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Get Your Ex Back You met someone, felt a mutual attraction and the relationship took off. Life was wonderful for awhile. Now you find yourself wondering what went wrong. Despite all the drama, you still care about your ex and want to restore the relationship. So where do you go from here?Many people will tell you there is no way to go back and in some ways there isn’t. But you can have a fresh start. You can clean the slate and get your ex back, learning from whatever went wrong that caused the relationship to end in the first place. Here are some tips to help you get your ex back:1. Don’t act desperate. The non-stop phone calls and text messaging with pleas to come back to you will do you no good. In fact, they will backfire, making you appear weak and extremely desperate. Neither make for an attractive image.2. Don’t turn into a stalker. Refrain from going out of your way to drive by your ex’s home or place of work. Don’t show up at restaurants or stores when you know your ex will be there. Again, the stalker persona is not appealing and won’t help you get your ex back. In addition, it can land you in jail. Get your ex boyfriend back or reunite with your girlfriend, but keep it legal.

3. Do remain positive. Focus on the good things in your life. Assess what went wrong. Speak to a counselor if you need to, but get to the bottom of any personal issues you may have that could have negatively impacted the relationship. Once you have discovered what went wrong, vow to make it right. This positive attitude will help you get your ex boyfriend back in your arms or your ex girlfriend, whatever the case may be.

4. Do apologize. If you owe your ex an apology, swallow your pride and extend a sincere one. Never say, “I’m sorry for doing this, but you did this…,” inserting whatever accusation you have against your ex. An apology is not wrapped with “but” and “because” or other words that take the focus off you and put it on your ex’s issues. Own your mistakes and there’s a good chance your ex will do the same.

5. Find resources to help. Take advantage of resources such as those found at here to help you reunite with your ex the right way. The Magic of Making Up is a great resource that offers the tools you need to restore that relationship and win back the love of your life.

Don’t give up. Don’t listen to the naysayers. Think in the positive and win back the girl or guy of your dreams.

If you follow these steps, you can get your ex back!

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