What happens when you go all in? Can you have work, friends, a relationship, kids and money all on your own terms? Ann Shoket, the longtime editor of Seventeen magazine and author of The Big Life, says it's possible. It may be messy. It may stress you out at times. It may not look like what you thought life was going to look like, but it's there, and she tells us how to take it. Then Kelly and I answer your questions about combining finances before marriage and health savings accounts, and we dish on why estrogen is a good thing to have when investing your money. As always, please share HerMoney with the other women in your world.