Since losing my religion – I’ve lost many of my religious friends. How can I connect with people who recoil when I bring reason to the relationship? My wife asked permission to “flirt” with another man two months after we got married and I kicked her out and asked for a divorce. Did I overreact and should I take her back? Includes: living for heaven, betting on the delusions of the tribe, the joy of wisdom, philosophy as masochism, virtue isn’t a money shot, hatred is the payment for change made by the stagnant, an attack of male sexuality, pornography, rape fantasies and understanding relationship templates.