Smalley Marriage Radio
About This Show
Smalley Marriage Radio is like having your own personal relationship expert wherever you go – and for free! A Marriage and Family expert and International Speaker of over 20 years, Michael Smalley has been inspiring great relationships through proven strategies for years. The Smalley Podcast is the result of our work through the Smalley Institute. If you want to learn how to resolve conflict, better communicate, and actually increase the intimacy in your most important relationships…then this is the show for you! Discover how to get along and argue well, which will restore the hope and satisfaction back to your relationship.
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He makes me so mad and other lies
3 days ago
If you have ever said, “He makes me so…” Then have we got a show for you! Because there’s something wrong with this statement ladies, and you’d better hear what it is coming up next.
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What’s wrong with the statement, “He makes me so…” Everything! No one makes you anything. You choose to be so.
A random quote on Pinterest peaked my interest, “I survived because the fire inside me burned brighter than the fire around me.”
“My husband is jealous and gets upset when I decide to spend time with girlfriends or have some me time. My husband thinks he’s not jealous and that’s normal. As long as I’m at home he’s fine, but he doesn’t pay attention to me when he is home. But he wants to be intimate. How can I be intimate when he doesn’t make me feel wanted and he’s so jealous it’s very stressful and I feel depressed at times because I feel I have no life. We’ve been married for 4 years, but we were only happy the 1st year. My husband cheated by letters , text messages and phone conversations. Then I caught him and it’s been downhill every since. We’re in marriage counseling but I don’t feel it’s working because he’s not totally honest. I’m ready to give up!”
When you say…”My husband is jealous”…why does that bother you? What’s the button getting pushed. This is always the first step in any conflict.
Facts don’t matter, feelings do
What does it mean when you say, “I have no life”?
Now about the cheating, it’s usually a sign of something bigger. So what might that be?
This is why we do the Reignite Marriage Intensive program.
But you need to set up a boundary, stick to it, and then make changes in your life.
Stop enabling him, he can feel jealous all he wants, that doesn’t mean you can’t hang out with girlfriends.
He doesn’t make you feel depressed, that is yo