Smalley Marriage Radio
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Smalley Marriage Radio is like having your own personal relationship expert wherever you go - and for free! A Marriage and Family expert and International Speaker of over 20 years, Dr. Smalley has been inspiring great relationships through proven strategies for years. Smalley Marriage Radio is the result of his work through the Smalley Institute. If you want to learn how to resolve conflict, better communicate, and actually increase the intimacy in your most important relationships...then this is the show for you! Discover how to get along and argue well, which will restore the hope and satisfaction back to your relationship.
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Is oral sex allowed for a Christian couple
I just received this question and it jumped right off the page at me!
“Is oral sex something that is OK with the Lord, and, is it ok to dress up in a little nurse costume, or such.
I know this sounds so crazy, but I am about to go out of my mind needing to know the answers to this question! We have two boys coming up and I want them to have the best life possible in the Lord………these questions are just not talked about enough!
Thank you for your time and answer. May God richly bless you and all of your family!
MICHAEL: I hate couples who miss out on the joy of sex with each other because they think there are some dos and don’ts—mainly developed through misconceptions.
AMY: That’s right. As married couples, we should be the most open with one another.
MICHAEL: But I just have to hear it from a female. Do you think oral sex is okay?
AMY: I truly do think it’s okay. Within the confines of the relationship, I do. We are one man and one woman, and we are exploring each other’s bodies. We are created for each other’s pleasure. And part of that is oral sex.
MICHAEL: Absolutely. So, there is nothing wrong with it.
But it is okay, again, as long as you are enjoying each other sexually, exploring, coming up with new ideas for each other, and you are both on board. Once sex becomes a deal about me and what I want, and I don’t care what your opinion is or whether you are comfortable or not, then we have a problem.