Kuldrin's Krypt: A BDSM 101 Podcast
About This Show
With over 20 years in the BDSM community and the mental health field I have gained a unique understanding and respect for the alternative lifestyle.
As BDSM has become more mainstream it is important that people become informed and educated about truth of the BDSM community instead of letting inaccurate books and movies shape minds, opinions, and lifestyles in a way that is both incorrect and unhealthy. Myself and guests, from porn stars to pastors, will dive deep into all sides of the lifestyle to paint an accurate, informed, and unbiased picture of BDSM and the surprising truth behind the psychology of participants.
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S01E17-Moving Online to Offline
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Kuldrin’s Krypt: A BDSM 101 Podcast
S01E17-Moving Online Play to Offline Play
Intro: Welcome to Kuldrin’s Krypt I'm your host Master Kuldrin. If you are new to the show this is a place to dispel myths, get rid of stereotypes, and answer your questions about BDSM. You can call in at 865-268-4005 to leave your question or visit the Krypt at kudrinskrypt.com. Joining us today and every episode hereafter is my new co-host, Funsize. In our last episode we discussed the nuances of online play. Today we’re looking at moving online relationships offline.
When is the Right Time?
Typically most like to try for 6 months to a year after official collaring
Circumstances prove optimal
Things have lined up for a most enjoyable experience
Are you or they nearby? Is this a vacation, or a permanent move?
Are you or they relocating to be closer?
Other situations with jobs, or family lining up just so?
Doing the Switch the Right Way
Avoiding Catfish and Predators
Where to meet
Emergency protocols if things go badly
Have a safe place you can go
Have people you check in with
Making sure you're not isolated
Basic first meeting practices
How Things Will Change
Your bond will grow deeper.
There will need to be another negotiation.
At first you’ll go through a training period.
Things aren’t going to go the way you initially thought they would.
You might feel bored at times. Or annoyed, or depressed.
The more work you put in, the better it will be.
You HAVE to be realistic about your limits, and communicate even more.
You may find that an online life with this person works much better than offline.
Making the Most of the New Experience
Keep it SSC, or RACK, or PRICK
Communicate about everything.
Enjoy every moment.
Have your own space
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NEXT WEEK’S AGENDA
Next week Funsize is going to continue educating us about modern BDSM practices by discussing the ins and out of taking that online relationship to a real world setting. In the meantime visit kuldrinskrypt.com to sign up for our mailing list, to get