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Your girl just needs a second to vent and let it all out...cuz Lordt!

Self explanatory. But as a person who has had multiple businesses I understand what it means to have friends just watch you from the sideline and not cheer you on until you blow up. So here's advice for those who don't know what to do and won't cost you anything. 

The world can put us against each other or unite us, but its society that tends to play a big role on how we view each other. 

As a born and bred New Yorker, some of you new folk don't seem to know some of the basic principles of riding the train. So here is a little tidbit to help y'all out.

I have always been attracted to different types of people, so I know what it is to date outside of my race. But its more than that, you have to think about your future with said person. One thing I have definitely learned about my dating outside of my race..

As of July 15, this girl is officially in her mid 30's, 34 to be exact. Less than a month in and I am learning quite a bit about myself and trying not to be too hard about it. What are you learning at your age about yourself and those around you?

Today we tend to always look at other people and what they are doing and whats on their plate, and in the process we never tend to mind ours or tend to our own..stay in your lane

People tend to think I'm friends with everyone...lies you tell! 

We all deal with these moments of love and heartbreak but what do we do with what we've been through? How do we get over and through it?

After the last Raw Update episode, I had some people asking me questions about freelancing and why I was in my current status and information that they could use as a take away. So I wanted to answer your questions and then some.  Don't forget to follow me on insta - @Fabiolamichele

I've been gone for a few and man have I been going through it. Here is the real on where I am today. No bull, no sugar coating, just open wounds, and finding a way.

With the ending of Women's History Month, I figured I would tell you a few stories of the crazy woman that is my loving mother Marie Hilaire. She is anything but boring or what you would expect. Enjoy and please tell me about your moms at @fabiolamichele on instagram.

I apologize for two things, one for this being so late and two this being entirely a rant that doesn't completely make sense. Am I the only person when I talk aloud my rants don't completely make sense but at the same time they do. I go from talking about what it means to be a black woman in America, to an episode on the show "Good Trouble", to black love, to the New Zealand shooting, and end with the support of black and brown women, but especially those who are muslim. Hopefully you can follow along, if not, there is always next time. Or you can reach out to me and ask me on my IG @fabiolamichele. 

This week I reached out to those of you following me on instagram [@fabiolamichele], what should this weeks topic be. @Sassystatement asked me what are my 5 non negotiable values and morals while dating. At first I thought of my infamous list of what I look for in a man and then I thought twice about the question. This is really about what I need when I first start dating someone.

People always think working freelance is so much fun and pretty much the life to live. However I got the real awakening of it all. From time management, to money management, I touch a little bit on what it's really like.