Speaking of Sex with The Pleasure Mechanics
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Expert sex advice, proven techniques and candid conversation from The Pleasure Mechanics. Discover how to have the sex you crave! Like Savage Lovecast? You’ll love Speaking of Sex!
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If you want to last longer in bed and prolong intercourse, you can learn ejaculation control and how to separate orgasm from ejaculation. If not, the refractory period will limit just how long intercourse can last. But if you don't stay hard as long as you want to or experience premature ejaculation, you can get creative and explore alternative ways to prolong the pleasure of intercourse, with or without an erection.
In this episode, we cover the ins and outs of prolonging intercourse, including:
shedding the emotional anxiety that is holding you back
communicating with your lover to avoid assumptions
rethinking what it means to last longer in bed
mastering all of the tools of pleasure you have available
maintaining momentum and intensity
keeping a sense of humor while expanding your sexual repertoire
the place of sex toys in prolonging intercourse
This episode was inspired by an email sent in from a listener. Have a question you want answered? Be in touch!
Here's the original email:
Back story our first 2 years together we're amazing sex 2-3 times a day. What some would say the honeymoon phase, she would give me oral and just wanted sex all the time.
But somehow the last 2 years we have faded away from each other. There was a time where she wanted to and I just didn't, I can not recall if it was due to working to much or financial issue that effect my sex drive. So having to turn her down many time she lost the drive, also she has went through a depression stage in her life having lost her job , she was in a dark hole for a while.
We almost broke up last year but have both agreed we need to work things out. We have finally slowly pulled her out of depression and things are getting much better. She is slowly wanting to have sex more often, before she just never had the desire to.
So my question is how do I build up her sex drive like before? Also I saw she told her friend that she just wants to be fucked. But having not had sex for so long consistently, I am having trouble lasting. These days i may only last 10 min which really affect my self image knowing that I can please her and "fuck her". My time is slowly increasing I notice if I focus on pleasuring her I can last longer.
I recently gave her a full body massage then a yoni massage and was able to get her to multiple orgasms with g spot and clit stimulation. After that she wanted sex and then
Rated 5 out of
Easily among the world's top ten greatest podcasts
Speaking of Sex is easily among the world's top ten greatest podcasts. Even top five, maybe. When it comes to sex advice, this podcast is the finest widely-available "periodical" in the English language, in any medium.
This podcast's hosts are named Chris and Charlotte. They virtually always present information in an accessible, practical way. Likewise, they always focus on how real sexual pleasure is best achieved by real people, in light of any relevant emotional or medical concerns.
But what's truly impressive is that even without relinquishing their plain-language/no-bull style, Chris and Charlotte reveal themselves as dynamic advocates for change in our cultural ideas about sex.
In other words, they serve not only as coaches to help us personally attain more pleasure, but also as analysts to point out root social or psychological causes of common sex problems. This is important because we listeners frequently need advice not just on techniques; but on attitudes, expectations, and even general facts regarding what sex is.
An episode called "Shattering the Greatest Myth", from mid-2014, is the epitome of what I'm trying to explain, about how ambitious and special this podcast is.
Date published: 2014-10-23
Rated 5 out of
The best podcast on sexuality I have heard! The hosts are knowledgable, friendly and open-minded - every episode is fascinating, even when not on a subject that I am super curious about, I listen every time cause I get something out of it each time! Highly recommended
Date published: 2014-01-29
Rated 5 out of
One of my favorites!
I listen to almost every show, they've got great levelheaded advice.
Date published: 2014-06-04