Fashionable Finance Podcast | Finding Joy | Finances On The Go
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The Fashionable Finance Podcast is for busy women and busy mom’s who don’t have a lot of time to figure out how to deal with their finances and to have JOY at the same time. Each week’s episodes will uplift, inspire and help busy women and busy moms learn on the go.
It’s also for women to know that it’s OK to talk about money and ask for help. I interview other women who have gone through the ups and downs of trying to figure those things out.
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#024 - What To Do About Comparing Yourself To Other People
Do you compare yourself to other people?
I don’t think it’s a new topic, but I want to talk about how it’s really not equal - you, comparing yourself to other people, because we’re all created differently and that’s the beauty of life is that we’re all different and I just want to let you know there’s no two people - even twins, identical twins are not exactly alike.
So because we’re not alike, you can’t compare yourself to other people. I knowit’s a natural human tendency to compare yourself, and I know i’ve done it before,but I try to I make it a practice of how I live my life now not to compare myselfand its’ great when you’re older, you get a lot wiser and you know better andyou realize that we’re all different and there’s nobody else like me.
I can’t be like somebody else that I admire. I can admire the qualities that theyhave, but it would be really doing myself a disservice to compare myself to thembecause we all come to earth with our own gifts and our own talents.
If you focus on what you have and the gifts that you’ve been given and you tryto make use of those gifts and talents in your life, then you really don’t have timeto compare yourself to other people, and at the end of the day it really doesn’tmake you feel happy anyway!
Usually when you compare yourself to other people, it’s what you see on theoutside, you’re not looking at the whole picture. You don’t know what their lifeis like personally, you don’t know what kind of struggles they have going onmentally and emotionally.
I would ask you to please look at your own gifts and your own talents and notto compare yourself to other people.
As I continue to talk about clothing and style and fitting your clothes, what looksgood on you, I also give clothing care tips because it’s really important to careabout your clothes, not only to care about yourself but, you need to care aboutyour clothes, how to take care of it especially when you spend money on yourclothes - you want it to last as long as possible.
Even though I’m t