this podcast inspires you to connect with your self, your lover(s) and challenges you to explore your sexuality and enhance your sexual experiences. Join our community and help us build a more sex positive world!

Here is some Foreplay for ya! Get a taste of what we have in store for you!Ahmir Rashad and Basirah Rahim will deep dive into conversations surrounding sex relationships and intimacy!. They will give their honest raw and real opinions on various topics and share their insights on how they have cultivated their relationships and help their listeners explore and become more open-minded to new ways to receive pleasure and support the cause to destigmatize sex and pleasure.