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In this episode of Black Fly on the Wall, we dive into the topic of why men hesitate to say "I love you" to each other. Our host sits down with a group of men to discuss their experiences with expressing emotions and how societal expectations play a role in their hesitancy. Throughout the conversation, the group opens up about their relationships with their fathers, their experiences with toxic masculinity, and the fear of rejection and vulnerability that comes with expressing emotions. They also touch on the importance of male friendships and the need for more emotional support for men. Join us as we explore this important topic and gain insights into the challenges men face when it comes to expressing love and emotions to one another. Don't forget to like, comment, and subscribe for more thought-provoking discussions on Black Fly on the Wall. 💠BF MERCHANDISE VISIT: https://blackflyonthewall.com/

In this episode of Mental Wealthness, Powered by Black Fly on the Wall, we sit down with Ohavia Phillips, a media mastermind and expert in personal development and mindset coaching, to discuss the topic of "Overcoming Fear and Basking in Success." Fear can be a significant obstacle on the path to success, and many people struggle with it. Ohavia shares her insights and strategies for overcoming fear and achieving your goals. She offers practical advice on how to shift your mindset and break through the barriers that hold you back. Whether you're an entrepreneur, a student, or anyone who wants to achieve more in life, this episode is full of valuable insights to help you move forward with confidence and clarity. Join us as we dive deep into the topic of fear and success with Ohavia Phillips. 💠BF MERCHANDISE VISIT: https://blackflyonthewall.com/ ➖➖➖➖➖➖➖➖➖➖➖➖➖➖➖➖ If you are new to our channel, we're happy you clicked on our video! Hope you enjoy today's video. Please show your love and support🤝 joining "Black Fly on The Wall Productions" community now by subscribing and press (🔔) to join the Notification Squad and stay updated with new uploads✨ If you have any inquiries or requests feel free to leave them in the comments below. 🔴 𝐘𝐨𝐮𝐓𝐮𝐛𝐞:  : https://www.youtube.com/@blackflyonthewall 👍 Like the video (it helps a ton!) 💬 Comment below to share your opinion! 🔗 Share the video with anyone you think might help :)

Hi Guys, Welcome to another episode of Black Fly on the Wall, where we bring you unfiltered and insightful conversations that take place behind closed doors. In this episode, we tackle the question: "What do you bring to the table?" Feat: Jeskell Creecy https://instagram.com/sitwithskell?igshid=NzAzN2Q1NTE= Lexus Wilson https://instagram.com/lexuswilsontv?igshid=NzAzN2Q1NTE= KaShay Evans https://instagram.com/everydaykashay?igshid=NzAzN2Q1NTE= Yolanda Tate https://instagram.com/yozzieyo?igshid=NzAzN2Q1NTE=   0:00  intro and 712 Ad 1:00 Host and Guest introductions  3:09 What do you bring to the table and why is it a controversial question?  6:10  bringing the correct mindset is important.  7:49  What am I bringing vs. What do I want 8:19 Reframing the question.  9:32 Dont force connections because of longevity  10:45 What do you personally bring to The table (Yolanda Tate )  12:37 What do you personally bring to The table (Lexus Wilson)  14:07 What do you personally bring to The table (KaShay Evans )  15:12 What do you personally bring to The table (Jeskell Creecy)  16:24 How important is it for woman to collaborate with each other? 22:39  712 Vodka Ad  23:15  How did you handle negative experiences with collaboration? 26:41 How important is it for men to have women on their team?  34:30 There is power in the tongue.  38:21 Is there a woman that you look up to and why?  42:44 Toast and closing remarks 💠BF MERCHANDISE VISIT: https://blackflyonthewall.com/ ➖➖➖➖➖➖➖➖➖➖➖➖➖➖➖➖ If you are new to our channel, we're happy you clicked on our video! Hope you enjoy today's video. Please show your love and support🤝 joining "Black Fly on The Wall Productions" community now by subscribing and press (🔔) to join the Notification Squad and stay updated with new uploads✨ If you have any inquiries or requests feel free to leave them in the comments below. 🔴 𝐘𝐨𝐮𝐓𝐮𝐛𝐞:  : https://www.youtube.com/@blackflyonthewall 👍 Like the video (it helps a ton!) 💬 Comment below to share your opinion! 🔗 Share the video with anyone you think might help :)

'Great Day! Welcome Back To a new season of MENTAL WEALTHNESS powered by Black Fly on the Wall S2, Ep 2: Full Time Entrepreneur feat Tim Webb IG: @leethegoat  Website: Morethana9to5.com Looking to take your entrepreneurial journey to the next level? In this video, we sit down with real estate mogul Timothy Webb, who went from a 9-to-5 job to becoming a full-time entrepreneur in the real estate industry. Timothy shares his inspiring story of how he overcame challenges and obstacles to achieve success in his entrepreneurial journey. From the importance of mindset and perseverance to the strategies he used to grow his business, Timothy provides valuable insights for anyone looking to start or scale their own venture. Through his own experiences, Timothy has learned the power of taking calculated risks, building strong relationships, and creating systems to streamline his business operations. He also shares his thoughts on the future of the real estate industry and how he stays ahead of the curve. Whether you're a seasoned entrepreneur or just starting out, this interview with Timothy Webb is packed with actionable tips and advice to help you achieve your goals and reach your full potential as a full-time entrepreneur. Don't miss out on this opportunity to learn from one of the most successful real estate moguls in the game! 00:00 Intro  00:41 Who is Timothy Webb?  1:47 I left Corporate America  3:40 Buy Real Estate Cheap  4:44 “Buy Real Estate Right”  5:42 The Ugliest House on the Block  7:31 The Everyday Millionaire  8:49 Quantum Leaps / You Squared  10:27 This is why I love Airbnb  13:30 Don’t Do The Minimum  14:32 100k in Airbnb in 1 Year  15:12 Buy Your Freedom 15:40 Peace & Purpose  17:19 We are what we think, feel, and say  18:35 How Do You Define Success?  20:50 Outro 💠BF MERCHANDISE VISIT: https://blackflyonthewall.com/ ➖➖➖➖➖➖➖➖➖➖➖➖➖➖➖➖ If you are new to our channel, we're happy you clicked on our video! Hope you enjoy today's video. Please show your love and support🤝 joining "Black Fly on The Wall Productions" community now by subscribing and press (🔔) to join the Notification Squad and stay updated with new uploads✨ If you have any inquiries or requests feel free to leave them in the comments below. 🔴 𝐘𝐨𝐮𝐓𝐮𝐛𝐞:  : https://www.youtube.com/@blackflyonthewall 👍 Like the video (it helps a ton!) 💬 Comment below to share your opinion! 🔗 Share the video with anyone you think might help :) ➖➖➖➖➖➖➖➖➖➖➖➖➖➖➖➖ 🎬SUGGESTED EPISODES ▶️ Ep 70: How Should Men Grieve? ✅ https://youtu.be/hhkQ0hz18e4 ▶️ Ep 69: Black Faith & HIV ✅ https://youtu.be/8_uvf9fohIE ▶️ YOU WERE BORN RICH feat Ash Cash | Mental Wealthness - S2: EP1 ✅ https://youtu.be/G4S4MiAalzY ▶️ Ep 66: Choosing the Soft Life ✅ https://youtu.be/X4f7IXY7978 ➖➖➖➖➖➖➖➖➖➖➖➖➖➖➖➖ Stay Connected :  🔵 𝐅𝐚𝐜𝐞𝐛𝐨𝐨𝐤:  📲 𝐈𝐧𝐬𝐭𝐚𝐠𝐫𝐚𝐦 👉 https://www.instagram.com/blackflyonthewall/ 🌐 𝗪𝐞𝐛𝐬𝐢𝐭𝐞: https://blackflyonthewall.com/ ✉ 𝐄𝐦𝐚𝐢𝐥: Aaron@blackflyonthewall.com

In this episode, we sit down with Dreamville rapper Lute to discuss a topic that is often overlooked in the pursuit of success: the fear of success itself. Lute opens up about his personal experiences with this fear and how he overcame it to achieve his dreams. He shares the challenges he faced along the way and offers advice to anyone who may be struggling with similar fears. This candid conversation is a must-watch for anyone who wants to understand the emotional and psychological aspects of success and how to overcome the fear that can hold you back. Tune in to hear from one of the most talented rappers in the game and get inspired to conquer your own fears and achieve your goals. #Dreamville #Lute Feat: Lute- https://instagram.com/lute_west9?igshid=NzAzN2Q1NTE= Lide- https://instagram.com/lidejr?igshid=NzAzN2Q1NTE= Sam- https://instagram.com/masteringtheman?igshid=NzAzN2Q1NTE= Pierre- https://instagram.com/pierrebless?igshid=NzAzN2Q1NTE= 💠BF MERCHANDISE VISIT: https://blackflyonthewall.com/ ➖➖➖➖➖➖➖➖➖➖➖➖➖➖➖➖ If you are new to our channel, we're happy you clicked on our video! Hope you enjoy today's video. Please show your love and support🤝 joining "Black Fly on The Wall Productions" community now by subscribing and press (🔔) to join the Notification Squad and stay updated with new uploads✨ If you have any inquiries or requests feel free to leave them in the comments below. 🔴 𝐘𝐨𝐮𝐓𝐮𝐛𝐞: : https://www.youtube.com/@blackflyonthewall 👍 Like the video (it helps a ton!) 💬 Comment below to share your opinion! 🔗 Share the video with anyone you think might help :) ➖➖➖➖➖➖➖➖➖➖➖➖➖➖➖➖ 🎬SUGGESTED EPISODES ▶️ Ep 70: How Should Men Grieve? ✅ https://youtu.be/hhkQ0hz18e4 ▶️ Ep 69: Black Faith & HIV ✅ https://youtu.be/8_uvf9fohIE ▶️ YOU WERE BORN RICH feat Ash Cash | Mental Wealthness - S2: EP1 ✅ https://youtu.be/G4S4MiAalzY ▶️ Ep 66: Choosing the Soft Life ✅ https://youtu.be/X4f7IXY7978 ➖➖➖➖➖➖➖➖➖➖➖➖➖➖➖➖ Stay Connected : 📲 𝐈𝐧𝐬𝐭𝐚𝐠𝐫𝐚𝐦 👉 https://www.instagram.com/blackflyonthewall/ ✉ 𝐄𝐦𝐚𝐢𝐥: Aaron@blackflyonthewall.com Sponsor: 712 Vodka 712 (SEVENTWELVE Vodka) will elevate the experience of all vodka drinkers worldwide, one sip at a time. Made with Blue Ridge Mountain water, this sophisticated, super-premium, corn-based vodka is designed to be celebrated with friends and colleagues as you accomplish all your goals in this journey we call Life! ‍ 712 Vodka is distilled from 100% grain using water from the Pisgah National Forest. The water is then run through ultraviolet light, followed by reverse osmosis. Less than 2 ppm of any mineral content remains after this process. The alcohol is then proofed down using this ultra pure water. The final taste and mouthfeel are achieved by way of a proprietary blending recipe specifically developed for 712 Vodka. 🌐 𝗪𝐞𝐛𝐬𝐢𝐭𝐞: https://www.seventwelvevodka.com 📲𝐈𝐧𝐬𝐭𝐚𝐠𝐫𝐚𝐦 :https://instagram.com/712vodka?igshid=YmMyMTA2M2Y= Sponsor: Pure Soul Vegan Restaurant About : Our goal is to create a vegan fast-food experience that offers kindness and cleanliness in creating savory soul food! We hope people take away feelings of communion and belonging, as well as support in their journeys with food. No matter the dietary restriction or perception of life, we welcome everyone we meet at Pure Soul to experience what we call kind comfort food. 🌐 𝗪𝐞𝐛𝐬𝐢𝐭𝐞: https://puresoulff.com 📲𝐈𝐧𝐬𝐭𝐚𝐠𝐫𝐚𝐦: https://instagram.com/puresoulff?igshid=YmMyMTA2M2Y=

How Should Men Grieve? 

Hi Guys, Welcome Back To Another Video "Ep 69: Black Faith & HIV | Black Fly on the Wall Podcast" 💠BF MERCHANDISE VISIT: https://blackflyonthewall.com/ ➖➖➖➖➖➖➖➖➖➖➖➖➖➖➖➖ If you are new to our channel, we're happy you clicked on our video! Hope you enjoy today's video. Please show your love💓 and support🤝 joining "Black Fly on The Wall Productions" community now by subscribing and press (🔔) to join the Notification Squad and stay updated with new uploads✨ If you have any inquiries or requests feel free to leave them in the comments below. 🔴 𝐘𝐨𝐮𝐓𝐮𝐛𝐞:  : https://www.youtube.com/@blackflyonthewall 👍 Like the video (it helps a ton!) 💬 Comment below to share your opinion! 🔗 Share the video with anyone you think might help :) ➖➖➖➖➖➖➖➖➖➖➖➖➖➖➖➖ 🎬SUGGESTED EPISODES ▶️ Ep 61: Compromises Within Relationships ✅https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=yvtagndI58I ▶️Ep 62: Is Our Culture Worth Saving? ✅ https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=SB9nXA6S-UE ▶️ Ep 64: Misconceptions of a High Value Man ✅ https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=yeiiIwhJJIc ▶️ Ep 60: Divine Femininity ✅ https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=S4tJ2t5qFaQ ▶️ Ep 59: Dating in Your 20’s vs 30’s ✅ https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=dpXHVxz0S2w ➖➖➖➖➖➖➖➖➖➖➖➖➖➖➖➖ Stay Connected :  🔵 𝐅𝐚𝐜𝐞𝐛𝐨𝐨𝐤:  📲 𝐈𝐧𝐬𝐭𝐚𝐠𝐫𝐚𝐦 👉 https://www.instagram.com/blackflyonthewall/ 🌐 𝗪𝐞𝐛𝐬𝐢𝐭𝐞: https://blackflyonthewall.com/ ✉ 𝐄𝐦𝐚𝐢𝐥: Aaron@blackflyonthewall.com 📞 𝐏𝐡𝐨𝐧𝐞:  Sponsor: Black Faith & HIV  Since 2021, the WFU Faith Coordinating Center has funded 85 local and national organizations committed to engaging faith leaders and their respective communities about HIV stigma to advance efforts to end the HIV epidemic, especially among the most vulnerable populations. The FCC has hosted capacity building workshops that engage an average of 50 attendees per session; used the art of storytelling and social marketing to develop online materials that educate the public (average 1000 views per social media post) and challenge traditional notions about love and acceptance of people living with HIV and LGBTQ groups in religious institutions. Additionally, the FCC has established partnerships with the Gilead Sciences Office of Governmental Affairs to engage rural areas; The Links, Incorporated to educate African American/Black women and faith communities about HIV; and the Inter-CFAR Faith and Spirituality Working Group, which is a national collaborative of community-academic partnerships with Centers for AIDS Research focused on research about HIV and faith. FCC has received funding from Gilead Sciences to create a searchable, online database of faith based organizations and leaders across the United States that are committed to addressing HIV-related stigma 🌐 𝗪𝐞𝐛𝐬𝐢𝐭𝐞:  https://blackfaith.org

Hi Guys, Welcome Back To Another Video "Ep 68: The Laws We Live By | Black Fly on the Wall Podcast" 💠BF MERCHANDISE VISIT: https://blackflyonthewall.com/ ➖➖➖➖➖➖➖➖➖➖➖➖➖➖➖➖ If you are new to our channel, we're happy you clicked on our video! Hope you enjoy today's video. Please show your love💓 and support🤝 joining "Black Fly on The Wall Productions" community now by subscribing and press (🔔) to join the Notification Squad and stay updated with new uploads✨ If you have any inquiries or requests feel free to leave them in the comments below. 🔴 𝐘𝐨𝐮𝐓𝐮𝐛𝐞:  : https://www.youtube.com/@blackflyonthewall 👍 Like the video (it helps a ton!) 💬 Comment below to share your opinion! 🔗 Share the video with anyone you think might help :) ➖➖➖➖➖➖➖➖➖➖➖➖➖➖➖➖ 🎬SUGGESTED EPISODES ▶️ Ep 61: Compromises Within Relationships ✅https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=yvtagndI58I ▶️Ep 62: Is Our Culture Worth Saving? ✅ https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=SB9nXA6S-UE ▶️ Ep 64: Misconceptions of a High Value Man ✅ https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=yeiiIwhJJIc ▶️ Ep 60: Divine Femininity ✅ https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=S4tJ2t5qFaQ ▶️ Ep 59: Dating in Your 20’s vs 30’s ✅ https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=dpXHVxz0S2w ➖➖➖➖➖➖➖➖➖➖➖➖➖➖➖➖ Stay Connected :  🔵 𝐅𝐚𝐜𝐞𝐛𝐨𝐨𝐤:  📲 𝐈𝐧𝐬𝐭𝐚𝐠𝐫𝐚𝐦 👉 https://www.instagram.com/blackflyonthewall/ 🌐 𝗪𝐞𝐛𝐬𝐢𝐭𝐞: https://blackflyonthewall.com/ ✉ 𝐄𝐦𝐚𝐢𝐥: Aaron@blackflyonthewall.com 📞 𝐏𝐡𝐨𝐧𝐞:  Sponsor: 712 Vodka 712 (SEVENTWELVE Vodka) will elevate the experience of all vodka drinkers worldwide, one sip at a time. Made with Blue Ridge Mountain water, this sophisticated, super-premium, corn-based vodka is designed to be celebrated with friends and colleagues as you accomplish all your goals in this journey we call Life! ‍ 712 Vodka is distilled from 100% grain using water from the Pisgah National Forest. The water is then run through ultraviolet light, followed by reverse osmosis. Less than 2 ppm of any mineral content remains after this process. The alcohol is then proofed down using this ultra pure water. The final taste and mouthfeel are achieved by way of a proprietary blending recipe specifically developed for 712 Vodka. 🌐 𝗪𝐞𝐛𝐬𝐢𝐭𝐞:  https://www.seventwelvevodka.com 📲𝐈𝐧𝐬𝐭𝐚𝐠𝐫𝐚𝐦 :https://instagram.com/712vodka?igshid=YmMyMTA2M2Y= Sponsor: Aqui Tu  Established on the Fourteenth of January 2021, the dedicated team of professionals at Aqui Tu have been working to supply our customers with the very best standard of hydration in our products and services. You can count on us to deliver your order promptly with no hassles and at a fair and competitive price. Contact us to learn more about what we do. 🌐 𝗪𝐞𝐛𝐬𝐢𝐭𝐞: https://www.aquitu.com/ 📲𝐈𝐧𝐬𝐭𝐚𝐠𝐫𝐚𝐦: https://instagram.com/aquitu_h2o?igshid=YmMyMTA2M2Y=

Featuring: Aaron Lide Jr, Tim Webb, Nelly P and Sam Archer #Traumas #Triggered #BlackFlyontheWall  Sponsors: Aqui Tu Water - Established on the Fourteenth of January 2021, the dedicated team of professionals at Aqui Tu have been working to supply our customers with the very best standard of hydration in our products and services. You can count on us to deliver your order promptly with no hassles and at a fair and competitive price. Contact us to learn more about what we do. Website: https://www.aquitu.com/ Instagram: https://instagram.com/aquitu_h2o?igshid=YmMyMTA2M2Y= Pure Soul Vegan Restaurant- Our goal is to create a vegan fast-food experience that offers kindness and cleanliness in creating savory soul food! We hope people take away feelings of communion and belonging, as well as support in their journeys with food. No matter the dietary restriction or perception of life, we welcome everyone we meet at Pure Soul to experience what we call kind comfort food. We offer dine-in (indoor & patio seating), takeout, third-party delivery, and catering. All food and beverages prepared by Pure Soul are packaged in 100% compostable to-go containers, along with compostable utensils and napkins. We compost all food scraps and appropriate packaging & waste through Compost Now. We have compost bins on-site for customer use--we kindly ask our customers to consider helping us reduce our contribution to landfills. We are also proud to announce our partnership with Duke Athletics! A vegan diet helps build strength and maintain physical and mental wellbeing. Through our partnership, we aim to provide some of Durham's best athletes with vegan meals that are cleaner for both the body and the environment, and cruelty-free at the same time (not to mention delicious!). Website: https://puresoulff.com/about-us Instagram: https://instagram.com/puresoulff?igshid=YmMyMTA2M2Y= Episode: In this episode, we explore emotional triggers. In everyday life, some amount of distress or pain is normal. Everyone feels fear, sadness, anger, and other negative emotions. But for most people,     these emotions have logical and proportionate causes. When these feelings seem to come from nowhere or be stronger than their cause warrants, it may be due to an emotional trigger. Let's discuss our definitions of emotional triggers, our experiences with triggers, and the personal techniques we use to manage these emotions.

Sponsor: 712 Vodka 712 (SEVENTWELVE Vodka) will elevate the experience of all vodka drinkers worldwide, one sip at a time. Made with Blue Ridge Mountain water, this sophisticated, super-premium, corn-based vodka is designed to be celebrated with friends and colleagues as you accomplish all your goals in this journey we call Life! ‍ 712 Vodka is distilled from 100% grain using water from the Pisgah National Forest. The water is then run through ultraviolet light, followed by reverse osmosis. Less than 2 ppm of any mineral content remains after this process. The alcohol is then proofed down using this ultra pure water. The final taste and mouthfeel are achieved by way of a proprietary blending recipe specifically developed for 712 Vodka. https://www.seventwelvevodka.com https://instagram.com/712vodka?igshid=YmMyMTA2M2Y= Sponsor: Aqui Tu  Established on the Fourteenth of January 2021, the dedicated team of professionals at Aqui Tu have been working to supply our customers with the very best standard of hydration in our products and services. You can count on us to deliver your order promptly with no hassles and at a fair and competitive price. Contact us to learn more about what we do. Website: https://www.aquitu.com/ Instagram: https://instagram.com/aquitu_h2o?igshid=YmMyMTA2M2Y= Feat: Jeskel Creecy, Adrienne Boone-Campbell. Kiara Hargrave, and Nelly P The soft life is actively choosing to be your most authentic and vulnerable self. The soft life is intentionally asking for assistance and then allowing those people to help you. The soft life is choosing peace over control. Love over hate. And prioritizing the desires of self over the desires that the world has for you. #SoftLife #relationships #blackflyonthewall

Featuring: Aaron Lide Jr, Sam Archer, Poobie Chapman, Jeremy Davis Sponsor: Pure Soul Vegan Restaurant  Website: https://puresoulff.com/about-us Instagram: https://instagram.com/puresoulff?igshid=YmMyMTA2M2Y= About: Our goal is to create a vegan fast-food experience that offers kindness and cleanliness in creating savory soul food! We hope people take away feelings of communion and belonging, as well as support in their journeys with food. No matter the dietary restriction or perception of life, we welcome everyone we meet at Pure Soul to experience what we call kind comfort food. We offer dine-in (indoor & patio seating), takeout, third-party delivery, and catering. All food and beverages prepared by Pure Soul are packaged in 100% compostable to-go containers, along with compostable utensils and napkins. We compost all food scraps and appropriate packaging & waste through Compost Now. We have compost bins on-site for customer use--we kindly ask our customers to consider helping us reduce our contribution to landfills. We are also proud to announce our partnership with Duke Athletics! A vegan diet helps build strength and maintain physical and mental wellbeing. Through our partnership, we aim to provide some of Durham's best athletes with vegan meals that are cleaner for both the body and the environment, and cruelty-free at the same time (not to mention delicious!). 00:00 - Start  0:13 - Pure soul spotlight 7:03 - Write the vision and make it plain (importance of journaling ) 13:56 - Purpose or Vision? 18:51 - Is it hard to embrace the journey 24:38 - Identifying purpose and goal setting Episode: “If you’re not growing, you’re dying”. We all seek fulfillment and the gratification when achieving goals. But how often do we tap into our Purpose. That thing that is hard to define but easy to visualize. We often have the conceptualization of purpose but its likely a journey and not a destination. Defining our purpose to critical to existence. Achieving goals may not help you find the purpose of life, but knowing your purpose can help you  achieve your goals. When you truly know your purpose, you’ll experience a sense of clarity like never before as you’re able to connect what you want to achieve to your ultimate fulfillment. You’ll feel passionate, driven and laser-focused. You’ll stop battling with the past and the future and start living in the present – and that’s the greatest gift you can give yourself.

Guests: J “Slim” Robertson: https://instagram.com/theslimcreative?igshid=YmMyMTA2M2Y= Davril Massey: https://instagram.com/davrilt_?igshid=YmMyMTA2M2Y= How do we define high value, as men? Do the myths of how one defines himself and values beneficial or detrimental? What role does ego play in this definition? These are all questions all men must ask. There is also an undertone of the things one may value over the other. Also, let's discuss the intangibles that men must possess. Whether it's work ethic, kindness, or being a positive human being. Let's talk about value and how one may utilize it in their life.  #highvalueman #blackculture #blackflyonthewall

Featuring: Essence Sylvia Smith, Jeskell Creecy & Taylor Calamese Producer & Host: Aaron Lide Jr  Gaslighting is to manipulate (someone) by psychological means into questioning their sanity. Experiences of gaslighting happen on a broad spectrum. Whether it's minimal or extreme, the consistency of gaslighting plays a huge role in how one views mental health, confidence, or relationship well-being. In this episode, we will explore the phenomenon of Gaslighting. Not only from the victim perspective, but also from the antagonist. Have you ever advertently or inadvertently gaslit someone? Lets provide a structured, transparent and honest conversation. Gaslighting is a technique that undermines a person's perception of reality. When someone is gaslighting you, you may second-guess yourself, your memories, recent events, and your perceptions. After communicating with the person gaslighting you, you may be left feeling dazed and wondering if there is something wrong with you. You may be encouraged to think you are actually to blame for something or that you're just being too sensitive

Our culture dates back over 200,000 years. In our culture we have achieved great feats, but also have suffered great losses at the hands of those who look like us. Lets discuss “Black on Black Crime” and if this phrase is applicable to us. Lets also discuss the negative impacts of rap amongst children and adolescence. Low vibration frequencies and the impact on the psyche. Lets also discuss the positives of Hip Hop and how it gave our culture a purpose in the fields of art and liberation. Is our culture worth saving? we must ask ourselves this daily. As this decision has an impact on our actions and interactions with the community. What role can we take to answer these questions with intention and knowledge? The goal is to discuss Black Wall Street in Tulsa Oklahoma and consequences of Rap Beef. Lets discuss our culture.

Feat: Jiaani, Sam Archer J “Slim” Robertson Compromising is an act of being humble. Understanding when to fight and when to yield. Placing the cohorts goals before your individuals wants and wishes. In this episode we discuss the suppression of the ego in order to achieve a common goal within relationships. This conversation is  lateral, as we can discuss compromises in not only intimate relationships but also with family, friends and business partners. All healthy relationships breeds compromise. Compromise is the settlement of differences by mutual concession. Compromise doesn't mean you completely agree with your partner or vice versa—it's healthy to maintain your personal values, beliefs, opinions, and preferences while still meeting halfway. But it takes two, to meet halfway. #relationships #advice #podcast

Divine feminine and divine masculine can't exist without the other. This means that despite our cultural associations of masculine and feminine with men and women, respectively, we all have both energies within us. They just might not be evenly balanced. Excessive masculinity, and we get aggression and domination. Too much feminine, and we get disempowerment and stagnation. The energy of the feminine embodies the nurturer, the healer, and the compassionate peacemaker, while the masculine energy is focused on doing and achieving.   Some qualities of the divine feminine:  Intuitive  Heart-centered  Compassionate  Wise  Accepting  Forgiving  Collaborative  Reflective  Creative  Sensual  Kind  Gentle  9 Ways to connect to your Divine Feminine   Reclaim Rest Embrace your Sensuality Journal Practice Self Love Get in touch with your dreams Incorporate more Yin in your space (lighting, color, and textures that support comfort) Prioritize “me time” Tap into your intuition Think before you act  Please Like. Share. Subscribe.   website: https://blackflyonthewall.com​  Black Fly on the Wall Instagram:  @blackflyonthewall  https://instagram.com/blackflyonthewall?utm_medium=copy_link #DivineFemininity #podcast #SacredWomen

Dating in your 20’s vs 30’s. Have you known a difference? Often times, we look back and say, “wow, I cant believe I did that” or “I was trippen when I said that”. Age and time often breeds maturity. This mature conversation discusses the pros and cons of dating in our 20’s vs 30’s. #dating #datingadvice #podcasts

Generating Generational Wealth. Lets discuss generational wealth within the black community. We also highlight resources, books and plans to move forward in establishing generational wealth. #generationalwealth #financialfreedom #finance

#marriage #marriageadvice #podcasts   Please Like. Share. Subscribe.   website: https://blackflyonthewall.com​  Black Fly on the Wall Instagram:  @blackflyonthewall  https://instagram.com/blackflyonthewall?utm_medium=copy_link #marriage #marriageadvice #podcasts

During our first live show event on 2-12-22 in Durham, NC at Living Room Bar and Lounge we discussed an interesting topic.   Why do men ghost women? A question that is asked quite often with an answer worth millions. The answer is quite simple yet so complex. The Black Fly on the Wall crew discusses ghosting, accountability, leaving a relationship the same way you come, self-respect, and assessing traumas.  Feat:  Indi Felder  Pierre Bless  Dr. Duke Okeke  Aaron Lide Jr  #Ghosting #Podcast #RelationshipAdvice