Being in an open relationship can strengthen or fold a couple. If you choose to indulge in that lifestyle, make sure you sit down and discuss boundaries. Do not just go along with something just because your spouse may want it. If your not pleased/satisfied/desire certain things within your relationship, do not allow things to continue until those issues are addressed. Figure out what you want and what you need and discuss that with you're spouse. After all, the main objective is to get the ring!