He's the Dj She's the Rapper: Remix your Marriage!
About This Show
Marriage | Faith | Entrepreneurship |Business
Marriage Coaches Lyndan and Vanessa have been together for over 25 years. They are a couple who have gone from teenage pregnancy and welfare to, almost divorcing, to rebuilding their Marriage and owning their own Business.
Why the name? "We believe in every relationship their is a "DJ" -the one who is more quite, okay going to a party and people watching. Keeps to themselves and is cool with that. Then their is the "Rapper" the one who loves to talk! Cant stand awkward silence and needs everyone to love them! Both are great and they compliment each other perfectly! We have figured out how to Remix our Marriage and we are sharing our most valuable tips with you!"
Lyndan and Vanessa want to help you build stronger relationships and bring those butterflies back! Its time to take the steps to Remix your Marriage!
Most Recent Episode
Ep49:Being broke almost broke us-How to get through financial struggles
Aug 4 16
On todays show we show you how we got through our financial struggles! Lack of finances can ruin a relationship. We learned how to get through it and we came out stronger! This episode is a much for those of you who feel like there is no way out! We did it and so can you! Being broke almost broke us! How to get through financial struggles! 1. Learn how to communicate! - Read books or listen to audio books that can help you learn the art of communication. One of our Favorite books for relationships is the 5 Love Languages by Gary Chapman. Really teaches you how to connect with your spouse on their level. There are also plenty of podcast you can listen to. He's the DJ She's the Rapper" Remix your Marriage is one of them. Do your research. Google Google Google! Set a time to talk to each other- Not to nag at each other or point fingers. But to talk and vent. Don't blame each other. Sometimes you just have to let things out. Give yourself a time limit and move on. For example, talk for 15 minutes(set a timer if necessary) and then move on. Holding it in will cause an explosion!! 2. Have Sex!- It sounds crazy but having sex during tough times helps relieve stress and keeps you two bonded! Lack of sex is common for couples who are going through tough times but not healthy! Growing up with a psychologist I learned a lot about couples splitting up because of the lack of intimacy. So get busy! 3. Prayer and Devotions- Pray when you're alone, Pray when you're together. Ask God for clarity and direction. In our Ebook "30 Days of Pray and Play" we walk you through how to Pray with each other and for each other. If you want to hear from God, he needs to hear from you! "What would happen if you stopped asking God, why are am I going through this, and ask God, What are you preparing me for?" Steven Furtick