Dr Judy WTF (What the Freud) broadcasts every Thursday at 8:00 PM Pacific Time in the USA. You can see us live at www.UBNradio.com on Channel 2. It is a call in show. Get on the Couch with your Emotional Ouch USA – 323-843-2826 or Internationally – SKYPE – UBNradio2 We spoke about the inner wounds of the narcissist and how best to speak to them if you must. If you happen to be married to a narcissist or they are your mother father brother sister son daughter and you don't want to break the bond. You may want to learn some skills on how to communicate with a Narcissist. Jay Klapperman, MA, one of the interns at the Psychological Healing Center, demonstrated how to keep connected to the narcissist and not upset them. First, keep away from the "you" word. They will experience it as blame. In general when communicating, be strategic and take all the blame and responsibility off of them so that they can hear you. Many people hope that their narcissistic family member especially their parent will come around on their deathbed and express their dying love and apologies. Don't hold your breath. This does not usually occur. Most narcissistic defenses hold until the moment of death. We will being discussing this more on our next show next week.