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4D Human Being Podcast
27 minutes | 2 months ago
EP35 - Responsibility and capacity (and the dirty hand thing!)
Penelope and Philippa have very different approaches to being early and being late! They humorously discuss these differences, as well as different levels of responsibility we feel in life, how much capacity we each have to juggle things in our lives and of course... doing the whole dirty hand thing!
44 minutes | 3 months ago
EP34 - Shame and unexpected Sunday delivery parcels
In this episode, 4D’s Philippa and Penelope look at the topic of shame. How this universal feeling arises through our interactions, how it can overwhelm us and dictate the choices we make. Join Pen and Phil as they laugh their way through the triggers, feelings and behaviours of shame, getting told off, self-compassion and unexpected Sunday delivery parcels.
43 minutes | 4 months ago
EP33- Life After Lock-Down
In this episode, 4D’s Katie Churchman is talking with Master Coach and Cultural Change Consultant Rebecca Watson about life after lock-down.Rebecca Watson is a thought leader in the field of human consciousness and potential. She works with leaders to help create high performing sustainable cultures and she works with individuals who are going through what she calls 'Mid-Life Awakening'. She's a Speaker, Author and spends most days trying to 'walk her talk'!For more information about Rebecca’s work check out this link.http://www.bromptonassociates.com/
40 minutes | 6 months ago
EP32 - When Sport Stops
In this episode of the 4D Human Being podcast, Penelope Waller and Matt Beresford talk to Jack Rathborn, a sports journalist with the Independent, on how the Coronavirus pandemic has impacted both the world of sport and those who love it. For many people sport is a huge part of life - whether that’s playing, spectating or arguing about it over a beer with friends. It provides the lubricant to a lot of our social interactions and acts as a series of waymarks through the year; it provides a sense of camaraderie, excitement, purpose and tribalism – all of which human beings have sought throughout our evolution. So join Jack, Matt and Penelope as they discuss how the postponement of sport is impacting both them, the people they know and the wider world.
38 minutes | 6 months ago
EP31 - From Dirty Workouts to Tea Cosies
In this episode, Penelope and Philippa are exploring the diverse range of pandemic experiences.The pandemic is so many things. There’s so much goodness showing up and there’s much to grieve. And just like life, it’s not one ‘thing.’Even if we had identical lock-down situations, we would still experience them very differently. And perhaps ‘lockdown’ comparisons aren’t always useful. Because we aren’t the same. Our external and internal worlds are so different, and the challenges From the serious and sad to the lighthearted. From grief, to home schooling, dirty workouts and the pleasure of a tea cosy - can we step-in and embrace this diversity of experiences, within ourselves and in other people?
29 minutes | 7 months ago
EP30 - Calm in a Crisis
We’re pleased to welcome back monk and mindfulness coach Danny Hill back. In this episode, Katie is talking to Danny about staying calm in a crisis. Given that Danny has spent several months at a time in self-imposed solitude and silence, at various ashrams and retreats, we thought he’d be the perfect guest to offer advice and insight that can help us through this period of uncertainty. Many of us around the world right now find ourselves in lock-down and are dealing with varying degrees of challenge and change. So in this episode, Danny offers advice around mindful breathing, staying in the moment and enjoying the blossoms of spring.
32 minutes | 7 months ago
EP29 - Should I get a dog?
In this episode, Penelope and Katie are laughing about some of the not-so-glamorous realities of being in lock-down and talking about how this situation is forcing us to re-think our lives, our priorities and our goals. Across the course of their conversation, they discuss the new-normal, the potential for long-term lock-down, the so-called ‘gifts’ in this situation and whether or not Penelope should get a dog.
40 minutes | 7 months ago
EP28 - Baked Peaches
Whether in normal life or in a crisis as human beings we will all suffer loss. And that may be loss of a loved one, or it may be loss of a routine or a job or loss of meeting a friend. It’s all loss. And we have very different ways of coping. So in this episode, Penelope and Philippa take a light hearted look at a difficult subject during a difficult time. Even in the moments of loss we can find growth, insights, strength and even humour.
28 minutes | 8 months ago
EP27 - Home and work – colliding!
Many of us find ourselves in a situation of working from home. Now whether you typically work from home or not, it’s likely that the home-working circumstances we usually find ourselves in vs what we are now dealing with now, are somewhat different. Whether that’s because we have school-age children at home or because others in our home are now sharing the home-work space (who usually don’t!) - let’s think about what these challenges might be and what’s important in a home-working time of crisis!
30 minutes | 8 months ago
EP26 - From loo roll to love
From loo roll to love are we aware of response patterns in a crisis? And how might we become more conscious of these response patterns so we can choose the response that is going to best serve us in the situations we find ourselves in? Whether its resilience in work or relationships 4D are passionate about creating healthy response patterns in a virtual world.#alwaysatchoice
42 minutes | 9 months ago
EP25 - Anger
Episode 25 is all about anger. Anger is a natural response to feelings of embarrassment, disappointment or betrayal. Yet, many of us see anger as a negative response that we should try to hide and suppress. So in this episode Penelope and Philippa look at anger as a gift—a natural, internal signal that often identifies opportunities for healing and growth. Anger is sending us a message, it’s our internal system telling us something. So, how can we listen to our anger and understand it’s lessons?
30 minutes | 10 months ago
EP24 - Dare to Dream
Our modern world stems from dreams – dreams turned into reality. So if we want to help shape the experience of ours and other people's lives, we have to value the dreaming stage in any project, decision or relationship. Of course, dreaming comes more easily to some of us than others, so in this episode, Katie and Penelope discuss ways to overcome dream blockers and look at how we can build our capacity to dream. Your reality starts from the essence of your dreams and the dreams of those close to you, so start living from your dreams today – with your whole being- and watch as your fantasies turn into your reality.
43 minutes | 10 months ago
EP23 - Mindful Awareness
We’re delighted to have meditation and mindfulness coach Danny Hill (aka 'The Monk on a Motorbike') back on the show. In this episode, we’re talking about bringing mindful awareness into our everyday lives. Living with Mindful awareness is being fully aware and tuned in to what is going on right now, in the present moment. But as Danny and Katie discuss this is much easier said than done as it can be all too easy to go through life on autopilot, caught up thinking about past events or planning for the future. So how might we overcome some of the challenges many of us will have experienced with mindfulness? And how might this transform our experience of life- without necessarily changing anything tangible at all?https://monkonamotorbike.com/
40 minutes | 10 months ago
EP22 - Mirror Mirror
Instead of blaming another person in a relationship, can we turn the mirror on ourselves in order to uncover what we might be rejecting in ourselves? In this funny and light-hearted podcast, Penelope and Philippa turn the mirror on themselves and lean into triggers their triggers. What might we learn when we see our attitudes and behaviours reflected back at us?
37 minutes | a year ago
EP21 - Relationship with Self
Join Penelope and Philippa, as they humbly and openly discuss the relationships we have with our ‘self'.Developing and perhaps deepening the relationship you have with your 'self' can be a challenge in today’s non-stop, 24/7, instant gratification society. So in this podcast, Philippa and Penelope talk about the ways we can overcome some of these difficulties in our lives and how we can learn to appreciate the most important relationship in all of our lives: the one we’re having with ourself.
33 minutes | a year ago
EP20: Acting 'As If...'
In this episode of the 4D Human Being Podcast, Stephanie Kasen and Katie Churchman are talking about acting “as if.” Acting "as if" doesn't mean you have to be fake or inauthentic. It's about changing your behaviour or language and trusting that the feelings will follow. As long as your motivation is in the right place, and you stay connected to your truth, acting “as if” can help your goals become your reality. Just make sure you're interested in changing yourself on the inside, not simply trying to change other people's perceptions of you. So instead of “fake it until you make it” we like to say, “be it to become it.” Be the thing you want to be, start running before you can walk, and step into a new way of being and experiencing yourself and your life.
37 minutes | a year ago
EP19: Internal or External Motivation in a Virtual World
In this episode, Penelope Waller, Stephanie Kasen and Katie Churchman talk about the challenges of working remotely and being part of an international team. As facilitators and coaches at 4D Human Being, they regularly find themselves travelling all over the world for work. However, the 4D team also live in different parts of the world as well, with bases in Milan, London, Charlotte and New York. So a couple of weeks ago, when the trio was running a workshop together in New Jersey, they took the opportunity to record a podcast and speak honestly about the challenges and rewards of working from home, travelling for work and staying connected as an international team.
36 minutes | a year ago
EP18: Shifting Identity: Adapting your identity in a new (and foreign) community
There are many benefits to moving abroad: you may get to embrace new opportunities, perhaps learn a new language and experience the sights, sounds, traditions and flavours of a very different culture. However, moving abroad also comes with its challenges.In April 2018, Etna International asked 500 expats: ‘has your sense of identity changed since living abroad?’, ‘do you like yourself more?’ as well as other questions related to the psychological impact of settling into a new culture. The survey revealed that 35% of expats surveyed said their sense of identity had changedSo, in this episode Katie Churchman and Penelope Waller discuss the challenges, changes and joys that come from moving abroad.
31 minutes | a year ago
EP17: Relational Patterns
In this episode we’ve got both of the Waller sisters on the show at the same time talking about relationship patterns. As identical twin sisters Philippa and Penelope Waller know a lot about understanding the self through relationship. And the truth is that whether we or not we are a twins, in a romantic partnership, or on only child, we are always in relationship. And always have been. We are shaped by the relationships we are in because we do not live in a bubble. We exist within two contexts, the environment and our shared culture. Today’s episode consider how the people in our lives and the relational patterns we form with them are constantly shaping who we are and who we will become. To quote Jacob Moreno, one of the 20th century’s foremost advocates of human interaction defined his fellow human beings as the following: “Man is a relational being.”
36 minutes | a year ago
EP16: So what do you do?
In this episode Philippa Waller is talking with Anna Melville-James about portfolio identity, or rather the ‘what do you do’ question.Anna Melville-James has been a travel writer for 20 years, writing and editing on national papers and magazines. She also helped to set up the Daily Mail’s first ever travel website in 2001. These days she is also...a podcaster on women in business, a journalist with particular interest in later life, environmental issues and the English countryside, a copywriter for luxury brands and a professional face painter. Just to make things *really* confusing when she tries to explain what she does for a living. The question “What do you do?” has basically become synonymous with “Who are you?” And it can be helpful way of quickly giving others a snapshot of who we are and what we do. But there’s also a dark side to introducing ourselves with this kind of shorthand: because labels can lead to stereotypes.
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