Pornography is such an ever-present part of society today, and many couples even think that watching porn together can be part of a healthy sex life. Many couples use porn for ideas or to give their sex life a bit of extra spice. But the research shows that this might not be the best idea. Porn use, either joint or individual, has some very serious consequences for your marriage, from destroying your trust and intimacy to lowering self esteem and even negatively impacting your sex lives in the long-term. The popular view may be that porn is a harmless distraction, but the reality is that it's a dangerous habit that you need to break out of.