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"Every couple fights. Just make sure that the make up sex ALWAYS lasts longer than the fights." —Anonymous Question: Do you use make up sex (and 65% of you do) as a temporary band-aid or an effective tool for growth? Sex is a powerful connection, and especially after an argument when you each have heightened emotions and hormones, sex can become all the more potent. But watch out - if not wielded wisely, sexual intimacy at this time can do more long-term damage than restoration. If you need to go for a run do it. Journal. Take a hot shower. Whatever, but don’t stay in a place of disconnect. At the same time, don’t overlook the power make up sex can have for good in your marriage. If you and your spouse have overcome the hurdles needed for true emotional intimacy, adding the physical intimacy in your re-unification can have a multiplicative effect. It can catapult you two to heightened levels of oneness as you grow through the adversity that life hands you. Talk about what this looks like in your marriage. Maybe sex would be helpful in some cases. Maybe it’s another form of physical intimacy - like a squeeze or a kiss. Just don’t shy away from a conversation because you are afraid of facing a scar your spouse has because of your actions. Use the opportunity to discuss so true healing can occur. EPISODE SPONSOR | Position of the Month Club Every marriage is unique and we want you to get the resources that would most equip you and your spouse for the adventure ahead of you. So whether you're looking for some fresh ideas for the bedroom, all-out access to everything ONE, or something in between, we've got you covered! Partner with us to support your marriage and other marriages around the world. Join the club and help us save, equip and enrich more marriages just like yours! Other Resources: He Zigs, She Zags: Get Your Communication on the Same Path Position of the Month Club Strategic Coaching Session with Alisa Support ONE Extraordinary Marriage by shopping at Amazon.com. Leave a review on iTunes | Submit a question | Call (858)876-5663

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