Spotted, Andy and Aaron arguing over season 3, episode 14 of The CW's "Gossip Girl," entitled "The Lady Vanished." A+A welcome Anna and Neza from The Hara Club podcast (@theharaclub / http://haraclub.podbean.com/) to discuss ghosting, the good intentions of Serena, girls in guy's dress shirts, Damien's attractiveness or lack thereof and the horrors of Dan and Vanessa. Can you go back to being friends after being sexually intimate? Can Jenny be saved? Would Nate have prevented Dark Jenny? Is there more to Nate and Serena than pretty people sex? What the hell is going on with Chuck's (Not?) Mom? Have we had sex on rollercoasters? All these questions and more are answered on this week's rousing installment. XOXO.