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Bliss Bringers - Sex, Swinging & Kink Podcast
71 minutes | 5 months ago
Confronting Race & Sex with Jet Setting Jasmine
We have an in-depth conversation with porn producer, performer, coach, kinkster, a multifaceted businesswoman, a mother of three, a clinical mental health therapist, gerontologist, adult film star and all-round awesome person "Jet Setting Jasmine".We talk about a multiple subjects that are near and dear not just to the black BDSM community, but everybody in alternative lifestyle like swingers, poly or kinksters. Generational trauma:Black people have been mentally and physically abused in the past, and some care that trauma with them Think about the optics of suspending somebody from a tree or using a whip in public. How can we as a dominant improve our skills and be mindful of these issues. Swinger parties and events: Does your ad copy have people of color or full-bodied people in it?If not, how are they going to feel welcome? Talking to your children about sex:Don't tell them anything inappropriate, but don't hide the need for adults to have intimacy or the right for everybody to have pleasure and bodily autonomy Shitty music in dungeons: Really? Does it have to "nosebleed central" loud crappy metal to create an atmosphere? What if people actually want to talk or -gasp- have a negotiation talk before a scene? Skin color in kink:Bruising and discoloration during as scene is nearly impossible to see. How to check for problems. Also: Dungeon lighting: a bit of dark can be romantic, too much makes it dangerous. BDSM and Therapy:A dom-sub relationship can beneficial for all involved, provide structure and help work through existing traumas. Persons with old traumas can use BDSM negotiation techniques to work out a protocol that will gradually desensitize themselves so they can end up with better intimacy and sex lives. At-home STD & Hormone testingJetSettingJasmine.com WebsiteRoyal Fetish Radio PodcastBlue Pearl Therapy The post Confronting Race & Sex with Jet Setting Jasmine appeared first on Bliss Bringers.
35 minutes | 9 months ago
57: Science of Non-Monogamy
A while ago, we worked with Analisa Murphy who did a scientific study to better understand the effects of non-monogamy (or any kind of open relationship) on relationships and sexual satisfaction. This is now completed, so it was time for an interview to chat about the learnings. She also explains her personal journey into swinging, from getting married at an early age to leaving the Mormon religion and the impact this has on her life, her kids and her sexuality. We talk about: The danger of "no sex before marriage" and the damage it can do before discovering polyamory. There are tricks mormons use to go swinger parties without anybody noticing.Being gay in the Mormon church, getting kicked out for getting AIDS. For more information: Read "A Prospective Investigation of the Decision to Open Up a Romantic Relationship"Follow Analisa on twitter The post 57: Science of Non-Monogamy appeared first on Bliss Bringers.
21 minutes | 2 years ago
56: Puppies do Folsom
We gave the our roaming reporters (the Mr. and Mrs. Puppy) the microphones and let them run amok during Folsom Street Faire in San Francisco. They talk to people on a range of subjects: Whips, choosing floggers, pony play, "puppy play" and a whole bunch of kink. Contact us and let us know where you will be during the next Folsom! The post 56: Puppies do Folsom appeared first on Bliss Bringers.
24 minutes | 3 years ago
55: Puppy Bites
The gang debriefs from Naughty in Nawlins and Mr. Puppy gives advise on how to behave on swinger dating sites. How to create a profile, how to respond. If you have any questions you would like to hear answered, just ask. The post 55: Puppy Bites appeared first on Bliss Bringers.
43 minutes | 3 years ago
54: Tantra in Nawlins
Part 2 of our Naughty in Nawlins visit: We interviewed Organic Loven and a bunch of visitors, each with their own vision on swinging, kink and sexuality, and close it up by dragging the couple from "Ecstatic Hearts" into our bed for interview on tantra, sacred sexuality, and improving and extending your orgasms thru specific techniques and vocalisations. Want to join in the fun at NiN? Make sure to grab your room before they sell out! The post 54: Tantra in Nawlins appeared first on Bliss Bringers.
38 minutes | 3 years ago
53: Andre Shakti does Nawlins
During Naughty in Nawlins 2017 (one of the largest swingers events, in New Orleans), misses Puppy and Jon ran into our instructor for the "erotic wrestling" class. She turned out to very cute, great a giving lapdances and an all-round awesome person. We sat down and chatted about kink, polyamory, bi-sexuality, penis size, wrestling, stripping (including "pole burn") and porn. Andre Shakti is a journalist, educator, performer, activist, and professional slut living in the San Francisco Bay Area. She is devoted to normalizing alternative desires, de-stigmatizing sex workers and their clients, and not taking herself too seriously. Andre wrestles mediocre white men into submission and writes about sex work, queerness and non-monogamy for Cosmopolitan, Thrillist, MEL, Vice, and more. She can frequently be found marathoning Law & Order: SVU under a chaotic pile of partners and pitbulls, and yes, she knows how problematic that show is. Visit her on Twitter @andreshakti, on FB as “Andre Shakti”, and at AndreShaktiXXX.com (NSFW). Shout-out to podcast "Two or More to Tango" The post 53: Andre Shakti does Nawlins appeared first on Bliss Bringers.
38 minutes | 3 years ago
52: Parties & Groupies
Rev. Jon and Mrs. Puppy run the dungeon at Tangerine's Dream together where they broaden the spectrum of kink for fans, newbies, and curious onlookers. Mrs. Puppy tries her hand as a top under the expert direction of Rev Jon. They had a busy and fun night working as a team to bring bliss to the line of willing victims. They meet super fans Mr. and Mrs. Chill where they provide Mrs. Chill with a little taste of their brand of kink. They later decide to expand on their experience with a private date. On a date in San Francisco they take the Chills further into their journey of kink. They visit some of Rev. Jon and Mrs. Puppy's favorite places starting with coffee at Wicked Grounds and a nice chat about how Mr. and Mrs. Chill found their way into kink. They then head to the leather shop "Leather Etc" where Rev. Jon, and Mrs. Puppy help Mrs. Chill pick out her very first corset with the support of Mr. Chill. After a fun day of hanging out it was time to get down to some kinky fuckery where the Chills find out exactly what their pleasure is as they experienced kink Bliss Bringers style. The post 52: Parties & Groupies appeared first on Bliss Bringers.
45 minutes | 4 years ago
51: Just Hanging Out
SinD, Reverend Jon, Bill and Alice hang out together in this post-action debrief bedcast. It was Alice's first visit to a BDSM dungeon (we took her to "Dragon's Gate" in Los Angeles), where she got tied up and suspended, and had all sorts of things done to her. We give our updates and review our progress in the lifestyles of BDSM, Swinging and polyamory. Quick note: We are going to "Nawty in New Orleans"! There are a few rooms left, so if you want to party with us and a few thousand of our closest swinger friends, sign up now! The post 51: Just Hanging Out appeared first on Bliss Bringers.
14 minutes | 4 years ago
50: The Puppies visit "The Upper Floor"
Mr. and Mrs. Puppy visit "the armory", the infamous porn-studio that is home of "the upper floor". These are their adventures. The post 50: The Puppies visit "The Upper Floor" appeared first on Bliss Bringers.
54 minutes | 4 years ago
49: Spanking new relationships: The scale from swinging to polyamory
Mister Bill, Jon and SinD first debrief about Fetish and Fantasy event, then about their various polyamorous and swinging relationships. Bill does an inventory of his relationships and reviews how they are similar but different. Jon interviews a brand-new member of the "Dragon's Gate" gang, who at her young age has dived deep into kink and her various turn-ons. Back home, the newly formed poly gang (SinD, Jon, Night owl) debriefs about the changes in their relationship. This episode is a bit different from the usual form, as we give our unfiltered feelings an thoughts on the journey throughout the various forms of non-monogamy. References: Loving without Boundaries podcast The post 49: Spanking new relationships: The scale from swinging to polyamory appeared first on Bliss Bringers.
79 minutes | 4 years ago
48: Puppies and Massages
Exploring polyamory, BDSM and kink in the swinging lifestyle. We catch up with Mr. and Misses Puppy (see previous episodes for background). The first interview is right after a hotel playdate with Mr, Misses Puppy, and L a.k.a. "Mr. Puppy's new toy". In second part, debrief with "Nightowl", the poor massage therapist (and general fun kinky guy) that SinD corrupted. We go over the difference between the different lifestyles: swinging versus polyamory, BDSM communication styles versus those used in the swinging lifestyle. Jon explains and demos some of his secret techniques on air on Misses Puppy. Yes, there was wine consumed during the taping. The post 48: Puppies and Massages appeared first on Bliss Bringers.
48 minutes | 4 years ago
47: Transgender Swinging and Kink
We had an interesting discussion with Lee Harrington, author of an eclectic set of books. His latest is "Traversing Gender", which provides a "newbies guide to other genders", with many references throughout the world and history. It also reviews the differences between all the various terms like "transgender", "transsexual", "trans", "intersex" and a multitude of others. As a transgender person, the realities of "play" in both the swinging or BDSM lifestyles is completely different and very challenging. Lee explains the differences in treatment of transgender folk throughout the years, and his own transition. Other stories: Visiting the San Francisco Power Exchange club, and confusing the bouncer as to what door rate to get Freaking people out by masturbating with a Hitachi. Dealing with rejection The bath-house scene for gay (and other) men How to be an "ally": Skills and information How to approach any play in a "gender-fuzzy" environment Using the "Safer Sex Elevator Speech" in between trans and cis The wide array and types of trans experiences Challenges based on gender, race, class, age and disability From the book blurb: In the current age of gender identity and transgender awareness, many questions are coming to light for everyone. Whether brought about by media and cultural attention or personal journeys, individuals who have never heard of transgender, transsexual, or gender variant people can feel lost or confused. Information can be hard to find, and is often fragmented or biased. Meanwhile, trans people are getting a chance to dialogue with each other and finally be heard by the world at large. In Traversing Gender: Understanding Transgender Realities, author Lee Harrington helps make the intimate discussions of gender available for everyone to understand. Bringing these personal matters into the light of day, this reader-friendly resource is written for students, professionals, friends, and family members, as well as members of the transgender community itself. It is here for you and those in your life, helping create an opportunity for overcoming the challenges trans people face through awareness and action, making the world a better place one life at a time. One may think that in this day and age, the problems of the LGBTQ community are a thing of the past, but when looking outside of our bubble (especially at the recent events in the news), we see that we still have a long way to go. Regardless of what position we pick on the spectrum, we owe it to the community to be informed. The post 47: Transgender Swinging and Kink appeared first on Bliss Bringers.
36 minutes | 5 years ago
46: Bahamas Boat Bedcast
The entire team jumps on the big bed in the Captain's catamaran in the Bahamas. We catch up on what everybody has been doing. We just completed the "Beachbody cruise" with about 6000 well-trained bodies stuck on a boat. Captain is chartering the boat for "AirBB" and kinky travel. (Drop him a line if interested: email@example.com). Villain Jon is coding away on his new super-secret sexy project. SinD is getting swingers into sexy shape. (If you want to be trained by her, send her a mail) The girls agree: the celebrator is the best vibrator you can own (you even hear it in action) If you like a cruise with sexy swingers, we recommend "Couple Cruises". The post 46: Bahamas Boat Bedcast appeared first on Bliss Bringers.
43 minutes | 5 years ago
45: SantaCon and the year in review
We take it down a notch and review the year 2015 and make our plans for 2016, which includes the BeachBody cruise, Naugthy in Nawlins and other fun swinger activities. The team reports in from "SantaCon" San Francisco, where our gang tried to convert some vanillas during the wild "city takeover". First we go shopping in at the BDSM flea-market at the Citadel for new toys, then we take over "Divas", which is a cross-dressers bar, and create havoc and spanking demonstrations. It is amazing how quickly you can get people on state to get their butts spanked and flogged once you give them a few drinks and an excuse. After all that the entire group crashes at the hotel, and we let Mr. Bill run wild again with the recorder. He gets (those who haven't crashed yet) to review their best stories. We also answer a couple of listener e-mails: A listener in Tasmania whats to find places to get their kink on locally. Listing of Fetlife activity in Tasmania Recommend books: BDSM 101 (a good refresher on basic kink), Two Knotty boys (great Shibari bondage techniques) A gay/bi male asks about swinger etiquette and how to prevent others from freaking out when there are body parts all over the bed. We give some practical tips and tie it back to communicating with the other players before swinging times happen. If you are going to try something like a double penetration, some of the guys parts are going to touch sooner or later. It's physics! He also wonders about bringing family members into a swinging party, which is something we have seen happen on rarely: Once a sister-sister combo (For the record: Jon only played with 1 of them) and once somebody bringing their aunt. If you have any questions or comments, send them in and we will answer them on-air! Sponsors: Kasidie: one of the best swingers dating sites Couples Cruises : Swinger holidays like you've never experienced. The post 45: SantaCon and the year in review appeared first on Bliss Bringers.
22 minutes | 5 years ago
44: Bawdy Storytelling and the Folsom Slave
We got an incredible deal for you today, just in time for the holidays! This episode is a double feature: We visited "Bawdy Storytelling" and spoke with the ever unstoppable "Dixie De La Tour" about her concept of erotic storytelling as an art form, changing the community and ... fisting on a first date. As is a yearly ritual, we also hit "Folsom Street Faire", after which we interview "Marcello", who works as a performer on stage an in various videos for Kink.com and others. He talks about the porn industry, being a professional slave and performing in front of an audience. All the images from both event are available in our Kasidie group, since that has proven the best way to keep the kids out. The post 44: Bawdy Storytelling and the Folsom Slave appeared first on Bliss Bringers.
36 minutes | 5 years ago
43: Flogging and Lusting in Las Vegas
Our gang hits "Fetish and Fantasy" again in Las Vegas. There is a lot of spanking and flogging going on stage, as usual. This year, we have some extra complications: A gang of "hashers" takes over the hotel and causes havoc while our gang is trying to recover from their own naughty but exhausting activities Mr. Bill brought along a vanilla friend, who has no idea what is going on. She gets dunked in our pool of debauchery, while we hope she doesn't drown in the craziness. Spoiler: She does fine! We even interview her before and after her experience, which leads to interesting insight into how outsiders view the world of swinging and BDSM, and how the view changes after exposure. The post 43: Flogging and Lusting in Las Vegas appeared first on Bliss Bringers.
38 minutes | 5 years ago
42: Vintage BDSM
For your listening pleasure, we have a bunch of different subjects. Jon and SinD head to Los Angeles again to hang out with Mister Bill. While Jon gets busy with one of his favorite play partners, the rest of the gang talks about the history of BDSM in L.A. This goes all the way back to the early days of "Society of Janus", "Presidium" and Treshold, when it was just a couple of kinky people playing around in a rented X-rated movie studio. We lured the makers of "SportSheets" (we interviewed and tested the product previously) to Dragons gate. We are taking the violet wand to Burning Man to zap people in the dessert! There are plenty of other random discussions, gummy bears and reviews of Jon's performance as a swinger. Bill interviews Ernest Greene (and his wife, Nina Hartley) about his newest book, "Master of O" and they trade anecdotes from way back in time (around when they invented rope). Professor T and Jon review the news: Deliciously Disabled at the Couple's Oasis Ashley Madison hack Addyi Pill, aka "the female Viagra" (not really) Don't forget: Send us your questions! The post 42: Vintage BDSM appeared first on Bliss Bringers.
44 minutes | 5 years ago
41: NiN2015: The kinky single guy at the swingers convention
Villain Jon heads to one of the largest swingers events in the country, to spread the gospel of bondage and kink. We debrief with Brian and Tangerine from Tangerines Dream about the event the parties, the "poker runs", dances and events. Jon talks about the workshops, demonstrations of flogging, electric play in the dungeon and the problems of teaching an entire room of crazy swingers to tie each-other up. His shenanigans were also documented by "We Gotta Thing" and "Swinger Diaries". Check out Bob's interview to find out more about "Naugthy in Nawlins", or sign up now to reserve your spot for the next event! Find Tangerine on twitter as @TangerinesDreamLtd via email as firstname.lastname@example.org (Hit her up about parties in the bay area or workouts!) The post 41: NiN2015: The kinky single guy at the swingers convention appeared first on Bliss Bringers.
42 minutes | 5 years ago
40: Candy's Adventure Time
Jon and SinD do a bedcast debriefing about the visit to a swinger party by "CandY's Adventures". There was a lot going on including surprise foursomes, demos, electricity play and flogging. We are going to Naugthy in Nawlins! Sign up now or miss it! (We interviewed Bob, the organizer previously) Help us by voting for us in the lifestyle awards! Also featured in this episode: The Violent wand The celebrator (a.k.a. "the nina") vibrator Couple's cruises The post 40: Candy's Adventure Time appeared first on Bliss Bringers.
33 minutes | 5 years ago
39: The Hot Tub Time Machine
We got ourselves a few drinks and head for the hot tub, for our every own "bath-cast" (our homage to the Kapers), and debrief about our sexy adventures at the yearly swingers retreat. Some of the stories involve spanking and flogging. During half-time, Mistress SinD puts on her own show, which is not to be missed. In the second part, we interview "the newbies", hosts of "Primal Pleasure Parties" which includes "the art gallery" and "the winery" (as mentioned in Shira & Gavin's swinging adventure) . Sponsors: Kasidie ("Facebook for the sexually social") and Couples Cruises (No kids on this boat!). The post 39: The Hot Tub Time Machine appeared first on Bliss Bringers.
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