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You can always depend on us to inform you on the latest pop culture/dating terminology. We had the Latin Prince in the studio to discuss the difference between a "Daddy and a Zaddy" Boy o Boy is this a treat. Jamie thinks she's going to make Jerome's real Dad into her "Zaddy" Jerome may or may not have had a recent "Daddy". Apparently Seattle is the number one town for Daddies. Soooo looks like we know where we are headed to get ourselves literally a 50 Shades of Grey guy!!!! As always...Thanks for subscribing, tuning in, reviews and being great ExFiles xoxox

We've all had the question asked.."Why are you single?" It's such an interesting question to ask. There's never just one specific answer. How would you answer this. We had a special guest in the studio all the way from Las Vegas. We've talked about him before and call him "Fancy Dancy" He brings a different and sweeter touch to the show. We find out if dating in Vegas is easy or more difficult to find something REAL. As always Jamie and Jerome have their own spin on the topic and bring in their flavor or reality show gossip and news. To find out more about our guest check out lukedancy.com As always we love our ExFiles opinions so subscribe to us and leave us your reviews on iTunes. xoxox

We get personal with our guest and his opinion on how he and Jerome had a moment of being FRENEMIES. They worked on the friendship and figured out it was just one another judging without getting to know each other. This leads into our new philosophy of stop Social Shaming! KimYe vs Tay Tay! Who's side are you on? We give our thoughts on how everything went down. All of us agree that Kim was just standing by her man. Tune in...Subscribe...Leave Reviews and continue to be amazing ExFiles

We have the King Of Laredo in the studio. He tells us his story of when he had a breakup in a small town. FInd out what happens in small towns when you get out of a relationship. Jerome had an attempted threesome with a twink. Found out the scoop! No one in the studio could figure out how you can date if you had a child. As always...Thanks to all of our ExFiles for listening! xoxoxo

On this episode we discuss living together prior to the ultimate commitment. Marriage. Does this cause relationships to end more so than not? Our guest Laura gives us her advice on the topic as she lived with someone for four years. Find out what happened in her relationship and see if you have second thoughts on the issue. We also dive into more serious topics related to all the shootings happening in the US. It's awful. Our thoughts and prayers go out to everyone who lost their lives due to senseless behavior, and to all the families etc... In other news Jerome forgets he Mexican, and we go into Jamie's recent bikini post on instagram. You don't want to miss! Tune in..Subscribe...and give us a like... Thanks EXFiles for your awesome vibes! xoxox

We get into the topic of Ghosting. This seems to be more and more popular. When you want to leave someone alone in the dating world you just go "Ghost" Your two host discuss their versions of Ghosting and if it's ever happened to them or whether or not they are Ghosters. Our guest this week has one of the best names by far. Sloane Ivy is on the show and she believes self care is the most important thing to have prior to getting into a relationship. "Honor your feelings in the moment" You can find Sloane on YouTube under Conversations with Sloane Ivy. She's amazing and inspiring so be sure to find her! xoxoxox to all our ExFiles!

Let's face it....In today's world it's too easy to have a little more fun when it comes to technology and sex. It can become an issue after you end a relationship if you've recorded your sexy times with your partner. So the question is...who keeps the evidence? Does it get deleted? Can you ask you ex for it back? One of your host went old school and has a VHS Tape. The stories go on and on. As much fun as we had on this show we also want to dedicate this to everyone in pain with the Orlando shootings. Our hearts go out to all the families, friends, and humanity. Listen, Laugh, Enjoy, xoxox

We dive in deep into commitment in today's world. When people think of this word it automatically becomes a negative. There's so many options these days that people actually fear being in committed relationships. We talk about practice just BEING. Be happy with YOU, then you can be in something that makes you light up. We have a great guest on the show. CJ gives us his advice and even questions us. CJ is every straight gals dream man. Jerome has a few issues with Mariah Carey...Find out why. It must be his eyebrows. The darker the brow the more aggressive he gets. Find out our opinions on the future of commitment xoxoxo

Your host are back from vacation and had some great Memorial Day stories. Jamie and Jerome are more innocent than you think. We go from D-Gazing, to Blac Chyna and Rob Kardashian, Jerome having moobs as a child, Titty Tune Ups and plenty more. Our guest Meredith broke Jamie's ex boyfriend heart, and she is the #1 HBIC when it comes to Tinder dating. Her stories are incredible. This is an episode you don't want to miss. Plenty of laughs for sure. Thanks to all our ExFiles for subscribing! xoxo

We've all been there at some point in our lives... We breakdown our version of what a Fuckbuddy and what a Fuckboy is. We share some of our past stories and then some. We also have our first Blonde Bombshell on the show named Colby who apparently isn't a big fan of Britney Spears. Jamie and Jerome were NOT having that AT ALL! We also dive into our guest and being a serial monogamist. This episode will keep you laughing and we take you to different places you may not have explored yet. Thanks to all our sweet ExFiles for listening! Don't forget to subscribe.

Our sexy yoga guest shares her story on how re-dating an ex actually worked. Lost love became her future. In this case taking time to be single and apart helped them grow to who they are today to maintain a healthier growing relationship. We also get to hear Jerome's version of a productive day which includes trips to Sephora. One of Jamie's ex's trying to randomly come back in her life however he's been in jail!!!! What??? We discuss Megan Trainor and her getting compliments at the club, and find out what's the key to Jerome's heart (Lucky Charms). Such a great episode that makes you want to fall in love all over again with the RIGHT person. As always thanks to all our ExFiles for listening and be sure to subscribe and follow us. xoxox

This is one of our more serious episodes as we get more personal with our lives. Your host Jamie shares a recent story of someone who she loves dearly trying to come in her life. However the relationship became toxic. Which leads into other conversations of how do you handle toxic relationships? Remember to set appropriate boundaries. You can't move forward when you keep holding on to the past. Jerome gets deep into some personal family stories that hits hard. He lets us know how he's handled a toxic relationship and what steps he took. Our guest Alison grew up in a toxic household and shares her story. To all of our ExFiles- Always remember...Know your worth and NEVER let anyone take that away from you. xoxox

This episode we dissected Beyonce's latest hit video album series Lemonade. The main focus we wanted to touch on was a line "My torturer became my remedy" That's a big statement. We spin off her emotions and let you know how we've handled things like this in the past. Our guest Ana is currently going through a long term breakup. Find out what her ex did. It's JUICY. She also let us know that there were periods of times where her and her ex would have intense moments of jealousy with one another. We give her the some tips on how to handle her recent breakup and Jerome is excited to have her back in the land of single. In case there are some huge Spice Girls fans out there we also randomly get into that. Spice up your life and Tune in! Great episode you don't want to miss out on. If you love hearing us be sure to leave us a review. We appreciate all our ExFiles for tuning in every week! Gracias y Besos

This was an unexpected topic on this episode as Prince passed away. We still can't believe it. Such a sweet soul who had much impact in the world. Fortunately your host was able to see him live. We also dive into how men handle heartbreak and for people to stop putting men to shame for having deeper emotions. We had a wonderful Entrepreneur Greg on the show who owns Party Machines. He spoke about how it took him over a year to get over a tough breakup. Tune in to hear our thoughts and discussion.

This episode will make you laugh, cringe, cry, relate, and laugh again all at the same time. Your host Jamie shares one of her recent DM's (direct messages) from a guy and this one could win a Nobel Peace Prize for his creative Fabio novel. Jerome says no more MCM's or WCW's. Wait until you hear the new hashtag he came up with for Fridays! Our guest Marsherrie is the owner of Belle Noir Extensions so we were really excited to have her on. She gave us her input with DM's on "The Gram", her friendship breakup story and much much more... This is one episode you will want to listen to a few times.

We got to chat with Jackson and his views on how he handles letting friends know he's not a fan of their partners. Is this ever a good thing? Can it ruin a friendship? Jackson keeps is real with Co-Host Jerome. We also find out how Jerome walks around his place in Tee shirts and Panties. Tune in. (This episode was ended abruptly due to technical difficulties. We will make it up to all of our ExFiles)

We have the HBIC's of Laredo in the building. Boy oh boy did they give us a full story on how one of them recently was cheated on. We find out if its a good thing to inform your family on all the deets? Your host Jamie gives you a few rules on how to become boyfriend status with her. Also tune in for fun opinions on male grooming.

St. Patricks Day!!! We were lucky to have two performing SXSW artist live on the show. Kenny Duet and EkWhoa. It's one thing to talk about their music but even better to ask them about Male Birth Control and their last breakups. The ended up making a song about vaginas. Kenny last relationship ended because his ex girlfriend laughed in the morning. You have to tune in to hear this! Find out Jerome's meaning of when he uses a Ghost Emoji. Also you'll get to hear about how your Host Jamie lost her virginity. Super funny show. Apologies for the sound glitch the first 15 min of the show. It will go away.

Co-host Jerome bumped into Jax Taylor from Vanderpump Rules and gave us the juicy scoop! March 14th is also known as Mens Valentines Day. That also means Steaks for BJs, so fellas listen up! We had our first female guest Jordan on the show and she tells her story on breaking someones heart via text. Tune in as it's one of the funniest shows yet!

Our Filmmaker guest Wright gave us his opinion on open relationships. He shares how things went wrong after dating a hot Russian secretary. Jamie and Jerome give their guest key advice such as summertime breakups. DUH! And both host have never had a guy as them out on a date. Tune in to find out more.